Before our twin flame enters our life, we meet our false twin flame.

The purpose of our false twin flame is to do the final preparations before we are ready to meet our true twin flame. Mostly, it’s a dry run for the real thing.

But the false twin flame relationship can only end when we realise that it is false.

So we thought we would do a rundown of the main differences between a true twin flame and a false one – and how you can tell them apart.

They Feel Like Your Twin Flame

All the signs are there. You have read articles on this site on how to know your twin flame, and they meet every criteria.

They seem like the real deal.

In the beginning, your false twin flame will be indistinguishable from your true twin flame. But deep down, there is a nagging doubt that won’t go away.

They Live In The Past

You find yourselves talking about the past a lot, often making a deep emotional connection through shared experiences.

Your false twin flame often helps you to heal those old wounds in preparation for your true twin flame.

Your true twin flame will help you to focus on where are you going, not where you have been

False Twins Heal, True Twins Grow

Related to that, your false twin flame relationship will deal much more with healing your emotional and spiritual wounds, whereas your true twin flame relationship will be far more focused on growing and thriving.

A false twin helps you to accept who you are. A true twin helps you to be the best you can be.

You Are More Into It Than Them

One quirk of the false twin flame relationship is that it is remarkably one-sided.

For you, it will feel like a twin flame relationship, like the coming together of spiritual powers in the universe geared towards destiny and ascension.

For your false twin, it is just another relationship.

But with your true twin, you are both experiencing the twin flame relationship in all its glory and heartache.

Something Feels Uncertain About It

Lastly, you’re starting to realise that you aren’t so sure that this is your true twin flame.

This happens when your spirit guides decide that your preparation is done. They know that you are ready for your true twin flame, to embark on the true journey you are meant for.

They speak to you through your intuition. You feel it in your gut that this isn’t the real deal, that you have a false twin flame.

And Then It Ends…

Giving up your false twin flame relationship might be difficult. After all, it was close enough to the true twin flame relationship, wasn’t it?

With hindsight, you will see that although your false twin and true twin are eerily similar, there just wasn’t that little piece of the puzzle that completed it.

They will move on – a little too quickly for your liking – and you will embark on your true twin flame journey.

And all you need to do is gain enough perspective that you see your false twin flame relationship for what it truly is.

That has been a hot topic for the past few years. More and more people awaken to their mission and that’s great! But all this publicity and openness is leaving a lot of egos unsatisfied. Many people ask for their twin flame, without having much knowledge or awareness of what a twin flame really is. If you ask yourself the question “Have I met him/her?” or go ask a psychic “When will I meet them? Have I met them?” I can answer straight away, NO.

The twin is not a romantic partner, not a soulmate. It’s you. We have all heard that and it sounds very fluffy, ye ye, I know. This is what the divine showed me. That’s how they look in their pure (true) energetic form. This might help you understand better. 

The Divine Feminine 

The Divine Feminine looks like a ball of energy and light. Imagine a sphere that’s dense and thick inside, it’s like a nuclear core. It’s pure power and love, usually the feminine energy is much more powerful than the masculine cos of that reason. And usually that’s why the females are often much more emotional and emotionally intelligent than males, cos of the divine feminine. It’s a much more developed energy. However, it’s a very unprotected and unstable energy. As it expands and grows, it needs its masculine to do the same, expand to be able to contain her. 

The Divine Masculine 

Well, the DM energy is quite the opposite of course. It looks like an empty sphere, but the outside material is different. It’s almost hard, solid, unbreakable energy. Protective. It acts as the shield to the feminine, whereas the feminine acts as the nuclear core, the engine. That is why there needs to be a perfect vibrational match before they can come together. Imagine if the masculine energy is more expanded than the female. What would happen if they came together? There will be “space” , the DM will feel hollow inside if the feminine is not expanded enough. And vice versa, the feminine will feel trapped within the masculine, or the masculine will feel as if he “isn’t enough” because he truly isn’t enough on an energetic level. 

Before twins come together physically they often do the “soul merge” hence the separations. It’s the period of integration of one soul to the other. Because we are still connected, we still communicate, we are just working more on a soul level rather than a physical. And it’s one of the toughest challenges.  

ALL Twins are as well connected to small groups, connected to the collective. That’s very important to know and remember that we are not individuals, walking the path of romance. No... this is pure and unconditional love and has nothing to do with romance.  We often come here with a mission, our first mission is to come together, our next mission is perhaps have kids, prepare the new generation of twins, and our collective is to cleanse karma on a global scale. It’s the wave of “Volunteers”. It’s a fucking tough job, it’s special of course, but it’s hard, and it breaks you down to your core, often makes you wanna give up and curse your own soul for signing up. 

And just because not all twins will come together in this life, or are not even born together in this lifetime, does not mean people will not find love. Love is the basic yo. It’s the root. You can love everyone and anyone, regardless of their “soul status” to your soul. Hell, I’m one of those rare and almost non-existent cases where I still love my dark twin. Not in a romantic way, but he is kinda like a kid to me. I see a lot of potential in him, and I see him wasting it away. But I love him cos I chose to. Things could have developed in a very different way. Life separating us, even tho we were already separated from distance. But it’s all about a choice and how much you learn.

Sometimes your soul team will take action to separate you for that very reason. Because it is a hard and traumatic experience, and at some point the pain becomes suffering that’s impossible to escape. That’s usually when the true twin meeting happens. It’s a wake up call to who you are and who you can be. It’s and experience that helps you overcome the dark twin challenge much easier and faster. Anyways! I got carried away, that’s another topic.

The Mirrors 

Really each person in your life will be your mirror if you have the eyes and wisdom to see it. But it will be more of a conscious mirror, you will be reflecting back to your own self. 

The dark twin will be one of your greatest mirrors but they will mostly mirror your shadow side/darkness. They cannot reflect back to you anything else. They are much like leeches, they just take and take, and give nothing back. 

The true twin, your other self, will be able to reflect everything back at you. They will reflect back your strengths, your powers, your talents. They will also reflect back to you your shadow side, but they do it in such a fun and loving way. It’s almost like a child’s play. And it is! For twins this last life is a game, it’s a child’s play! And we often forget to enjoy it and have fun, and actually play the game. 

Each and every connection is unique. I see people trying to defy them as 1st, 2nd and 3rd wave, and yes there are some similarities, but it’s hard to make all twins fit in one or the other group. We as humans are very used to structuring and boundaries.  We want to frame info because otherwise it gets out of control and how the hell we define what’s true or not without frame, ya know? Ego >.> One of the problems of the collective we work on.  I see so many stories that do not fit in the frame. I also see many people in “delusion” so to speak, but delusion always comes from fear and lack of knowledge, but mostly fear. 

I can tell you each true divine counterpart is on a path, and most of us have made peace with the idea “I must be crazy, this can end bad.” Yes, it can, the chances are very high. It’s also very possible we are crazy and insane, and walking the path of self-destruction, but lets all face it, that’s the voice of ego, that constantly nags in your head “You can’t be THAT happy! Things cannot work out THAT WELL! This is too good to be true!” Hahahaha, too good to be true? Have you people realized how silly that sounds? :D What is the definition of something being “too good” to be true? :D

As a matter of fact here is an example of how your twin can reflect back to you your shadow without making it traumatic and painful, but on the contrary, fun and loving. I was walking to the subway, with my headphones on, having a heated mental argument/conversation with my twin. (Yep, I do that a lot, I talk to him a lot in my head, call me crazy, I know I am :D) I was nagging at him and scolding him as a teacher “Why the hell are you so damned afraid? What are you so scared of? What’s too good to be true, who are YOU to difine that? It’s YOUR EGO!” so here I am very smart and all knowing when it comes to nagging to someone else.  That same night I was having a chat with a friend and she said “I feel like ever since I came into your life and you into mine, good shit started happening. Imagine if I really came into your life when all the magic starts happening!” I was in such a bad state right then, that I remember my ego kicking in. I laughed in a disbelief and said “Yeah, that sounds too good to be true lol.” .. 

A few moments later, I look at what I wrote, as if it wasn’t me. -.-’’ What a good prank. I started laughing, I facepalmed myself and really laughed so much. Here I was scolding my counterpart when I was doing the same. I remember kinda seeing him in my mind’s eye, he laughed at me and stuck his tongue at me. And for a good reason, we were both being an asshats. 

And this is a perfect example of how the mirroring works. Neither starts first, it happens simultaneously, for we are one. 

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