#chooseyourcircle

Some People Spend Time Building You Up. Others Spend It Tearing You Down. Choose Your Circle Wisely.

Some people spend time lifting you higher. Cheering for you in rooms you have not even entered yet. Believing in your dream before you fully believe in it yourself.

And then there are others.

They spend that same time picking apart everything you do. Questioning your moves. Shrinking your confidence just enough so you stay small and they stay comfortable.

Here is the thing nobody tells you early enough: not everyone deserves a front row seat to your life.

The people around you are either adding to your energy or draining it. There is no neutral. Silence in the wrong crowd still costs you something.

So look around right now. Who celebrates your wins without making it weird? Who checks on you when things go quiet? Who never makes you feel like you are too much or not enough?

Hold those people close. Protect that energy like it is the most valuable thing you own. Because honestly, it is.

You do not need a massive circle. You need a real one.

The right people will never make you question your worth. They just remind you of it when you forget.

Choose wisely. Guard your peace. And never feel guilty for outgrowing spaces that were slowly making you smaller.

Not everyone in your circle is in your corner. 👀 The most dangerous creature on earth is a fake friend. They’re close enough to know your dreams, and insecure enough to sabotage them. They smile in your presence, and scheme in your absence. They celebrate your wins, but secretly hope you lose. Trust is earned, not given. Watch people’s actions over time. Real friends are rare. Fake ones are everywhere. Choose wisely. 🐍💛✨

Set boundaries and be okay with losing people who are not for you.