Hi! So I've been questioning my gender/sexuality lately. I feel a strong, burning attraction to girls and femininity, but am never able to act on it. Gender-wise, I feel somewhere female-aligned with soft androgynous/masc characteristics. Is there a label for this? I'm new to the MOGAI community and dont know what fits yet. Thank you so much!!
Okay, so let’s see.. for your attraction to women, you could use:Â
Woma-/Woman-/Gyno-: attraction to women
Fin-: attraction to feminine identifying people.
Fe-: an attraction to feminine gender expression regardless of someone’s gender.
Venusic: a nonbinary person attracted to women and nonbinary lunarians.
For not wanting to act on it, the closest is:
Aco- / Acor- Experiencing attraction that one wants to act on, but at the same time having a strong aversion to engaging in it due to bad experiences, apprehension, or other misgivings about being involved in romantic relationships or sexual activity, etc.
As for your gender, the term used for female-aligned is Lunarian.
For the androgynous/masc part, you could perhaps use something like Nixangivir, which is a mix of Nixvir and Nixangi.
Nixvir: an identity that is comprised of both genderless and boy-aligned aspects, which may manifest as partially identifying as a boy. these aspects can be experienced simultaneously, fluidly, or through fluctuations. intended for those who feel both connected and detached from manhood and for those who have difficulty distinguishing their alignment from their gender.
Nixangi: an identity comprised of both genderless and partial androgynous or androgyne-aligned aspects. These aspects can be experienced either simultaneously, fluidly, or through fluctuations. Intended for those who feel both connected and detached from androgyny and for those who have difficulty distinguishing their alignment from their gender.
