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#faetality.intro — all introductory posts as tagged.

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🀄️𓏶། ྀིྀ⠀ ⠀@this-is-sinophobia-orientalism — Asian Activism. 🩸

🏮𓏶། ྀིྀ⠀⠀ @this-is-sinosexism — Asian Activism. 🩸

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Mental Health & Suicide “Jokes” as a QTBIPOC Immigrant | Part 2 of this drama | The drama continues…

“Passing” as a disabled person

Whiteness is the standard coefficient for privilege

Housing, Disability & Multiculturalism

Autism & “Making it about me”. Marginalisation as contextual.

[Repost] cakesexuality—Disability Tips

[Repost] hi-fi-planetoid—Intersection of Disability, BIPOC & Masculinity

[Repost] noodle-shenaniganery—“What if you can’t get support” Gotchas

[Repost] Bluespringrights—Your disability will continue to disable you

[Repost] terraswallows—Shoutout to autistic & disabled lesbians

[Repost] www—Shoutout to Disabled Butches

But it does suck that the process by default means that marginalised people have to be the ones who SEE these injustices, SPEAK of it, AND defend our “gritty” realities in isolation.

Meanwhile, those with relative privilege want to be an avoidant escapist who sees one problem but not the other and they still get to be the “shiny-eyed idealist”.

Being marginalised ≠ we are all emo, it’s that some have the privilege in the first place to “see the good in the world” because they are blind to the bad. Often through wilful ignorance. Frankly I don’t respect naïveté and I don’t find it cute either.

Many marginalised peoples can try to stay blind but it’ll inevitably bite them in their ass, and so we do not have the privilege to do that even if we wanted to. What we end up with is being branded as too negative, contrarian, being unnecessarily loud, depressing and abrasive.

Those who are “shiny-eyed idealists” while confronting many/all intersections, are radically idealist. Because the world wasn’t designed for them, idealism was intended to be out of their reach, but they see the shithole and this is their strategy to fight it. To add: Idealism doesn’t have to come with positivity and pleasantries.

With this said, I refuse to play the “real strength is being kind/happy even when you’re hurting” shit, that has been used to police others and pressure labour from us to fit “victim tropes” that we aren’t predisposed to. [as well as promote docility, suppressing trauma and mental health disorders derived from systemic oppression, and to not bite the hand that beats].

“Real strength” isn’t measurable by facing things beyond our control and it isn’t measurable by one way of being, so sue me for opposing the martyr complexes so many have around strength that they picked up from their Western “heroisms” and their marianismo ideals. It is in the balance of autonomy and choice, without safety being at the material expense of others.

#faetality.intro                       — all my intro blogs.

#faetality.reflections           — essays and analysis.

#faetality.theorycrafting 🪢 — messy workshop of theories.

#faetality.glossary 🔖 — terms i use. some i coined.

#faetality.femme                  — femme & femininity posts

#faetality.moc                       — trans/masculine of center posts

#faetality.trans                      — trans & gnc posts

#faetality.bipoc                     — multicultural, decolonise, anti-racism

#faetality.asian                     — asian rep, queer and more!

#faetality.sinophobiaorientalism  — Sinophobia & Orientalism

#faetality.swr                        — QTBIPOC SW rights

#faetality.immigrant             — immigrant rights & xenophobia

#faetality.auspol                  — Australian Politics

#faetality.queer                    — critical queer theory posts

#faetality.intersectionality — intersectionality posts

#faetality.aroace                   — aroace and amatonormativity

#faetality.disability — disability, neurodivergence & mental health

#faetality.knightposting   — knightposting

#faetality.write                      — roleplay & writing

#faetality.art                          — i make art

#faetality.bites                      — personals & prose

#faetality.spits                      — shitposting, rants & drama

#faetality.cam                     — personal media.

#faetality.qna                      — SFW asks & anons

#faetality.affirmations        — comfort & strength

#faetality.reads                    — books and quotes

#faetality.spirituality           — occult, spirituality, psychoanalysis

#faetality.love                        — investigating romance & love

#faetality.perv                       — BEING A PERVERT ONLINE 💋

Back to pinned.

It’s so crazy that I am actually conscious of it because I was chasing. Things (the usual). Typically this starts around the time my schedule fills up and I use up so much of my spoons on the average day. And then it kickstarts really frustrating long bouts of harmful coping mechanisms.

And I just realised—alright, no this is a response to the lows of today, which were especially hard to get over because I wasn’t taking care of my bodily needs as much + hormone things.

That’s okay baby, we can have a good day tomorrow.