look. im going off anon for this, which is something i never do tbh. i ship sk. i ship it like hell. but i like kl too, and when i saw that post, i laughed. it was a good joke, and tbh i was like "wtf why cant u see keiths hand maybe he IS holding lances hand". people go on and on about klantis, but there are sheith shippers who take it way too fucking far sometimes. you don't deserve hate or problems for that. you seem like a genuinely nice person who doesn't deserve crap for what you ship. (1)
Ā”you deserve as much happiness with your ship as we get with ours. as much as id like things to be canon, i realize that it might not be, and no matter what, no one deserves to be hated on or pestered because of what they ship. klance is a damn beautiful ship, and some sk shippers need to realize that by harrassing people over ships, they have sunk to @ntis levels. so you keep on shipping your great ship and dont listen to what anybody has to say about it. youre doing amazing sweetie. (2)
ALSO another thing that some sk shippers need to realize is that kl shipper =/= anti!! sure, it's definitely a thing (oh boy is it a thing) but just because someone ships kl doesnt mean theyre an anti! sometimes the sk side of the fandom can be pretty damn hypocritical too, and it pisses me off. sk is a good ship. kl is a good ship. one ship is not inherently better than another, even in regards to whether or not itll be "canon". just let people enjoy what they want! sorry for venting a bit. (3)
OH FRESHLY BREWED JUNIBERRY??
(for context, hereās the s8 poster shitpost in question, hereās me popping off, and hereās me popping off part 2 electric boogaloo i was MAD last night akdsjfjksakfj)
iām gonna start of by saying that i donāt think this is actually an s/k vs k/l situation? because this behavior is NOT a thing reserved to s/k shippers, itās just that as that ship has exploded in the past year so has the number of people who are s/k shippers doing this so it just feels like it, but i see it across the board. itās not s/k thing and i donāt want it to be labeled as such. itās just that because s/k has become so big you can find more examples of it than if you went searching in s/l, a/l, p/l, etc. could some of that behavior be s/k vs k/l? iām sure youād be hard pressed not to find at least one person like that out there, but i actually believe this stems from more of a non-k/l shipping fandom issue than anything else.
i feel like i should address what counts as antĀ” behavior, especially as an ex-antĀ” myself. but thatās probably a post iāll make separately from this one though as i want to be able to word it correctly and make it so that people donāt feel like iām coming for them or their ship. the fact is that some people genuinely donāt recognize their behavior for what it is because itās almost been reinforced that theyāre doing the right thing by so many for so long theyāve let themselves go unchecked and because of that itās just spiraled out of control.
but yeah, just because someone ships k/l doesnāt mean theyāre an anti! i think that sometimes people just jump the gun, and honestly iām not going to make excuses for them anymore. the thing is itās not even that every sha/adin shipper has been personally harassed for their ship, because statistically thatās just not possible. i really donāt think people are writing anons, @ ing in posts, etc to every single sha/adin out there. and before you come for me saying i could never know what itās like, i have had my inbox flooded by both sides, i have been vagued about by both sides, i have had call out posts, sha/adin twitter memed me (briefly, but tbh im not mad about that IT WAS FUNNY), i was on vld.flops, and at one point iāve had law enforcement involvement (to be fair, that was for antĀ”s coming after me, not sha/adins) like iāve been through that. thatās personal harassment. and yeah, seeing antĀ”s post mean stuff in the tags, seeing them go after your favorite blogs or your friends, and in general just... their overall disrespect towards people in general is pretty bad, but none of that warrants you walking around with a chip on your shoulder or being able to just āgo offā at any and all times. even if you have been personally harassed once or even multiple times, you donāt get to do it back. thatās not how you enact change.
anyways, if you donāt like k/l and k/l shippers that much, and seeing them reminds you of bad things, i donāt blame you at all, but that really doesnāt excuse shitty behavior. as we say in the pro ship side of things, blacklist is your religion, and if you need a more heavy duty option (that removes the post entirely from your dash, as in the whole āthis post is blocked because xyzā wonāt even show up the whole thing is just gone), xkit is free! if seeing it bothers you that much, donāt go scrolling through the tags, donāt go scrolling through blogs, donāt go after people bnf vague, and if you do see something, just scroll past it. in all honesty by commenting youāre just worsening the already oozing, festering, cluster fuck that is this fandom even if that post in question is by a hateful person, and thatās the at best scenario. at worst, you look like a dumbass who takes everything way too seriously by picking on a person who just made a shitpost for fun.
thank you so much for the encouragement, it really means a lot especially knowing that youāre part of the s/k fandom. having that support and knowing that not everyone is just going to think iām a raving, rabid k/ancer uwu for getting upset over constantly being unfairly jeered at does help a great deal! im just... tired of feeling dread when my ask box lights up, or my stomach getting sick when i scroll through my activity feed. i know im usually a low sodium blog (and we will be returning to low sodium hours shortly) but i think this is something that needs to be talked about. people shouldnāt be able to get away with this behavior.
