Nonbinary people can be mostly men, mostly women, both, neither, fluid, half and half, xenic, many or all

Nonbinary means not in the binary, which also includes those who identify with binary genders + more, have unique connections to a binary gender, only identify partially as a binary gender, those who see their binary gender as inherently non conforming to the binary

Nonbinary comes in so many different forms of experience

We aren't all gender neutral

I, a trans boy, do not pass as a boy. I also, do not pass as a girl.

If we as a community want everyone to be accepted, then we have to accept cis men too.

"Oof trans men are being shat on for "basically being cis men" and it's so annoy--" If we love cis men then it won't be an issue.

"Oof amab nonbinary people are constantly shoved out because they're mistaken for cis men--" If we love cis men then it won't be an issue.

"Oof transfems in the beginning of their transition are being rejected for looking like cis men--" If we love cis men then it won't be an issue.

I could list hundreds of more examples, but the point is that a lot of our infighting is because of this strange hatred of cis men, to the point where people do everything in their power to make sure that a cis man can never enter a queer space.

We can't clear up some of the transmisandry in the community if we still try to remove cis men.

We can't clear up the misgendering and exclusion faced by amab nonbinary people if we still try to remove cis men.

We can't make transfems feel protected and welcome at all stages of transition if we still try to remove cis men.

And yes, I meant what I said earlier with "love". Just tolerating cis men won't be enough, we have to actually appreciate their existence.

Queer people are not your enemy.

Nonbinary people are not your enemy.

Intersex people are not your enemy.

Xenogender people are not your enemy.

Transmasc lesbians are not your enemy.

M-spec lesbians are not your enemy.

Transfem gays are not your enemy.

M-spec gays are not your enemy.

Multigender people are not your enemy.

Plurals who have varying experiences of gender and sexuality between system members are not your enemy.

Children who wish to transition are not your enemy.

Nonpassing transgender people are not your enemy.

Transgender people who do not wish to pass are not your enemy.

Gender nonconforming people are not your enemy.

Alterhumans are not your enemy.

Therians are not your enemy.

Plural systems that are not fully traumagenic are not your enemy.

Plural systems that are not traumagenic at all are not your enemy.

Introjects with "problematic" sources are not your enemy.

People who identify with labels in good faith are not your enemy.

People who use "contradictory" labels are not your enemy.

Drug addicts are not your enemy.

People experiencing homelessness are not your enemy.

Religious people who harbor no bigotry are not your enemy.

People with religions that are not abrahamic are not your enemy.

People who speak a different language than you are not your enemy.

People who are a different race than you are not your enemy.

People who may have been bigoted in the past, but are trying to change, are not your enemy.

Sex workers are not your enemy.

People who have been incarcerated are not your enemy.

Disabled people are not your enemy.

People who use accessibility tools when you don't think they need them are not your enemy.

Native people who have exclusive identities are not your enemy.

Polyamorous people are not your enemy.

People who have a fluid identity are not your enemy.

Aromantic and/or asexual people are not your enemy.

People with "scary" mental illnesses are not your enemy.

People who experience psychosis are not your enemy.

People with personality disorders are not your enemy.

People who have narcissistic personality disorder are not your enemy.

People who are on medication are not your enemy.

People who refuse treatment are not your enemy.

People with low, limited, or no empathy are not your enemy.

People who cope with trauma through fiction are not your enemy.

People who like dark topics in fiction are not your enemy.

People in recovery are not your enemy.

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