Apparently, there is still rude person kept being hostile and misunderstood my personal post and not respecting my work and contribution in this The Sims community. Just like what I predicted on my pinned post. I'm still on Tumblr to retrieve non-Sims posts: digital art - related. then I found this notification that this guy @joshttew dare to reblog my farewell post with misunderstood argument and accusation.
WARNING. If you don't want to see argument, then skip this post.
Dear @joshttew, show me proof that I had ever said "Explicit Misogyny", rather than making false and wild argument like that. If you insisted me being "Misogyny" towards women, then you are failed on that point. Farewell post you reblogged from me contains sentence of me praising and complimenting female Sims players that being appreciative to my CC work. Read once again the post you reblogged.
"I appreciate smart women and female Sims players who have good attitude and being grateful to CC creation that the creator made."
If you are smart enough to realize: I only respect smart women with good attitude and have class and manners. and despise low intelligence women with bad attitude and behave trashy with no manners.
The same thing applies to men.
I only respect smart men with good attitude and have class and manners. and despise low intelligence men with bad attitude and behave trashy with no manners.
It's because the last troublemakers who behave rude and swearing vulgar languages were happened to be WOMEN, and Sims community in Tumblr is majority WOMEN, then make sense that I made statement that "This blog doesnāt allow trashy comments & vulgar/rude slang from low IQ and mental illness women."
If this community is majority MEN, and the last troublemakers are MEN, then I will write the same "This blog doesnāt allow trashy comments & vulgar/rude slang from low IQ and mental illness men."
Women and men are treated the same on my blog. No special treatment just because the person is a woman. Women can behave rude and trashy too just like men. Gender equality. Never I have ever said statement to make bad prejudice or hatred towards all women such as "Women cannot play video games, women cannot drive, etc etc" Never. But instead, I have experienced two women made discrimination towards male Sims players. 1) Statement that "Men playing Sims are rare" 2) Male Sims player being assumed as woman is "normal thing" because (she thinks) majority Sims players are women, as if male Sims players do not exist in Sims community. While the account of male Sims player has clearly Avatar of Male Sim. These two women are blocked because one of them reporting my blog to get me shadow-banned and another one kept harassing me tagging my username and sending message to ask me to argument fight with her.
Read definition of misogyny again. Ask ChatGPT if you want.
So women who behave bad in the first place are not allowed to be criticized back? So women are allowed to do cursing vulgar slang to every person she met (men and women), stealing, shoplifting, murdering, destroying public properties, doing corruption in government level? If they got criticized back or punished by men or male police officer, the men will get accused of "misogyny"? What if the person criticized back or punished them are women, do you want to call the women "misogyny"? What do you think about men criticized back other men who behave bad? Misandry?? šRidiculous right?
Wrong is wrong, no matter what gender. Understand my point?
Then back your narrative that
You clearly didn't mention or explain the cause. That the female Simblr said the exact word "I Love You". But you censor it from "appetizing" to "and you completely lost it." as if you are trying so hard to make me look bad, by cutting word to hide from other people who read it.
You clearly being very misunderstood here. Read my blog post once again.
"I LOVE YOU" is supposed to be said as serious word to romantic partner, as vow word to say you love your romantic partner in your lifetime.
Not casual word as substitute as "Thank You" "I Like Your Creation" to stranger person who are opposite sex.
It's out of place, irrelevant, and dangerous to say I Love You to stranger opposite sex, why would a woman, I repeat once again, a woman says "I Love You" to stranger man?
Which point you still don't understand?
Is it so hard to that female Simblr to say proper word and normal sentence such as:
āI love your CC. That made me hungryā
āThank you for the CC, I love them. Your food CC made me hungryā
āYou are my favorite creator for creating this food CC. It made me hungryā.
Look at these comments. These women said "I Love it" which means "I Love this CC" This is how a normal Sims players give compliment or appreciation.
Not "I Love You".
I Love Your CC and I Love You are definitely have very different meaning.
And yet you still don't understand the consequence of saying I Love You to stranger opposite sex like that?
One more thing, the most dangerous part is woman can possibly get "sexual chat" from pervert or sexual predator men on internet unfortunately, well I didn't write on that post because too dark. Because I've ever caught my wife read my Tumblr and reading the comments in front of my eyes.
Do you realize people can cheat on their partner in many apps? Have you ever been in relationship? And you still don't understand the sensitive of woman being angry of jealousy because seeing "I Love You" message from other woman?
I protected my wife to avoid that kind of incident, as I seriously love my wife, I have to write "Avoid using irrelevant word to say especially to opposite sex in internet" because due to danger, make sense, and morality. And I remind people on tumblr that there are men on sims community. Then why are you still thinking negative by calling me overreacting? You are being overreacting here. While female Simblrs in my surrounding do not have problem with me, and they complimenting my CC work. And you still defending that female Simblr that clearly wrong for saying I Love You as irrelevant/inappropriate word to say to opposite sex in gaming community context, instead of saying "I Love it" "I Love Your CC" "Thank you for the CC" ?
Yes i know woman can say I Love You, babe!!! Kiss hug etc to fellow women. I dare that woman to say I Love You to random men (with his wife) on street, male-coworkers, male Youtubers, male Sim modders on Mod The Sims forum. I bet she doesn't dare. If she doesn't dare then dont say the word on me, male CC creator too. My Simblr account clearly stated that I am a man.
The likes of that post are all or almost all (not sure about dfelder) are female Simblrs and they don't have problem with me personally.
Then why are you, a guy, suddenly being so offended? Write accusation like that by reblog instead of comment, because I, the author of original post cannot delete your accusation writing by reblog? Very shady. You befriend with @aisquaredchoco aren't you? Why can't you be like her? Behave calmer, being understanding about the problem and being appreciative of CC creation that creator made? But instead, you became "One of Them": Rude person kept being hostile and misunderstood my personal post and not respecting my work and contribution in this The Sims community. Dare to accuse me "Explicit Misogyny" in block letter that I've never done and never said. That is farewell post, and you don't have any empathy because I will be gone, instead you are getting more anger against me on that post, taking the advantage that I'm inactive after I posted the last post?
What purpose do you want to achieve by painting me as a bad guy in your narrative of reblogged post? Do you want other Simblrs to hate me then send me hate comment towards me? As a CC creator have I ever steal somebody else's work? No. As a CC creator have I ever monetizing my work until being greedy on Patreon? No. I don't earn any money from every CC creation I made.
Have I ever insulted you in person? If I have ever rejected your functional Chinese food CC request in long time ago, it's because: 1) I didn't know how to make functional food CC at that time. 2) I didn't accept any CC request, as my blog rule says. 3) You didn't say any compliment before making CC request in message. And I just told you to read my blog rules. Simple. Have I ever send you rude vulgar slang that made you insulted? But your reply after that to me was, "Don't mention / involve me, I don't want to be associated with your account!!"
I was confused why were you said that.
While I had published Functional Yuebing (Mooncake) CC which is Chinese dessert, I don't see your name like, reblog, or comment on that post.
Even if you said about me in your narrative like that, nobody cares and reacts about your writing in your reblogged post and nobody sent hate messages to me. Instead, I've gotten more compliment and likes from other Simblrs again.
I remind you that I'm much older than you and you are younger than me. I have more experience in life than you. And I'm educated and have two university degree and work as professional digital artist and 3D designer in corporate. |If you want to argue with me, consider: Be smarter and show me proof rather than making wild assumption like high school student.
Behave polite and respectful to people who are older and experienced in life than you and giving free CC creation for you and community. Don't bite hand that feeds you. If you dislike me, then fine. I cannot make all people in this world are happy with me. You are free to unfollow/block/ignore/scroll away my post. Pretend that I don't exist in your Tumblr feed.
Mind other people's business and writing on their post. People can write what they want, what they feel, what they opiniated about to express their thoughts. If you are offended by my writing then you are not my target audience.
Don't defend person who was clearly wrong, no matter the gender. I got called "Fuck Off", "Bitching", "Crappy" and blog post got reply "Attention whores" by female Simblrs. Do you still think those women as nice as angel & their words acceptable, just because they are women? By writing accusation like that, you chase away creator like me who can make functional Asian Food CC for The Sims 3, including functional Chinese Food CC you requested/hoped for. You are being the odd one here, lacking empathy, while others, the female Sims players, showing support to me. Person like you that made me will not going back to The Sims community again.
