#feelingentitled

“A generation of “good little boys and girls” has created a generation of adults who may never feel completely valued and appreciated for their continual self-sacrifice and blind obedience to societal rules.” J. Milburn⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ “I followed all the rules and paid my dues... why have I not been rewarded?” ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ See this is why even when extrinsic motivation, such as praise and rewards, are effective in developing pro-social behaviours, the mentality still creates a brain structure that can cause unhappiness and a sense of entitlement, later in life. This can be hard to change, given the hardwiring of your brain. If you find this concept really hard to understand how it could possibly “work”, it may be due to exactly this. When we feel entitled to good fortune, because of our behaviour, we set up an unrealistic paradigm that will most like lead to disappointment. ⁣⁣ 👉 Change how you respond to challenging behaviours with our Toddler Workshop Series. Find a link in my bio @responsive_parenting 👆⁣⁣ #responsiveparenting #jmilburn #newageparenting #intrinsicmotivation #feelingentitled #lifefulfillment #parentingforsocialchange #parentyourway #generationaltrauma #motherwound #innerchildhealing #healingthemotherwound #punishedbyrewards #children #childhood #childhoodmemories #justsayin #realtalk #kids #parenthood #parentlife #nice #kidlife #goodoldays https://www.instagram.com/p/CfBw6iqrjPk/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

“A generation of “good little boys and girls” has created a generation of adults who may never feel completely valued and appreciated for their continual self-sacrifice and blind obedience to societal rules.” J. Milburn “I followed all the rules and paid my dues... why have I not been rewarded?” See this is why even when extrinsic motivation, such as praise and rewards, are effective in developing pro-social behaviours, the mentality still creates a brain structure that can cause unhappiness and a sense of entitlement, later in life. This can be hard to change, given the hardwiring of your brain. If you find this concept really hard to understand how it could possibly “work”, it may be due to exactly this. When we feel entitled to good fortune, because of our behaviour, we set up an unrealistic paradigm that will most like lead to disappointment. 👉 Change how you respond to challenging behaviours with our Toddler Workshop Series. Find a link in my bio @responsive_parenting 👆 #responsiveparenting #jmilburn #newageparenting #intrinsicmotivation #feelingentitled #lifefulfillment #parentingforsocialchange #parentyourway #generationaltrauma #motherwound #innerchildhealing #healingthemotherwound https://www.instagram.com/p/CSCn3bIHFmM/?utm_medium=tumblr

“A generation of “good little boys and girls” has created a generation of adults who may never feel completely valued and appreciated for their continual self-sacrifice and blind obedience to societal rules.” J. Milburn “I followed all the rules and paid my dues... why have I not been rewarded?” See this is why even when extrinsic motivation, such as praise and rewards, are effective in developing pro-social behaviours, the mentality still creates a brain structure that can cause unhappiness and a sense of entitlement, later in life. This can be hard to change, given the hardwiring of your brain. If you find this concept really hard to understand how it could possibly “work”, it may be due to exactly this. When we feel entitled to good fortune, because of our behaviour, we set up an unrealistic paradigm that will most like lead to disappointment. #responsiveparenting #jmilburn #newageparenting #intrinsicmotivation #feelingentitled #lifefulfillment #parentingforsocialchange #parentyourway #generationaltrauma #motherwound #innerchildhealing #healingthemotherwound https://www.instagram.com/p/CPD8nmXnl51/?utm_medium=tumblr

Grabbed this from @andrechristiantorres it's so apt to how I felt today. That person ruined my groove today. Warped sense of entitlement. No excuse to be arrogant and rude. Jolog! #feelingentitled #jologmentality #classcantbeboughthoney https://www.instagram.com/p/B0x5mxnh-h0/?igshid=2gm7qm4xkup