#dryagender

Volo from Pokemon Legends: Arceus is a voidpunk NLM cupioromantic omnisexual aroallo nonbinary agender dryagender ahaze gendervoid arundogender genderpunk nyctogender horrorcosmium dreamcoric oddcoric eldritchonum incomprevoid detagender mysterigender lachrymosian occulian obscurian cryptoculumen missanure giratinagender arceusgender evilqueer merchant who uses he/him, they/them, and it/its pronouns!

August 2020

[ID: thinner longer versions of different flags, flags from left to right: rainbow (6 color), queer, demisexual, demigender, and demigirl]

This was less than 5 months after I realized that I wasn’t a girl, I still felt a connection to femininity, and I was kind of at a point where I was too confused to label my orientation, and still kind of afraid of using microlabels, even with myself.  Truly the only thing I was sure of was my demisexuality/romanticism.

April 2022 (this may have been sitting in my drafts for months, it was recent at the time, but nothing’s changed)

[ID: thinner longer versions of different flags, flags from left to right: rainbow (6 color), queer, neptunic, panromantic, demisexual, demiromantic, angled aroace, agender, dryagender, and autigender]

I’m far less afraid of microlabels now, I don’t use them with a lot of people IRL, but I at least use them with myself.  I legitimately haven’t had any new crushes or anything in the 2 years in between, but I did become more comfortable with using labels that I know might change, because these things don’t need to be permanent.  I’ve realized that what I thought was a connection to femininity was actually a connection to feminism, and I’ve reconfigured how I see autigender.  It’s not that being autistic is my gender, rather that the 2 experiences are intertwined for me.

fae genders:

Genderei: (pronounced gender-ray) Personifying your gender identity as a fairy. 

Fablegender / Genderfable: A gender that is strongly connected to mythical beings.

Faygender / Pixgender: A gender that feels closely related to the magic of nature, fairies, or other small ethereal beings.

Faegender / Faeori: A gender related to The Fae — a gender that changes with the seasons, equinoxes, and moon phases, and/or a neurogender related to the Changeling myth [which is about autistic people].

Wispe: A gender that is ethereal, wisplike, and gives a sense of flowing, magical serenity. It may have a sense of temperature (i.e. it may feel cold or warm), and may be related to spirits and/or the fae.

forest genders:

Forestic: A gender alignment with forests.

Dryagender: A form of agender with more of a connection to an empty forest.

Forestgender: A gender related to forests.

Earthgender: A gender identity that is directly affected, tied to, or influenced by the earth or nature. Not to be used by duotheistic pagans or wiccans, and intended for nature based kintypes.

Ouygender: A gender connected to trees and wood.

fae pronouns:

aos/aes/aeself

fa/fae/faeself

fae/faen/faenself

fae/fim/faer/faers/fimself

fae/fyrr/faes/fyrrself

pix/pix/pixs/pixs/pixself

spri/sprite/sprites/sprites/spriteself

pan/pan/pans/pans/panself (pan, as in the greek satyr god)

sa/tyr/tyr/tyrs/tyrself or satyrself

sa/tyress/tyr/tyrs/satyresself

nym/nyms/nymself

Yes! See which one works best for you:

Dryagender: a form of agender but with more of a connection to an empty forest.

Earthgender: A gender identity that is directly affected, tied to, or influenced by the earth or nature. or; a gender identity similar to/the same as that of some form of earth deity.

Ouygender: A gender that is related to trees and wood.

Level one: Agender

On a very surface level, I don't have a gender. I'm not non-binary in a combination of a bunch of genders way, but in a there is a lack of gender where the gender should be way.

Level two: Little guy

I feel like a lot of kids tv shows have the kid that's outside a bunch, and has an androgynous name who could be a boy or a girl and there is an answer in the canon but a lot of people aren't exactly sure. I feel like more often than not they're also wearing overalls of some sort. My gender is like that, before people develop any real secondary sex characteristics and are just kinda vibing.

Level three: Autigender and dryagender

Now we're getting into microlabels because I really like microlabels. I'm dryagender as in like an open meadow. I'm autigender in that the way I experience gender is entwined and inseparable from me being autistic.

Level four: