What's your opinion on someone being pro - contact/leaning towards being pro-c?
I have a somewhat complicated opinion on being pro contact.
First I would like to say, I think that pro-c folks are 100% a part of the radqueer community, and if you participate in harassing pro-c radqueers, you are not radqueer.
I think contact stances are inherently flawed. I label myself complex contact, because my opinions are complex. And stances like anti, neutral, and pro contact do not describe my opinions.
The idea that someone could possibly fit into the categories of strictly anti or strictly pro contact is insane. For example, most people who say they are anti-c are only talking specifically about paraphilias that cannot be consensual, not paraphilias like objectum or other "non harmful" paraphilias. And people who are pro-c, usually are also explicitly pro-consent, so therefore are most likely anti-c for a specific set of paraphilias that cannot be consensual.
I will state now, that I do not in any way support xenosatanism. But being pro-c is not the same as being a XS (I have seen people get them confused...)
I also do not like the term "harmful paraphilia" because no paraphilia is inherently harmful, most people who use that term mean harmful contact (aka: paraphilias that cannot be acted upon in a non-harmful way.)
TL;DR I support all contact stances, as long as you are anti abuse, and strictly pro consent.
