I love the anti endo community but can we perhaps not tell people to kill themselves that'd be great thanks...
Being anti harassment is really hard even on the anti endo side. Endos are worse but like... sweet hell guys. Stop. Why are so many of you literally telling others to kill themself, what happened to being respectful and level headed
(This does NOT mean we're pro endo AT ALL. WE ARE NOT.)
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Unfriendly reminder that bullying can absolutely be traumatic and calling someone "un-traumatised" just because they were "only" picked on/bullied is fucking weird, especially if you dont know exactly what they've been through.
TW: light discussion of trauma anniversaries in the context of programming.
Mostly just an annoyed ramble, but wanted to TW just in case.
Being a programmed system with a less common trauma anniversary relating to rituals and such sucks because everyone's like "Oh be careful around systems during Halloween :( they could get triggered!!!"
Which is fine and all, I don't mind this AT ALL. Do whatever you see fit.
But ours is related to Christmas, not Halloween. And the second it turns November (it starts in early October tbh, but it gets SO much worse as soon as Halloween is over), everyone's ranting and getting excited about Christmas, and it just sucks that people don't consider other religious holidays as trigger potentials be ause nobody ever seems to take us seriously when we bring it up.
Everyone wants to talk about warning or avoiding orange, black, purple, etc, avoiding themes of Halloween creatures and whatnot. But if we mention that red white and green together, or those specific angel figurines, or the music, make us get triggered? Then we just get called some variation of a party pooper.
Its not a huge deal for the community I guess, but for us it really is.
Doesn't help that the body's birthday is around that time too.
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Endos saying shit like "ew you're anti endo, blocked" and its giving the same vibes as the entitled customers in stores who threaten to never come back if they don't get their way. As if its some sort of groundbreaking earthshattering loss. Which it isnt.
Scrolling thinking surely I won't see anything gross and triggering, we follow enough anti-endos and people who actually respect real systems, right?
Nope. Anti harrassing paras post, so I think ok well fair, thats a disorder, I dont support harassing them either. So i look at their url. "Transharmed", ew thats gross but whatever. Figured, I'll check their page. "Pro-endo" ok now youre really doing it. Then I scroll further (i was curious, this was a mistake) and then i see "transprogrammed" ??? What the honest fuck is wrong with some of you people. They had reblogged "transprogrammed tips" HUH. And it doesn't even sound like anyone involved has done an ounce of research.
You're just gonna... what, make up "cues" on the spot when people say stuff you think would make a fun little roleplaying scenario??? At least have the decency to keep it to yourself instead of making other people feel like shit because you decided to play pretend.
I cant tell if this is like some level 5000 mental gymnastics to avoid acknowledging trauma or if we're deadass looking at people who want to be programmed. I'd say switch places with us, if you want it so bad - but even i dont wish this on anyone, even as shitty people as you. Just go to fucking therapy or something.
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