I have this theory, that the first ship you get REALLY into preps your expectations for future ships and how they're going to be handled.
For example, if your first "big ship" was Johnlock (poor thing), then you probably don't expect any of your ships to become canon. Two men could literally kiss on screen (ineffable, I know), and you'll still expect them to go through separation and pain the next season, and you're not even sure they'll end up together. You've seen something you thought would be "obviously canon", and were betrayed the worst possible way. You still have trust issues.
Meanwhile, if your first ship was Destiel, you are DETERMINED. No matter how unlikely, or how long it takes, you'd still believe in your ship. It can become canon, you just know it. But you don't trust how the writers will handle it. It will be canon, but... At what cost? You're prepared to choose a fanfic to replace canon in your mind, and to make usage of a generous dose of headcanon.
All this to say that my first ship was Tomitch, or two obscure comedy characters from an obscure french YouTube office comedy show, in an era where homophobia was EXTREMELY rampant in those spheres. I did not believe it would become canon for a SECOND. By season two, they were both engaged to their girlfriends.
Then, season three happened. And the comedy show became increasingly serious, with some drama sprinkled in. And by the end of it, not only is your ship CANON, but they're literally the prophesied lovers from a weird alien cult, and one of the girlfriends comes out as Aro/Ace (kinda, she doesn't outright say it like that).
So yeah.
That's where the bar is.
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