#facetheart

Quite burdensome right?

Buy if you will not who will, if you do not do the right right things, someone else will get the advantage, and you must be standing in the far away from the things that should be yours but you missed it because of the single thing, you can enjoy everything but you missed it because of a single thing, amazing right.

Isn't this typical love people talk about. They can leave everything in that love but if that love betrays you, and then what? Can anybody answer it? No right.

In my data analysis, mostly teens and just became adult people does this the most, especially, women's. It's not only my analysis that is saying. It is my experience that is talking.

When I was in school, girls sorry one of the 3 girl in every class had a feeling that they will marry the one they are with right now, at that moment. But after that one person leave her, she became addicted to it and in 90% case loses their mind, doing the wrong stuff, becoming cool and well that is cool that in all this you get to know your worth. I am also one of those in my 7 years back.

And believe me, it took a toll on me, I was like crashing all the people who are like that, playing with them and then abandoned them. But on top of everything, they never know who I am, because I never let them see my face, can you believe they fall on.

No right, I never do, but from then on, from that moment on, I believed in myself only, I never trusted anyone. Including my parents, best friends and every single person, who told me that they are close to me and they like me and all the things. Especially I never trusted a man.

Because of some people I am like this, then isn't this a crazy decision to trust again and love again. Why can you give yourself to the person that easily. Just because of some provocation.

Let me give you an advice. If people provoke you to do things in the name of trust and love, believe me girl you had chosen the wrong guy. Because the one who loves will never force you, provoke you or do sympathy for their lust.

When you face it, pull yourself, make a cold face and confront him and that you wanna breakup. That you can not live with a person like him, their is no chance of negotiation. Because once you negotiate, your heart will soften to all the sweet nothing and in future you will became nothing, only a house wife, maybe your children in future even not respect for that, because that was your most foolish decision.

If you want to prove something, or prove yourself to someone, for love, for trust, for everything single thing. Show it to your parents. Show your parents that you love them, doing the things they love, like study, like scoring good marks. Like becoming someone they can look upto. Become their stick to depend on, become the person who can be responsible for all the things, become or try to become the head that can give you chance to take your own wise decision.

Because your parents will not force you to marry someone when they know how you had become a sensible person.

Because they know you can choose the right and wrong.

Believe me whatever you are doing only creating a tarnishing reputation for yourself. Everybody is looking down on you, why because whole world knows who you are with, except for you. They are laughing at you because you choose him, when you will know it, it became a past thing for every single person, except for you.

Rumors will take you on a toll, maybe you will waste your life in future, maybe you will go on a depression and then the movies like dear zindagi will become your best friends. Knowing your future has gone already wasted you will end your life, realizing that you had already disappointed your parents. You will feel worse and worse.

This are the negatives of one rope of hope that you are pulling.

There are positives too, you know why, maybe everyone is not like a person they think is your partner is, maybe you will marry that one person someday. Maybe it feel like a fairytale. But it will hit you hard when you realize that you became nothing in this all this, you had swallowed all the intrest, your reputation, your pride everything, let them do whatever they want, everybody will only insult you, disrespect you and do nothing for you and eventually, your the only one will definitely cheat, or treat all this like their duty, there is no ounce of love in between, all will remain is your responsibility, and in frustration what you will get, guess what?

You are again single but the partner is living a very good life.

You are labeled as divorcee and people will spite on you. You had become single but so what, you had already wasted your life with someone but got no skills to live your life without them.

You had failed, take a long journey or short you will eventually become a failure and will live a life with full of regrets, imagine just how great you feel at that time. When you realise that this post can be your chance but you missed it. Just because you believe you are right on your decision.

Let me tell you one last thing. The rope you are pulling is too hard on your hands, it is already giving you the all sorts of wounds.

Try to let go.

Because letting will make you relieve and it is never late when you let go of that rope and just imagine becoming a CEO or something.

That people will look upto.

You had lived your ambition.