#true lilith

Ⅰ. Lilith transits can bring periods of life related to personal exile, deep power struggles over autonomy, or even intense sexual awakenings. Whether it be transit Lilith going over your natal personal planets or transit planets going over your natal Lilith. You may find yourself confronting authority figures, challenging societal expectations, or breaking free from relationships that have become restrictive. You may have sexual awakenings that are profound, shocking, or disruptive, which can lead to discovering new desires and reclaiming sexual sovereignty.

Ⅱ. Being Lilith dominant is extremely rare. Because it is not so much about the aspects in a chart, but moreso how that energy is integrated in someone and the work they consciously do to blend the intense primal energy that Lilith is into their own lives. Lilith dominant individuals often feel like perpetual outsiders because they carry a natural understanding of shadow work and the rejected aspects of human nature. The rarity of this dominance means these people often feel deeply alone in their experience, struggling to find others who understand their intense relationship with themes of exile, taboo, and radical authenticity.

Ⅲ. The Lilith/Mercury midpoint represents the point where our communication and intellectual style meet our wild, untamed nature. This is where and how we expose our deepest truths and most authentic thoughts that tend to challenge or upend what is "conventional" or "acceptable" by society's standards. The challenge with this midpoint is learning to communicate these truths in ways that create positive change rather than simply shocking or alienating others. Finding authors, musicians with their personal planets conjunct this midpoint can make you feel deeply seen for better or for worse.

Ⅳ. Lilith Returns will upend any false or carefully curated spiritual identity or aesthetic of growth. This is a time in your life when radical truth is demanded. It will expose where you've been performing your spiritual growth rather than truly embodying it. This transit can also bring disillusionment with spiritual teachers, communities, or practices you've outgrown. This Return pushed you to confront the shadow aspects of your spiritual journey: the parts of yourself you have been hiding, denying, or dressing up in "acceptable" packaging. By the end of the transit, you may find yourself having a more authentic relationship to your spiritual path: one that honors both your light and shadow, creating a foundation for genuine growth rather than performative evolution.

It is extremely, extremely rare to be Lilith dominant.

True Lilith dominance is far rarer than many online descriptions suggest. Online astrology often overuses “Lilith dominant” to describe anyone with a prominent Lilith aspect or who exudes intensity or sensuality. True Lilith dominance is an archetypal signature.

It is not a vibe, but an actual structural emphasis in the chart and very few charts meet this.

A single conjunction does not make someone Lilith dominant. The entire chart must reinforce that archetype.

Lilith is not ruled by any planet or sign, either. The core of her entire story is about how she would not be ruled by anyone or anything.

My Lilith(M) is in ♈️ while my Lilith is in ♏️ …..

Mean Lilith and True Lilith🖤🖤👯

Lilith(M) is usually short for Mean Lilith while Lilith by itself on most sites is True Lilith 🌚

They're both calculating the Black Moon Lilith point but in different ways:

Mean Lilith = smoother movement and more stable. Feels like the long term theme in your chart

True Lilith = jumps around more because it follows the actual lunar motion. Feels more raw, emotional, unpredictable and personal

So having mean Lilith in Aries ♈️ and true Lilith in Scorpio 🦂means you carry both energies but in different layers

Your Aries mean Lilith is the bigger pattern, you do what you want and you hate being controlled and of course you will burn the bridge before you beg

Your Scorpio Lilith is the instinctive reaction underneath: intense emotions, privacy issues, trust issues, power struggles, magnetic energy, seeing through people instantly

A lot of people notice the true Lilith more in real life because it acts out emotionally while mean Lilith sits in the background like the permanent setting of your personality

The funniest thing about different Lilith signs is when someone thinks they're detached and fearless because of one placement then the other Lilith shows up like a possessed raccoon💀

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Justin Bieber has True Lilith in the 4th House Retrograde

In sign of Aries @ 2 Degrees (Taurus + Supreme Power Degree)

Conjunct Asteroid Lucifer

Trine Scorpio Ascendant

Square Asteroid Narcissus

Justin Bieber's vice isn’t fame. It’s not money, girls, or even the wreckage he occasionally leaves behind. It’s his own fire. The one that starts in the pit of his soul and doesn’t care if it burns down the house it was meant to warm. True Lilith, the dark feminine, isn’t just a cosmic bad girl, she’s rebellion wearing red lipstick and a defiant smirk. And when she sets up shop in the 4th House, the house of roots, home, and the emotional foundation you didn’t get to choose, she becomes the storm that is the home. In Aries, she’s raw. Pure instinct. No filter. No brakes. Imagine being born with your heart already on fire, in a crib that felt too small for the kind of passion you couldn’t yet name.

And 2 degrees we have Taurus territory. A supreme power degree. I sense this gives him a strange paradox, an urge to anchor his identity in peace and generosity, while his inner world is this restless wildfire, always scanning for the next enemy, the next fight, or the next person to save. True Lilith here wants to help. This isn’t the selfish kind of fire. It’s the kind that says, “If I’m burning, at least let me light someone else’s way.” And that’s beautiful. Dangerous, but beautiful.

His True Lilith is also retrograde, this is ancestral. Retrograde True Lilith in the 4th isn’t just about childhood pain, it’s about carrying the pain of the entire bloodline. And in Aries, that pain centers on agency, the right to be, to choose, to fight for your own life and your own identity without guilt. I sense Justin didn’t just grow up without emotional safety; he inherited a legacy of people suppressing themselves, playing nice, swallowing rage and calling it loyalty. That karmic suppression gets funneled into him like a red-hot arrow in reverse.

But here’s where the vice comes in: Asteroid Lucifer is conjunct Lilith. Lucifer isn’t evil, he’s the fallen angel, the rebel, the one who refused to bow. He’s the part of you that says, “No one owns me.” And paired with Lilith in Aries? He doesn’t whisper. He shouts. He makes you allergic to control, even when the person trying to help you is, well…trying to help you. That manifests for Justin as self sabotage hidden inside good intentions. Think of every time he has tried to reclaim his image, start fresh, find God, propose to peace, and then somehow blows it up from the inside out. That's Lucifer pressing the self-destruct button labeled freedom. Not because he’s evil. Because he's terrified of being caged. 

Now layer in the trine to a Scorpio Ascendant. Trines are easy energy, things that come naturally. So for Justin, transforming, reinventing, rising from ashes? That’s second nature. But what most people miss is the emotional depth required to do that. Scorpio is not surface-level. It’s deep-sea diving in pitch black. And when that Ascendant trines Lilith, it makes the rebellion magnetic. He doesn’t just rebel, he seduces with it. People want to watch him fall. And then they want to watch him get back up. Over and over. But this pattern has a cost.

The final twist? The square to Asteroid Narcissus in Capricorn in the 2nd House. This is where the emotional landmine gets buried. Narcissus doesn’t mean he’s obsessed with his reflection. It means his sense of worth is in a wrestling match with performance. Capricorn in the 2nd wants control, structure, legacy. It says, “Show me your resume before I decide if you’re lovable.” And Lilith screams, “I don’t need to earn love, I am love.” But they clash. Hard. This square is emotional whiplash: flip-flopping between trying to own his worth through external achievement, and resenting anyone who makes him feel like he has to earn it in the first place. One minute he’s building empires. The next, he’s ghosting everything. I intuitively feel that this manifests in his life through a constant cycle: create something meaningful, attach his worth to it, get too close to a feeling of control, then blow it all up so he can feel free again.

My person advice to Justin? I want you to stop seeing this fire as a flaw. It’s not your vice. It’s your weapon. But you’ve been using it to cut yourself open instead of carving out the life you want. You don’t need to perform rebellion anymore. You are rebellion. That’s not something you prove, it’s something you wield, consciously.

Build the home you never had. Not the mansion. Not the fanbase. The emotional home inside you that doesn’t need to explode just because someone closes a door. Let people in, but keep your boundaries electric. Channel that Lilith fire into protecting your peace instead of fighting imaginary wars. Be generous, but stop trying to be everyone's savior. If someone can’t meet you with the same emotional depth, don’t water yourself down, walk.  And next time that inner voice tempts you to burn it all down just to feel something again? Don’t give in. Find something real to set on fire, like a dream, a cause, or a version of yourself that doesn’t need applause to survive.

With cosmic love and a little tough truth, ✨

Astro Ash

Helping you navigate the stars, and yourself.

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🪷The Pisces paradox of being obsessed with yourself and taking pictures 24/7 and also desiring to escape your mortal flesh

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