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Firstly, let's look at your 5th house because before you commit to someone, you have to build a relationship with them so we will look at how you see this area of your life. Virgo is present here so this can point out that you may not like messy relationships, there needs to be some sort of order going on (planning your dates as an example). Routine can be another thing that doesn't bother you much as you may prefer the comfort (your Moon is in Cancer too which indicates liking comfort). A relationship needs to provide you with an outlet for your creative ideas as well, either speaking about them comfortably with your partner and/or your partner actively participating in the "discussion" by bringing their ideas in. I would go as far as to say that you may even enjoy creating something together with your partner.

Next, we will look at your Venus sign which is in Cancer in the 3rd house. This one shows that you require nurturing and to be nurtured and are sensitive to what your partner is feeling. What you have to be careful with is to not overdo it with the "taking care" part. Your Venus is in the 3rd house indicating that one of your focuses when it comes to relationships is to be clear and live in the present, but also to be able to easily communicate your feelings, thoughts, and ideas to your partner.

To get some hints about a potential spouse, we have to look at Sun and Mars. What's hinted at is that they're a creative person, sincere and loyal. Quite affectionate when it comes to love and protection. On the other hand, though, they might tend to show off at times, overdoing it with their expression and focusing a bit too much on themselves. Since the Sun is in the 4th house, there's a focus on achieving emotional security with a strong interest in settling down, having a stable home and family. There might also be an attachment to their family, be it good or bad, their mother especially might've played an important role in their development as a person. This person might be into art, either by being an artist themselves or having artists in their family. There's also a hint of eccentricity so they could either be looking for different ways they can express themselves or the connection they have with art/expression is different compared to what the norm is. Regardless, it's hinted that they indeed need an outlet for their creativity. This person may be sensitive to their environment, at times easily influenced by what's happening which can lead them to find ways to "escape". They may be someone who's following their gut instinct before and while doing something, though they may struggle with not having much energy to do things (getting tired fast). At times, they may be confused about what they want to do, but their instinct will be oriented towards unconditionally giving to the world. They may also seek recognition from others, wanting to be part of something where they truly belong. A hint here is that you might potentially meet them in a group setting. One other thing I want to mention is that they might also have an air of mystery surrounding them which can be what attracts you to them, to begin with. Almost like a puzzle you want to put together.

As a bonus, I want to point out your Capricorn Chiron because I feel like it ties in with your question and might play a role in this entire ordeal. Capricorn Chiron speaks about feeling like your efforts/achievements are not recognized which makes you feel unappreciated and unnoticed and it being in the 9th house hints at this happening when it comes to what you believe in. The source of this might be your past, the way you grew up. Perhaps you were restricted in some way (not being able to easily speak your mind) and/or the environment had a strict vibe.

Now, in regards to a potential spouse, I believe two scenarios can play out: 1. you have to find a common ground and deal with what makes you feel insecure (Capricorn Chiron) before you meet them or 2. this person will be the one who will help you find a common ground and support you in healing what makes you feel insecure. In both cases, dealing with that part of you should also teach you how to properly put down roots and start building that stability that you so need, as well as recognizing your own value.

The personality of your future spouse is represented by the zebra spirit which belongs to the fire element. Your future spouse might be kind of eccentric, very creative. A visionary. Zebras spirits are the most precious of gems. They are young at heart, well cultured, and have an undying curiosity about life. Being in the company of a Zebra personality not only is a delight, but also open our minds. Be prepared… their potent magic is contagious and you may after spending time with them find yourself in a faraway land, expanding your worldview while having a blast. they might also like to contribute to global health through environmental or volunteer work or something like that. They might be very enthusiastic and fashion-forward! When they are stressed they may be the type of person who feels jaded, acts very pouty. What might help them in those times is to make a great adventure or to involve themselves more with art.

I feel like your future spouse has a difficult time with being decisive, especially when they feel like they don’t have gathered enough information. Someone very self-reflective who doesn’t like conflict that very much. They prefer harmony and balance. They might actually procrastinate stuff they don’t like to deal with a lot.

They are very kind and gentle while also willing to take a stand for what they believe in. A provider. Someone who would sacrifice themselves to save everyone they love. Very chivalrous, affectionate. Someone who appreciates meaningful gifts and actions. In their darker times they might act a bit petty and moody. Actually, because they are so nice, I feel like they were used a lot in their past and also experienced many heartbreaks, grief and maybe rejections. But they tried to use these painful experiences to learn from them. Though they are someone who felt very lonely because of that.

Meditating would help them very much. Trying to be at balance. They definitely like equal give and take and appreciate mutual respect. Adapting to their surroundings might be easy for them. someone who always has good intentions in mind. However, I feel like because they are so intune with their surroundings they feel getting pulled into multiple directions, trying to mange everything at the same time. A multitasker. They struggle a bit with prioritizing things but it is something they need and will learn in this life. They are someone who goes through many changes and transformations in life through all the harsh experiences. Learning, growing and maturing in order to become this very stable person who is secure in themselves and works hard for their family. Someone who sees strength in their own compassion, very balanced down-to-earth and caring. A provider and protector.

They like celebrating and enjoying the moment, especially with their loved ones. A very appreciative and grateful individual who cherishes connection with other people. They enjoy reuniting with their family once in a while. However, even though they like interacting with people they need every once in a while time for themselves to reflect and think things through, whether or not to change directions etc. They desire to seek the truth, to soul search. they might be spiritual and if not I would advise them to get into it. It would definitely help them!

Their current attitude towards love is represented by the strength card in reverse. I feel like they are not feeling ready for any love matters yet. They still have some difficulties to overcome. Building up inner strength, taming one’s inner beast to let one’s inner voice shine through. They are still doubting themselves a lot especially in love matters. They have some insecurities. They work on standing up more for what is right, no matter what, and being persistent. They still tend to be influenced by other people too much. They are still learning to set boundaries. And being confident in their ability to offer love, compassion and forgiveness to others and to do it with courage. I feel like … they think of themselves as a coward sometimes :/

Some messages from my love oracle deck regarding their attitude towards love: “Marry for love, for money, but most of all for companionship.’; Don’t just take the picture - enter it.’

Some message from them for you: ’In the silence lies power.’; ‘Sharing tears together deepens the bond.’

Zodiac signs I had in mind while reading: definity strong libra, scorpio, sagittarius, some earth energy (taurus, capricorn, virgo), maybe some aries

OK. That’s it so far. I hope you enjoyed it and it felt like it resonated. Feel free to give me some feedback. I wish you a great day! Bye!

How this impacts your life Abraham, Justice of Pandemonium - Justice, Truth, Duty Dedication, wisdom, preserving last scrap of dignity, letting go of old patterns unworthy of our future selves