#iud insertion

I can't begin to explain how infuriating it is to receive healthcare as a woman. I just got an iud inserted to treat a hormonal issue, and they offer no painkillers, no anesthesia, nothing. They pinch your cervix with two needle-like pincers, tug on it to make it taut, and shove something in there. It's an organ inside your body like any other. In what fucking world does it make sense to do any of this raw?! I can GUARANTEE that if it was a procedure men could get, they'd only offer to do it under anesthesia. They take advantage of the fact that it's an organ that is accessible from the outside. Not only is it an internal organ, but it is arguably the most sensitive one. You wouldn't think to do that with the liver, stomach, etc.

Always There

Summary: Y/N faces the discomfort of an IUD placement, but with her loving husband Connor by her side, she finds strength and comfort in his support, helping her through the tough moments with love and reassurance.

Y/N had been struggling with her periods for months. The cramping, the discomfort, the constant fluctuation of hormones that left her exhausted and sometimes emotionally drained. It had taken a while to get to this point—finally scheduling an appointment to get an IUD placed to help regulate everything.

The last time she had an IUD placed, it had been a nightmare. The pain was unbearable, the cramps afterward almost made her pass out, and the emotional rollercoaster she rode for weeks afterward left her feeling far from herself. She swore she’d never do it again.

But after talking with her gynecologist, she’d decided it was the right choice. She had to give it another try. And in true Connor fashion, her loving husband wouldn’t hear of her going alone. He made sure he took the day off from the hospital to be with her.

“Sweetheart, you okay?” Connor asked softly, his voice full of concern as they waited in the small exam room.

Y/N tried to smile, but the anxiety was making her heart race. “Yeah, just nervous. I know it’s the best choice, but… last time wasn’t easy.”

Connor reached over, giving her hand a gentle squeeze. “I know, babe. I was right there with you the last time. And I’ll be right here this time, too. You don’t have to do this alone.”

She nodded, taking a deep breath. Connor’s presence had always been a comfort, especially when things felt overwhelming. He’d been there for her through every hurdle—every health setback, every tough decision. And knowing he’d be there this time, too, made it feel a little easier.

Just then, the door opened, and her doctor walked in, flashing a warm smile. “Good morning, Y/N! Ready to get started?”

She nodded and gave a small, forced smile. “I’m ready.”

As the procedure began, Y/N gripped Connor’s hand tightly. His thumb stroked the back of her hand soothingly, his eyes never leaving hers. The pain was sharp as the doctor placed the IUD, and Y/N couldn’t help but wince, squeezing her eyes shut.

“I’m right here, sweetheart,” Connor murmured, his voice soft and steady, trying to keep her grounded.

The procedure seemed to drag on forever. But eventually, it was over. She could feel the tension leave her body as the doctor finished up, and she let out a shaky breath, relieved it was done.

Connor kissed her forehead gently. “You did great. How do you feel?”

Y/N exhaled slowly, her eyes still closed as the doctor took her vitals and prepared to leave. “Sore, but I’ll be okay. It’s not as bad as last time, thankfully.”

Once the doctor left and they were alone, Y/N sat up slowly, looking at Connor, who was smiling down at her. His hand rested softly on her knee.

“You are so strong, you know that?” Connor said, his voice filled with admiration. “I’m so proud of you.”

Y/N chuckled softly, still feeling the residual pain but grateful for his unwavering support. “I didn’t feel very strong during that.”

“Even when you don’t feel it, you’re stronger than you give yourself credit for,” Connor replied, his voice full of affection.

“Thanks, Con,” Y/N said quietly. “I don’t know what I’d do without you.”

“You don’t have to,” he smiled back, his eyes full of love. “You’ve got me for as long as you need. And when you’re ready to leave, I’ve got a comfy couch at home waiting for you and a big bowl of your favorite soup. You’ve earned it.”

Y/N smiled back at him, feeling a wave of relief wash over her. Despite the discomfort and the nerves leading up to it, Connor was always there for her, making everything feel a little lighter.

When they finally left the office, she felt exhausted but thankful. And as they made their way to the car, Connor reached over and squeezed her hand.

“You’re incredible,” he said simply, and Y/N couldn’t help but smile.

“I’m only incredible because I have you by my side.”

I want a full hysterectomy. I am sick of the cramps, I want no chance of ever getting pregnant, and a tubal litigation alone isn't worth the effort over an IUD if I can't get the offending organs removed when they've been causing problems for over two thirds of my life. I also have family medical history to suggest that if it's not endometriosis, it's probably ovarian cysts (my mother had to get surgery 2 years ago for what I'm fairly certain were ovarian cysts, but I don't know much of the details), and that also warrants surgical removal. So how the FUCK do I get someone to actually screen me for any of that at 22 given I've had symptoms my entire life?

For reference I have autism, massive tactile defensiveness, and all the decorum of a wet cat when handled the wrong way. I avoid doctors unless necessary, have never had a pap smear, and don't go to the dentist for the above reasons.

You likely have the Mirena/progestin containing IUD, which, due to its nature of containing and circulating systemic progesterone, can cause bloating and fluid retention, and the slowing of the normal movement of your bowels which does, yes, lead to increased natural gas development.

While usually these symptoms subside within about 6 months of the IUD being put in, some suffer with longer term symptoms.

I'm glad it's being checked out for location! This all otherwise sounds, sadly, 'normal' for female contraception side effects to me.

☝️ Us on all of our lovely lovely lovely hormonal contraception.

Love,

This maybe TMI but this is also my safe space so I can say whatever I want as long as I'm not hurting anybody.

YA'LL ...

I just returned home from my IUD insertion appointment and let me TELL you, that procedure is no joke. I have been on birth control many times before but never gotten an IUD insertion, I was a Nuvaring girlie bc it's easy to insert and remove. No pain involved at all. However, you have to change it out once a month and you still have your period.

That's alright for women who like to have their period, but after reading the book Period Power by Maise Hill, doing more research on why they happen and how, and talking to my gynecologist I realized two things:

I'm not planning on getting pregnant anytime soon (or possibly ever) So birth control is a must for me.

I do not need to have my period unless I am planning on getting pregnant-- which I am certainly not.

Periods are normal and beautiful but we all know how inconvenient and painful it can be to deal with, so I made the decision to get an IUD inserted (the Kyleena brand) which lasts up to 5 years and is 99% effective. It will also lighten my period and cramps significantly or even take away the period all together.

If ya'll are thinking of getting it is a perfectly safe procedure that does not require surgery to put in or remove. However..... That shit hurts!

My gyno told me it would feel like period cramps because she had the procedure done on herself and I said okay, i can take some period cramps! But no... this felt like the worst cramps in the world! I don't have endometriosis but I think that's what it might feel like. The good news is that it doesn't last more than a few days so I just took some ibuprofen to get me through.

Long story short is that I think it's worth it (I'm saying that through the current pain I have) but just be prepared for a short but intense disturbance of your uterus.