Got into a feisty convo with the boy man (endearing, and only ‘boy’ bc he is younger than me) today and he never got defensive but held his ground, asked curious questions, and basically let me (politely) have it out.
It doesn’t take much, folks. We laughed the whole time. Even if it doesn’t work out it is so so so nice to have someone who seems to know who I am or at least ask when he’s unsure. Even if he’s not ‘it’ (I don’t believe in ‘The One’) I will forever be chasing the feeling I have when I’m with him. It’s early. But the only reason we wouldn’t work out is our very different life goals.










