Why #DharaPandya is the most selfish person in the Pandya House PLUS my biggest strife with the writers: 1. My very first strife: We wanted a separation track between #ShivaRaavi- Not between Shiva & Dhara.. ð 2. How & WHY does Dhara make EVERYTHING about herself? Why is she given so much time, space & importance in a track that is supposed to be about SHIVA & RAAVI'S DIVORCE? It's not necessary for your devars to share each & everything with you. It's Shiva's marriage, HIS divorce. How is it related to you? A few days ago she was giving lecture on Shiva's 'aham' but she's the one who makes everything about herself. She's not upset for #ShiVi , she's not upset that they're hurt or that her so called baccha is depressed or troubled. She's worried about her image, her guroor, her reputation. She's the one who forced these two people in this circumstance, she needs to let them handle it themselves. 3. Every relationship has its boundaries. She should maintain some distance from Shiva. She is his bhabhi. There's some distance & space that a bhabhi should keep from her devar, no matter how their relationship is. She needs to grasp the concept of personal space & probs 4. "Jis adhikar" so you admit you forced Shiva to marry Raavi against his wishes KNOWING FULL WELL HE WOULD NEVER SAY NO TO YOU? This is basically admission of guilt. She's not worried about Shiva/Raavi. She's worried about how this divorce will reflect on her. 5. "Mere aur Raavi ke vishwas" Wtf? How is this related to you? As long as memory serves me right, Shiva is married to Raavi, not Dhara. Right? Correct me if I'm wrong. 6. To the cameramen, editors & the director - why are there so many UNNECESSARY close up shots of Dhara but NOT 1 SINGLE CLOSE UP WHEN SHIVA IS SAYING HIS MOST IMPORTANT LINE TO MAMI!? We should have been able to see Shiva's face, his expressions, his emotions because once again- THIS IS HIS DIVORCE/HIS DECISION. 7. About Gautam's line- Shiva ko kya raste se utha ke laye ho? . In closing I would just like to say- Take a shot every time Dhara uses first person pronouns- main, mere, mujhse,etc Please makers, give us a meaningful, UNINTERRUPTED ShiVi track. #PandyaStore https://www.instagram.com/p/CS7PIOUC0o6/?utm_medium=tumblr