#flame magic

I asked my two friends a much of “this or that” questions with the elements (example: Air or Water? Water or Fire? Fire or Earth? Earth or Air? Etc.)

This friend of mine ^ never once chose Fire in any of these, so I asked the question above.

I know it’s completely their voice to have that option on the element, tho what if they only know or can think of how dangerous Fire can be & not the positives?

I’m new to candle magic and wanted to share to get insight. Please be kind - I am still learning.

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My mental health could be better at the moment and I have been feeling as if it is affecting my relationship. I am definitely overthinking things.

I decided to do a spell with three candles - blue (my mental health) yellow (draw in happiness and positivity) and orange (add vitality/new energy into my relationship).

I’m curious what are folks interpretations.

My intuition is telling me that the spell is confirming that my mental health is indeed creating issues in my relationship, rather than the relationship actually having issues.

The blue candle burned so much faster and the flame was so much bigger. It started burning uneven and as the candle burned I saw two wicks were actually part it. One wick burned out and now the candle is finally burning stable and even again with the one wick.

Looking for resources on fire magic, but not candle-specific (bonfires, etc.) Specifically, flame reading? Thank you!