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HAPPY IAD DAY EVERYONE!💜🤍🩶🖤

Since explaining my sexuality usually results in people asking all kinds of uncomfortable questions, I keep with me the definition card and let it do the job for me, and I tell them I wont explain any further, because personally, it’s not their businessI’m a proud Ace, but that doesn’t mean I have to openly tell people I just met about all the details about my sexuality. Asexual people can masturbate, have sex, watch porn, be sex repulsive, neutral or positive. That doesn’t mean we have to tell you extensively if we do or are any of these as soon we tell you we are Ace. Please respect us regardless of our place in the spectrum💜

Happy International Asexuality Day, Black Asexuals! 🖤🩶🤍💜

spACE

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Happy International Asexuality Day!! 🖤♠️🩶💜

Remember, you are valid, there is nothing wrong with you!! 🖤🩶🤍💜

Note I'm gona be talking about how it effects me personally. Everyone is diffrent.

I think the most common reponce to learning about demi is "isnt that normal.". To which the answer is definitely no. I have litterly only felt attraction to one real person in my whole life and I'm 24 now. That attraction took a year to develop. Important to note we where not dateing then and we didn't start dateing untill years later. Lucky me we are together now but if that wasn't the case I dont think I would be dateing anyone at this point. In the years inbetween that I did try dateing and nothing ever like clicked. I can be attracted to fictional characters sometimes but that also usually takes along time. Many more hours than my allo counter parts.

On top of that finding someone one your attracted to doesn't erase your aceness. I still have a much lower sex drive than my my allo counter parts. Along with that the list of what I'm ok with and when is way more particular than most allo people's. Agin very lucky to have a partner who is chill about all that but, not everyone is so lucky. Honestly most people aren't that understanding and me being lucky with the person my brain desied to except doesn't mean every demi gets a story book ending.