#dandelion-jpeg

the moral of this story is i've joined him by "selfshipping" myself as best friends with Guest from The Last Guest

being apart of the shipping community as an aromantic person is always such an interesting experience lololol

here's pictures of my cat Mack to give everyone else some happiness :)

Congratulations on getting first chair- that’s a huge achievement and VERY impressive!

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he would. actually. here's a shitty phone doodle of that

i have a complicated relationship with gender that's hard to explain. i personally have no strong ties to it, but i still have a "social" gender (as i like to call it). i project this onto my oc Marley. he uses he/him and masc terminology and appears very masc. but he identifies with nonbinary over any other label, mostly because of his time period (1960's-ish). in modern day he'd probably stick with genderqueer or unlabeled. he was raised as a boy and seen as a boy by everyone, to the point he got used to it, but personally has no strong ties to his masculinity or any gender at all. so he has a "societal" gender, if you will!

...okay...well... catsitting can't be that hard. It's just a normal kitty cat.

anyway this is my boy his name is Mack

(i love your art btw. you genuinely inspire me to draw and keep creating!!)

i actually cut off my qpr for much the same reason. there were a bunch of other factors, but one of them was that we strayed too close to a defined label. being in a relationship or specifying my attraction to someone just feels so... suffocating? saying i'm dating someone makes me so uncomfortable

what i'm trying to say without oversharing too much is that you've got this. you should put yourself first and not lie to your partner just to make them feel better. you have to trust that they'll understand (if you explain), even if it upsets them. and if they don't, then that's a huge red flag and a sign that maybe you shouldn't stick around them.

sorry for the yap. here's a cat pic as an apology 🤲

here is the post in question for anyone who can't copy the url

yeah i can't relate personally but i agree that if your relationship has become uncomfortable then you should talk honestly with your partner(s). if you can't reach an understanding, then it's better for the relationship to end