#datingaround

I think that we have gotten used to that if we perceive someone as annoying that we suddenly think we've got all the right to try to "fix" that person or be an asshole to them. Instead of it perceiving of two persons just being on different wavelengths.

Especially if you are on a date, don't tell someone how to react. Don't tell someone to "relax" don't ask someone to be less energetic. If you can't handle it it's your problem, not theirs. On a date you try to see if you two are a match, not to alter someone into your perfect partner.

If you are at a party and think someone's humour is too loud, don't tell them to shut up. You either move away, or you say that it's not really your kind of humor, that you are not comfortable with the sarcasm etc.

Ask people to alter their behavior to make you comfortable, not to change them into what you think should be "normal"

1. The Umbrella Academy

OMG. When i say this is one of my favorite shows of all time, i really mean it. 7 siblings must come together to stop the Apocalypse. This series is witty, action packed and it is everything i wish X-Men could be. The casting is spot on (with the exception of Vanya) and just proves what we already know, Netflix Original Series’ cannot be topped. Did i mention it has the best soundtrack?! 

“Alexa, play I Think We’re Alone Now” 

2. The Masked Singer (Hulu)

this is one of those guilty pleasure shows. Celebrities are masked - the panel and audience have to guess who is under their disguise. I know, sounds corny, but i found it uplifting and motivating. 

3. Dating Around

this series was a little difficult for me to wrap my head around. My first impression with the beginning of the series had me a tad bit confused. It was entertaining (mainly awkward) to watch, but it does give an insight to what dating is like now a days. It’s also pretty funny (because it’s so awkward), so i’ll give it that. Not Netflix’s best work but hey.... can’t win them all! 

4. Unsolved 

i’m aiming to finish this series by the end of tomorrow evening (currently on episode 4) but this gives an insight of the infamous murders of both Tupac and Biggie Smalls. We all *think* we know the story but this show goes into depth of their deaths and the investigation on them. It has been 20+ years since both of their deaths and no one has been convicted of their murders? Really makes you think... 

Movie of the Month: I Love You, Man (2009)

Disclaimer: i’m really not sure how i’ve never seen this movie before as i’m a big fan of Paul Rudd and Jason Segel but it’s exactly what you think it would be. HILARIOUS! *slappin’ the bass*