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Hey there! Let's dive into something a little deeper and more provocative: Black Moon Lilith. You know how some parts of your chart just feel... raw? Lilith is definitely one of them. She's not a planet, but a powerful point in the sky that I personally always pay attention to. She's the part of you that refuses to be tamed, the instinctual, wild energy that's been buried under social norms.

Lilith represents the lunar apogee, which is just a fancy way of saying it's the point in the Moon's orbit farthest from Earth. But what it really symbolizes is your unyielding desire, your most primal fears, and your deepest sense of self-worth. She’s all about finding power, seduction, and self-expression, but she also reveals where we fear rejection and try to control things to feel safe.

You know the myth, right? Lilith, Adam's first wife in some folklore, refused to be submissive and chose solitude instead. She’s the ultimate symbol of the wild, dark feminine energy. But don't let the "destructive" stories fool you. Understanding Lilith in your chart is a huge opportunity for self-healing and spiritual growth. It's about taking back your power, and trust me, it’s a game-changer.

Lilith Through the Signs

Let's break down what Lilith looks like in each sign. Find yours and see what resonates.

Lilith in Aries

If you have Lilith in Aries, you know how it feels to be pulled between two extremes: a deep desire to be a leader and a powerful fear of stepping up. This can lead to a pattern where you either impose your will too forcefully or you completely hand your power over to others. It’s a constant battle with your own assertiveness and impulse control.

The healing journey for you is all about cultivating a sense of power from the inside out. It's learning that your strength doesn't need external validation. Embracing your flaws and appreciating your unique qualities is a huge part of this process. It’s about being your own person, on your own terms.

Lilith in Taurus

With Lilith in Taurus, you have a deep desire for sensual pleasures and an incredible work ethic. You’re driven to accumulate possessions and wealth. Your inner power comes from your grounded energy and confidence. But here’s the challenge: you probably have a really hard time letting others care for you.

The key to unlocking this energy is to dismantle those emotional barriers and embrace vulnerability. You need to find a balanced approach to your desires, being mindful of potential extremes. Remember, you can still be grounded while letting others in. Connect with the earth and your roots; it'll help create a more harmonious flow of energy.

Lilith in Gemini

Lilith in Gemini makes you a lively, curious person who craves mental and emotional stimulation in relationships. Your communication is bright and engaging, and you can connect with anyone. But the flip side is that you might struggle to express your deeper, more vulnerable emotions, which can lead to keeping things on a superficial level.

During intimate moments, you might feel a disconnect from your body, and your dual nature can really show up. The work here is to ground yourself and find a balance between your mental agility and your need for genuine, deeper connections. It’s about showing your true, whole personality, not just the witty, fun parts.

Lilith in Cancer

Lilith in Cancer can bring deep emotional sensitivity and powerful psychic abilities. You’re a natural at picking up on others’ emotions, but you may struggle to assert your own worth in relationships. Maybe your childhood or a lack of nurturing has left you with shame around your feelings, causing you to suppress them.

To heal, you need to acknowledge and release those emotions in a healthy way. Embrace your emotional nature without fear or shame. It’s also crucial for you to set firm boundaries and demand your worth. Ditch the passive-aggressive communication and learn to be present, feel your emotions authentically, and let go of the past.

Lilith in Leo

Lilith in Leo gives you a magnetic charm and a natural flair for the dramatic. You crave admiration and recognition, whether it's from influential figures or just from the crowd. The challenge lies in finding a balance between that desire for fame and a deep-seated fear of criticism.

This placement is all about external perception and the fine line between low self-esteem and narcissism. Your transformative goal is to learn to transmute that yearning for admiration into a genuine sense of self-worth. Your power is real; you don’t need others to validate it.

Lilith in Virgo

If you have Lilith in Virgo, you’re probably in a constant battle with perfectionism. This can lead to feelings of shame and a cycle of trying to meet impossible standards. You either strive for perfection or just give up entirely. This can also show up in your sex life as a focus on "being perfect" rather than on personal satisfaction.

The key to healing is to simply accept that perfection is unattainable. You also struggle with a need for control, which can make you overly critical. Letting go of the fear of not being accepted will allow you to be more open and loving, both with yourself and others.

Lilith in Libra

With Lilith in Libra, you are all about harmony and balance, and you radiate a powerful, raw feminine energy. You have a natural charm that effortlessly attracts relationships and opportunities. But you might have a compulsion to obsess over others' opinions, which can lead to vanity and selfishness.

You need to overcome the shame associated with needing companionship or approval. You may face relationship challenges because of unconscious desires you’ve been holding back. The key is to learn to maintain healthy relationships without sacrificing yourself. Find that middle ground between helping others and meeting your own needs.

Lilith in Scorpio

Lilith in Scorpio gives you an incredibly magnetic aura. You're comfortable in your own skin and you know how to use your charm to get what you want. People naturally recognize your authority. But past relationships might have taught you to hide your true needs and desires out of a fear of intimacy.

Your path to empowerment is all about embracing your authenticity and accepting your own powerful qualities. The real lesson for you is to cultivate trust in the universe and break those self-destructive patterns that might be holding you back. Your power is profound, but you have to stop hiding from your own heart.

Lilith in Sagittarius

Lilith in Sagittarius makes you a carefree, adventurous spirit. Your curiosity and open heart are so warm and inviting, but the idea of a traditional relationship might absolutely terrify you. You crave excess and fiercely push for your independence.

Your journey is about embracing self-acceptance and acknowledging any shame related to your restless nature. You love travel and thrilling experiences, but the true healing lies in understanding the value of independence without fearing commitment. Challenge your preconceived ideas about love and let yourself have a fulfilling journey.

Lilith in Capricorn

With Lilith in Capricorn, you have a relentless drive for success and recognition. You have a powerful work ethic, but a deep fear of failure and a heavy sense of responsibility can make you seem cold or overly serious in relationships.

Your healing path is all about self-acceptance. Acknowledge any shame you feel about your ambition and material success. While it's great to have high standards, you have to find a balance and let yourself enjoy life. True empowerment comes from taking responsibility for yourself without carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders.

Lilith in Aquarius

Lilith in Aquarius makes you a rebellious, daring spirit. You’re not afraid to express unconventional ideas. But even though you desire to belong, you have a deep-seated shame or discomfort with fitting into societal norms. This can make you feel like an outsider.

The key to healing is to embrace these distinctive traits and recognize their value. Find like-minded individuals who appreciate your differences. Instead of trying to conform to expectations, focus on self-acceptance to break free from cycles of extreme behavior. Your uniqueness is your superpower.

Lilith in Pisces

Lilith in Pisces gives you a deep romanticism and a powerful spiritual connection. You have a profound understanding of others. However, you might have a tendency to escape reality due to past trauma, which can lead to cycles of extremes like binging and purging in different areas of your life. This escapism often contributes to mental health struggles like anxiety and depression.

What house is your Black Moon Lilith occupying?

In astrology, Lilith represents the part of you that is in the shadow. It is something that is painful and we try to avoid facing it whenever we can. However, from time to time we are forced to discover it and work through its issues. The house where your Lilith is located in your birth chart tends to be quite problematic. Lilith is rebellious, wounded, traumatized, and she expresses herself in a destructive way. Keep in mind that the Moon governs the domain of the unconscious, and Black Moon Lilith manifests on this level too. This makes it even harder to understand these problems and integrate them in a constructive way.

1H🖤Lilith in 1st house tends to give a reserved but intense presence. Your energy is felt no matter if you want it or not. This placement is somewhat similar to being a Plutonian. Lilith in the house of self suggests a proud, strong person who refuses to compromise and whose will is expressed. The higher octave of Lilith in 1st house is being independent, authentic, powerful. You have a strong will and your boundaries are strong as well. You hate to be stepped over. Others might label you as selfish, but you know that this has to do with them, not with you. However, these things are usually learned later in life. When young, you can feel misunderstood all the time. Your self-defense mechanisms can be weak too. The first house is a physical house as well, related to your body and physical appearance. Lilith in 1st house can indicate body image issues. The interesting thing is that people with this placement often possess a magnetic charm, but they can’t accept themselves. Often, Lilith in 1st house indicates that taking care of your body and paying attention to your looks was frowned upon in your childhood environment. As you mature, you learn to accept your body and that humans are material beings as well. Once you work through your issues, Lilith in 1st house grants a powerful appearance. You are charismatic and there is something about you that makes people turn their heads. Lilith here can make you radiate with sexual energy. You are quite sensual as well.

2H🖤Lilith in 2nd house suggests that your sense of worth is affected by early experiences with pain and even trauma. People with this placement often have low self-confidence. They can feel that they are worth less than others. Often stemming in childhood, this is one of the biggest challenges of Lilith in 2nd house in the natal chart. Maybe you were bullied for your choices, taken advantage of, or people denied your right to exist. People with Lilith in 2nd house often feel that they are not good enough. When Lilith is placed in the second house, it has to do with your self-esteem, value system, the things that support your existence in the physical world. People with this placement value freedom, independence, dignity. Lilith in 2d house can indicate a desire to become financially successful. Your desire for power can be satisfied by money. Stability is one of your main priorities with Lilith in this house. Lilith here can indicate that you had to experience loss. This could affect your sense of security. People with their Lilith in 2nd house can be quite possessive because of this. They can believe that power lies in possessing. They want to own and feel that getting what they want will bring them peace. This placement can be a drive to build wealth. Lilith in 2nd house tends to believe that money is power, which is one of your priorities. Sometimes people with this placement can be reluctant to share.

3H🖤Lilith in 3rd House. The 3rd house is a cadent house. Lilith here influences your thinking process, your communication style, your mind. People with their natal Lilith in 3rd house tend to have an intense inner life. They are receptive to subtle influences around them, and they can be highly sensitive. With this placement in your birth chart, sometimes you can fear that the intensity of your thoughts will drive you crazy.Lilith in 3rd house people have a sharp mind, unless Mercury is severely damaged or there are some other challenging factors in the chart. Their thinking process includes every detail and they consider every possibility. They are witty and cunning, especially when they grow older and gain life experience. When Lilith falls in the 3rd house, your early life was likely not without troubles. People with this placement often had challenging relationships with their relatives and people close to them. You can struggle with getting your point across. Sometimes Lilith in 3rd house in the natal chart indicates communication disorders. You are an independent thinker who doesn’t take things at face value. You want to understand them in-depth and want to be in control of your thoughts.

4H🖤Lilith in 4th House

The most important life areas linked with the fourth house are home and family. If Lilith is close to the IC, its influence becomes more emphasized.People with their Lilith in 4th house often feel that they are not safe in this world. Because of this, Lilith here is one of the hardest house positions to deal with. It can also mean trauma related to ancestors/transgenerational trauma that still influences you and causes you anxiety.Lilith in 4th house can suggest that you don’t feel welcome in your own home. This can be particularly daunting in childhood. Sometimes people with this placement even had to endure abuse at home. Their parents often cannot give them the security and protection a child needs. A feeling of betrayal very often colors the childhood. This placement suggests that one of your parents embodied the traits of Lilith. They were strong-willed, independent, and they wanted to maintain their autonomy at any price. They might had to face many challenges in life and survived very painful events. In some cases, they managed to integrate this experience and become wiser and stronger, but this was not necessarily the case. Lilith in 4th house can indicate that they passed on their pain to their children. They might have been manipulative, controlling, domineering.

5H🖤Lilith in 5th House is supposed to be a place of joy in the birth chart. When the dark themes of Lilith come to expression in the life areas connected with it, unfortunately this is rarely the case.Lilith in 5th house is a sign that what brings others joy it brings you pain. People with this placement can feel that fun and light is denied from them. This placement can infuse your young years with its heaviness. Lilith in 5th house indicates that you had to meet pain way too early. Your inner child is be scarred with this placement, ashamed of wanting to play and have fun. This influences your life as an adult, because Lilith here cannot get the love and joy it desires deep down. The fifth house is all about creativity. Lilith in 5th house stifles it. It suggests a paralyzing fear of expressing who you are. It can also inhibit being spontaneous. People with this placement can be afraid of just going with the flow and following their heart. If Lilith in 5th house is overcompensated, it can manifest as letting your desires get out of control and hurting yourself. It is very hard to find balance.

6H🖤Lilith in 6th House you often feel that they have to give more than other people, but they often receive less. This placement can manifest as a fear of not being good enough. It can poison your everyday activities, indicating habits that don’t serve you and a resentment towards self-discipline.People with this placement desire to be close to someone, but at the same time, they don’t know how to do it in a healthy way. They tend to be unaware of their own Lilith qualities and project them onto others. It can indicate partners who are self-willed, not willing to compromise, in extreme cases they can be abusive. People with this placement can be so perfectionistic that it prevents them from getting things done. Lilith in 6th house can indicate impostor syndrome. You can be obsessed with doing your absolute best, but you lose too much time fussing over the details. Being efficient is a challenge with Lilith here in the natal chart. It is hard to relax. People with this placement can be pessimistic and depressive. Depending on the rest of the chart, they are often strongly attached to reality. According to Lilith in 6th house, dreams equal delusion.You don’t believe in things not visible to the eye. This can make it hard for you to find purpose in things.

7H🖤Lilith in 7th house suggests destructive relationships, at least until you learn how to integrate it properly.People with this placement desire to be close to someone, but at the same time, they don’t know how to do it in a healthy way. They tend to be unaware of their own Lilith qualities and project them onto others. It can indicate partners who are self-willed, not willing to compromise, in extreme cases they can be abusive. Lilith in 7th house suggests destructive relationships, at least until you learn how to integrate it properly. People with this placement have a deep desire to unite with someone. They can feel that they are incomplete on their own. Lilith here wants to commit, but at the same time, it is afraid of it too. People with their Lilith here tend to reject marriage. Their parents were in many cases divorced or lived in a destructive relationship. Is Black Moon Lilith in 7th house destined to be alone? No, but relationships are not easy with this placement. Many people with this placement have their best relationships later in life. Lilith in 7th house people are afraid of letting someone close and going close to someone. They are especially afraid of losing their freedom, but at the same time, they crave attention. When young, Lilith here can be involved in affairs where they are the third person in a love triangle.

8H🖤Lilith in the eighth house suggests that you are familiar with the darker side of life. If something is superficial and ignores the rawness of reality, you are not interested. You are able to notice things others don’t, and you are fascinated by taboos and the occult. You discover layers of existence most people never have to face. Lilith in 8th house is a very sensual placement. People with this placement enjoy being seductive (it is a source of power for them), but they often have issues related to intimacy. This placement suggests psychological issues and painful memories that prevent you from letting go and enjoying sex. Lilith in 8th house knows too that what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. You have a lot of experience with hardships and pain. This placement suggests a very deep interest in psychology, especially in discovering how your own psyche works. People with this placement are almost forced to meet their shadow self. For you, self-awareness equals power. It is important for you to be in control. You are afraid of being helpless and you want to make sure you are safe. You can feel very vulnerable. There can be some blind spots that you don’t notice in your own personality, which are your weak points too. You can fail to see things objectively. Bad judgement causes Lilith to undergo deep transformation and reevaluate herself and her relationship with the world.

9H🖤Lilith in 9th house is one of the more positive houses in the birth chart, being a fire house and the natural house of Sagittarius and Jupiter. However, it is also the house of expansion, and Lilith here can make a more profound impact.As you grow older, you often realize that you have a completely different value system than what you were taught as a child. Your teachers (and authority figures) could be either very inspiring or you found them repulsive and felt restricted by them. Sometimes this placement indicates power struggles with your teachers. Your relationship with religion is often colored with disillusion, betrayal, strife. In some cases, this placement can suggest that you were forced to follow a religion, what was very painful for you. Faith and church are often the same thing in your eyes, and you can refuse both. Lilith in 9th house can indicate changing religions, or completely abandoning them. People with this placement may have lost their faith in life in general, and at some point they are likely to be atheists. Pilgrimages might be n important turning point in your life. Lilith in 9th house can suggest troubles with education, even though Lilith here loves learning and is in general curious. Issues are the most expressed during higher education. Some people with this placement drop out in college (if there are other indicators in the chart too), others struggle with finishing their studies and do so with delay. This position of Lilith suggests that you learn the best on your own.

10H🖤Lilith in 10th House this placement indicates that one of your parents (often the father) was unavailable to you. Maybe he was there physically, but he did not give you the love and support you needed. He might have been domineering, cold and overly demanding. Black Moon Lilith in 10th house suggests a desire to accomplish great things in order to prove to this parent that you are worthy of love. Power struggles are also likely in the relationship. In some cases, Lilith in 10th house can indicate a divorce of the parents, or even the loss of a parent. You are driven and ambitious and you do not want to settle for mediocrity. It is important for you that you make an impact in the world. At the same time, you are self-conscious too, particularly at a young age. Lilith in 10th house can indicate anxiety and fear of failure in the public eye. You can be scared of what others might think about you. As you grow older, you become more self-confident and in many cases, Lilith here desires to take up a public role. It enjoys being in the center of attention. This placement often manifest in subtle, refined ways, similarly to Pluto. Lilith here suggests that you are charismatic, come across as powerful and attractive, but you are mysterious too. People with this placement know how to influence others and they understand the human psyche very well. This doesn’t mean that they are manipulative, but if they have to, they know how to manipulate others to get what they want.

11H🖤Lilith in 11th House

Needless to say, you are a loner with this placement. You are in many ways different than most people around you. You can have different views, different hobbies, even look differently than others. However, this doesn’t make fitting in easy. Lilith in 11th house is often an outcast. People with their Black Moon Lilith in 11th house don’t feel safe to connect with others and it is very hard for them to fit in. They might have been bullied. This placement suggests a strong but unusual personality. People who have this placement often find that their peers are jealous of them, try to undermine them, or stab them in the back. Black Moon Lilith in 11th house can be a black sheep placement. It is a very painful position of Lilith in the natal chart. As the house of hopes and dreams, the eleventh house is a quite important one in the natal chart. Hard placements here can slow down your progress in life and make it harder to achieve your goals.

12H🖤Lilith in 12th house suggests an interest in the occult and esoteric teachings. Mysterious things attract you. Lilith here can even be drawn to cults. You are interested in psychology, religion, spirituality too. This places can even indicate psychic ability. This placement is a deep, mysterious one. You are sensitive, intuitive, empathetic, however, Lilith here can also manifest as being detached from these. You are receptive to the energy around you. However, Lilith in 12th house is prone to deceptions. It can also struggle with having firm boundaries. This placement indicates a tendency to help others at your own expense. Lilith in 12th house is suppressed deep in the subconscious. It suggests an enhanced sensitivity and a need for introspection. It can go both ways: you are either fascinated by your unconscious, or you try to deny its existence. You can be afraid of the supernatural, but at the same time, you are more receptive to it than most people. Unless there are more reserved placements in the birth chart, you don’t like being alone. Hard twelfth house placements suggest that you don’t see clearly sometimes when it comes to relationships. Lilith in 12th house can indicate a tendency to become a victim. People with this placement often don’t notice telltale clues early on, and they can fall prey to manipulation. Lilith in 12th house people sometimes suffer from nightmares. Vivid dreams and deja vu experiences are also common.

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Let’s have a look at the aspects to your ascendant!

Mars Square Ascendant: The Mars square to your Ascendant adds a dynamic and assertive energy to your personality. You possess a strong drive and determination, but you may also face challenges in finding the right balance between assertion and aggression. Learning to channel this energy constructively can lead to powerful self-expression and assertiveness in pursuing your goals.

Neptune Sextile Ascendant: The Neptune sextile to your Ascendant infuses your personality with sensitivity, creativity, and a touch of mystique. You have a natural ability to tune into the emotions and needs of others, and your intuition guides you in navigating the complexities of human relationships. This aspect can also bestow a sense of idealism and spiritual insight, inspiring you to seek deeper meaning and connection in your interactions with the world.

Saturn Trine Ascendant: The Saturn trine to your Ascendant brings a sense of discipline, responsibility, and maturity to your personality. You possess a strong work ethic and a practical approach to life, which allows you to steadily pursue your goals with determination and perseverance. This aspect bestows a sense of stability and reliability, earning you the respect and admiration of others for your grounded and disciplined demeanor.

Jupiter Trine Ascendant: The Jupiter trine to your Ascendant expands your horizons and imbues your personality with optimism, confidence, and a spirit of adventure. You possess a natural charm and generosity that draws people to you, and your positive outlook on life inspires others to believe in themselves and their potential. This aspect enhances your social skills and may bring opportunities for growth and success in your personal and professional endeavors.

North Node Square Ascendant: The North Node square to your Ascendant indicates a karmic lesson or challenge related to self-expression and identity. You may feel a sense of inner conflict or tension between your past conditioning and your soul's evolutionary path. Learning to embrace authenticity and follow your true calling can lead to profound growth and fulfillment in your life's journey.

Black Moon Lilith Sextile Ascendant: The Black Moon Lilith sextile to your Ascendant adds depth and intensity to your personality. You may possess a magnetic and enigmatic allure that intrigues others, drawing them to you like moths to a flame. This aspect can also indicate a strong connection to your primal instincts and a desire for authenticity and empowerment in your interactions with others.

The Venus biquintile Ascendant aspect is not typically considered a traditional aspect in astrology, as I’ve learned. If anyone has a different way of seeing this, please let me know!

But from what I’ve read, biquintiles are considered aspects of creativity, talent, and inspiration, suggesting a harmonious blending of energies between the planets involved. In the case of Venus biquintile Ascendant, it could imply a natural affinity for expressing beauty, harmony, and artistic creativity in one’s persona and interactions with others.

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Babe, both placements matter, Black Moon is the inner wild you, Asteroid is how you show it off.

1. Black Moon Lilith (BML)

Not a planet or rock, it’s a calculated point based on the Moon’s orbit. Your inner wild woman, your sacred rage, your psychic rebellion. It’s about what you refuse to submit to, the shadow side of femininity, and where you demand freedom and power.

2. Lilith Asteroid

A real asteroid and it brings that Lilith energy into your physical world. How you express your seduction, your defiance, your unfiltered boldness. She’s actionable Lilith, what people actually SEE when you walk into a room and make it yours.

Example Breakdown:

Black Moon Lilith in Leo 17° 9H You challenges belief systems, shatters dogma, seduces through bold expression and untamed passion. You’re not here to be quiet, your mind, body, and soul scream freedom.

Asteroid Lilith in Virgo 22° 10H Seductive through mastery, intellect, and knowing exactly how to get what you want. Publicly known for your skills, perfection, and refusal to be controlled. You play the game better than anyone and you make your own rules.

Which One Should You “Go Off Of”?

Both. Always both.

BML = Your inner Lilith, raw, deep, emotional.

Asteroid = Your outer Lilith, active, visible, powerful.

You’re a spiritual arsonist with a PhD in seduction. Set fires with your words, build empires with your precision. Be the wildfire and the architect. You’re both 🖤🖤🖤🖤.

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