How do i know i am in a Twin Flame relationship?
My DM and I always knew our relationship wasn’t quite “normal”. It was very intense and we were very similar, we shared same interests, life goals and values and similar personality traits. We came to a conclusion we had to be soulmates. It wasn’t until my mother whom had also been in a Twin Flame relationship pointed out that we were probably Twin Flames. I’d never heard that term before but at the time we were told it was when one soul splits into two, the Divine Masculine and the Divine Feminine. So that was it, i thought. He was the one and we’d live happily ever after.
Once we came into our separation i just assumed the whole Twin Flame thing was stupid and he wasn’t the one. Yet for some strange reason i had a feeling it wasn’t really over between us. Like i just knew that we’d be together again. I just thought that maybe when we were 50 or so we’d somehow find each other, but again i also thought i was just being a silly girl and that i seriously needed to move on from this guy and accept the fact he dumped me and it was over.
Approximately 7 years later i get a snap chat from the cousin she’s ran into my DM at a party and he had told her that he wanted to catch up with me for coffee. I was completely gobsmacked! I was convinced he hated me and/or forgotten about my existence.
I hadn’t really thought about my DM for a long time i had locked and buried him deep and threw away the key. But one little snap chat rattled me. I couldn’t get it out of my head and he was back on mind like 24/7 this frustrated me, I began drinking and smoking heavily, i was confused and was trying to work out my feelings towards him. I was angry that he could still make me feel this way. It had been 7 years why am i not over him yet?
Eventually after a few months i began to move on again and live my life as i was before, I see him, He’s with a couple of mates sitting outside at the pub and i’ve just gone outside with my mate for a cigarette. The thing is he’s the first thing i see as soon as i go outside, I’m not sure he saw me but i’m majorly freaking out! I’m shaking uncontrollably and i never get the shakes and i’m trying to act as normal as i can but wow this guy has a freaking huge affect on me. Again took me a couple of months to get over him again.
I spoke to a couple of my girlfriends on how they felt about their first love and they all said that they’re completely over their first love, felt nothing and would never go back there. I was the opposite i’d be with my DM at the drop of a hat and my love for him was completely unconditional and doesn't help that i think he’s the sexiest person alive. I then started to think something was wrong with me, am i just lonely?
Then once i’m living my life happily yet again.. He messages me out of the blue after 8 years since we split, apologizing for everything that went down between us. I was baffled. speechless. Never thought in a million years i’d have anything to do with him! I was curious about what the Universe was doing.
I then got the idea to do research on Twin Flames. I looked into the different stages of the journey and i found this couple on YouTube called “Twin Flame revolution” and my god they explained the whole thing to me and i was shocked. Most TF couples will go into some form or separation. Yes i was currently in that. The runner chaser phase, Well that explained why whenever i saw him at a club i was drawn like a magnet to him and he was so incredibly eager to get the hell out of there! Thought he just couldn’t stand to be in the same facility as me. There mirroring aspect of the TF really got to me. We brought out the worst in each other and i couldn’t understand why it wasn’t until i realized we had been mirroring each others insecurities and fear. Then there’s the reunion process.There’s just so many answers and explanations to everything that happened in our relationship, I could forgive him because i understood why and what happened. I had a major light bulb moment. Shit we are Twin Flames and it was okay that i was still head over heals for him because he’s in the same boat. What we have is unique and i’m incredibly greatful to be able to be able to have this experience in my lifetime.
