#choice?

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I have had discussions with individuals who actually believe that we choose our sexuality.🧐 How and when did YOU choose yours?

Google "Sexuality."

If you believe that we choose our sexuality, answer the following questions for your own satisfaction:

1. At what age did you choose your sexuality?

2. Did someone ever sit you down and ask you if you were sexually attracted to girls or boys? Were you asked what you liked? At what age? Who asked you? What did they ask or tell you?

3. Did you choose the color of your skin or your ancestral lineage?

    I’ve been thinking about what Birds value over the last few days, and while I think Clarity, Understanding, and Truth all fit, maybe Choice could be an option? I've seen it say somewhere (probably on the @sortinghatchats blog) that "Bird Primaries choose to be what the other Primaries are." And Birds burn when they don't have choices anymore. Imagine a Bird finds a flaw in their system and they go to change it, but when they do someone/something says no you can't change that, you have to take on this system whole. They can't choose what to be/believe anymore because they don't know what's actually right and makes sense and then they're just spiraling. You know your system is wrong and needs fixing but you're afraid and doubtful and you can't choose what to believe. Understanding, Clarity, and Truth are all good but if you no longer have choice? It's deeply unsettling.