#ebpd

censors ⠀ ⠀𓈒╺݁♡݂𓏸̵͙݁

: ⭐️ light

: 👀 stalk

: 🍚 trauma

Blood ♡ ( toxic )

- gas⭐️ them , it may hurt you to lie to your lovely like that , but if you make them believe you were in the right and/or didn't even do it, it's worth it, say stuff like " why would I ever do that? I ♡ you more than anything, why would I try to HURT you... Do you think of me as a sadist? " make them question how they feel about you , if they love you, they'll forgive you and blame themselves . . .

- blame others , try to frame others for your actions, such as 👀ing , say something like " please I swear , someone is setting me up ! It's not me " or if you're feeling a little risky say " I was told to 👀 you by someone with a weapon , they're obsessed with you !! " only try to do that if you're confident in your framing skills .

- 🍚dump , if you can't lie or your fully caught , try to fake cry on the spot , and dump all your 🍚 onto them , and if you don't have any extreme 🍚 or any at all , lie. ( ex " my father was ab*sive and told me I wasn't loveable and I would need to beg for love ... That's why I was so obsessed.. " ) this works because ' normal ' people usually have some sort of empathy , and will come to comfort you and they usually don't have the heart to be mad at you. ( could work with others too )

- have plans , if you freak out on the spot and don't know what to say , they'll probably never forgive you , remember to have AT LEAST 2 plans maybe 3 just incase , and practice them in your rooms , so you're able to make it believable .

Praise ♡ ( healthy )

- try to show sympathy , even if you lack it , try to show actual care for the situation , saying things such as " I know how bad it was to do those things . . . But I promise I'll try to change , I care for you and your well being , if you need some alone time , I'll give it to you." Could help.

- be honest, admit what you did and why it could harm others, and talk about the morals you (should) have , such as "I wish I didn't do that , it harms you and others physically and mentally, but I didn't want to lose you . . . But I now realize, those things are more important than me wanting you."

- offer a shoulder to cry on , especially if they're already crying , "it's okay to cry , you're allowed to let out your emotions , you may not want to talk to me about it . . But just so you know, you're allowed to." Is some comfort you can bring , it can make people more comfortable and more likely to forgive you.

- show genuine change after , even if it's for a little bit and you plan to do it again , showing change after can make people believe you're genuinely sorry , even if you aren't , build that up for a little , it can be a week to two months depending on what you did.

- gifts can help , but be warned , don't do it right after and don't get stuff too expensive , it can seem like you're trying to buy forgiveness and can lead to people disliking or even hating you !! Stuff as small as a new keychain , a chocolate bar etc can make someone feel better