Its so easy to say you love me!! how can a word with only four letters carry so much weight, dedication, devotion, duty, justification, trust, loyalty and comfort, ( Hold Up!!! ) but i never seen these actions being applied while growing up! even as an adult. You say i can tell a person i love them, and they would be mines and trust me with their life, 4eva!!! Even after i lie to them, steal, cheat, mistreat, abuse and violate them, (hmmmmm, seem so easy and misdirected)
Well love is so meaningless if you don't mean it or know how to show it, don't tell me, show me as they say in the state of Missouri. Maybe lack of not seeing how others deal with love is a cause? Young boys never or rarely seen their mom being loved or being comforted and appreciated, young girls wish and dream to experience this but end up in a toxic relationships that they think is love. People fail to understand what love is, yes it is a word, if you take the words away you should be able to still show these actions, love is not what you can give to a person, or how you apologize or buy 101 gifts or tell them with a million kisses, its how you can endure what's given to you by loved ones in a lost place who need your guidance and support, you being there at their lowest even when they are not reaching out for help, but you understand them from a more deeper emotional level. Only real love would direct you, and tell you that they are morning for your help and attention. Without words, you show up as a angel with grace and attentiveness put your pride and ego behind you, and love them at their worst and heal them back to their best. When you love that person from the essences of your soul, when you love yourself first and project those actions towards the one you love and your family it will always be authentic without a doubt. Love is so much more than giving, even though its a 2 way street, but you must first learn how to love yourself and accept and endure discomfort and unfamiliar, situations, before you can push out your own essence, be some ones peaceful place and getaway island and watch how the water flow and wrap you up into divine paradise.
