#dancer asks

• What kind of stories do they like to tell through dance?

• when did they start dancing?

• Why do they dance?

• What styles do they specialize in?

• Self taught or classically trained?

• Do they dance professionally, competitively, or just for fun?

• Are they confident or self-conscious on the dance floor?

• Do they prefer dancing alone or with others?

• What music do they dance to most often?

• What do they wear when they dance?

• How do they react to praise or criticism?

• What is dance trend they secretly enjoy?

• Have they ever fallen in love through dance?

• Who inspires them?

• Who’s their favorite person to dance with?

• Who’s their rival in dance?

Long story short, 17 year old me stumbled upon the world of SW and outright decided I wanted to try stripping one day. At 20 I decided to say fuck it and go for it, moved halfway across the U.S. and went to an audition.

I don’t recommend it to anyone, but I also don’t say that they shouldn’t. I love dancing but the industry is fucking BRUTAL. I’ve watched good girls become felons from drug charges and a plethora of other things. It really depends on if you WANT to dance and if you have the skill set. There’s a massive skill set needed to dance, if you don’t have it or learn how to build it you won’t make anything.

Absolutely, In no particular order, if you have these you might want to reconsider:

(People with/who:)

Jealousy issues

Little to no self esteem

Money management problems

Past drug addiction issues

Past alcoholism

Addictive tendencies

Fear of rejection

Little to no stamina

Low pain tolerance

No rhythm

No variety in music taste

No social skills

Little concept of being seductive

No makeup skills

No hair skills

Can’t handle being touched

Don’t like being judged

Have bad hygiene skills

This is a small list of things you may want to consider going in. You have 100% certainty to be judged for your body, skin, teeth, hair, voice etc. You WILL need money management skills (send an ask if you want a list of mistakes and advice). And you absolutely cannot avoid being rejected, laughed at, touched in some cases, bruises, scraped, and in pain.

Have you ever...

had an embarrassing moment onstage?

cried in class?

received a compliment that always stuck with you?

been en pointe?

had a costume that you loved?

had a costume that you hated?

been to a competition?

danced in a recital?

been to an audition?

danced in The Nutcracker?

gotten a starring role?

not gotten a role you wanted?

had to kiss onstage/during a performance?

been scared to try a new move or trick?

had choreography you hated?

had choreography you loved?

been a backup dancer?

been a dancer for a sports team?

fallen down in class?

fallen down during a performance?

had a wardrobe malfunction?

received a bouquet after a performance?

received advice that you carry with you even outside of dance?

danced in a way that made you feel powerful?

considered your classmates/teammates/dance partner family?

had a favorite teacher?

had a moment where you couldn’t stop laughing?

forgotten an important item before a performance?

had to dance with an annoying prop?

danced with your eyes closed?

just let the music overtake you?

had a dream role or type of role to play?

struggled with something you eventually became good at?

forgotten the steps?

found a best friend in dance?

First of all, CONGRATULATIONS ON STARTING POINTE! I am currently wearing Bloch European Balances. I have two different shoes on each foot. (My left foot is slightly larger, the extra mm makes a huge difference for me personally when it comes to the width of my shoe). 

Other Shoes Included:

Russian Pointe Polette - Discontinued 

Russian Pointe Luminas 

Grishko Novas

Uhg I had THE toughest time getting over my box period.