#lilith asteroid

❦ like said in the title this is based on black moon lilith asteroid! if this post goes well i'll consider doing the other lilith asteroids. on the other hand this lilith asteroid specifically does indicate the wild side of femininity society attempts to scrutinise and villanise when it's a woman being themselves, it could also manifest into individuals who feel tempted by the wild nature of lilith and how it could impact them.

❦ i'll go by planets and the nodes, and i'll focus on the axis on this post.

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BLACK MOONTH LILITH ASPECTS AND THE PLANETS ⬎

⚸𖤓 black moon lilith aspecting the sun ⟶ people with this aspect impact people with needing to do much. these people breathe and there could be people sizing them up, thinking they're too conceited or arrogant, though this could attract people who are into women who know themselves, what they want, how they desire others and go on about cherishing their ego. this aspect brings an aura where temptation and wanting to tame is involved, this native might find people always wanting to be in a competition with them, critiquing them and even pushing conservative etiquette onto them. for example if someone is loudly confident and STILL capable of not being mean to other people, society would still want to humble them.

⚸☽ black moon lilith aspecting the moon ⟶ people might've had a mother figure that was scrutinised by other people, or had a mother figure that was envious of them or projected emotions and trauma onto these people who carry this aspect. could also feel like motherhood and having a baby is forced onto them. though they could attract people who are unapologetically primal, having raw hunger for them and these people might be able to always tell whenever someone is attracted to them. on one hand, people who have this aspect might be looked down on for being too emotional and in touch with their vulnerability and emotional core, individual might hold their tongue when expressing their emotions because society might feel like its coded to belittle them for expressing themselves. on the other hand, secretly desired becomes this person, people might hide away the fact that they desire the empowered and unapologetic wild femininty they embody.

⚸☿️ black moon lilith aspecting mercury ⟶ very straight-forward people and other people either love it or hate it. these people are the ones who dare to say what other people want to say and they can get away with it because they're charming, the type to insult you with a smile and other people wouldnt know if they want to slap them or kiss them. on one hand this aspect can bring shady peers, peers who like to get into their mind or the peers think of the native too much, individual might feel defensive around those who have this aspect. people might be mesmerised by how they speak and could make people question themselves and even morals. this aspect could bring relatives/siblings who take everything they say the wrong way, native might feel like they have to over-explain themselves or walk on eggshells. though some are naturally outspoken people that make others excited on what they're going to say next.

⚸♀ black moon lilith aspecting venus ⟶ this is the girl people are advised to not date but other people want to try courting them and taste what about them that could be so taboo. via beauty they can be people who stand out, for example if they're in an area where there's much white people they could be a woc and still be desired [not saying that its impossible to be woc and desired, its more about being in environments where the conventionally attractive are the only ones who tend to be adored when it comes to allure]. these people attract people because they ooze sexuality, gold-digger energy and being someone who does not care about cutting themselves into the form of what society accepts. howbeit, those with hard aspects like a square or opposition, and sometimes it could be conjunction. might feel forced to behave how society would want them to be, so its a push or pull dynamic with wanting to change themselves or express their natural beauty. plus people with this aspect tend to ooze beauty and sexuality without trying to so people might end up sexualising them all the time. likely put in uncomfortable situations.

⚸♂ black moon lilith aspecting mars ⟶ to have this aspect can mean that they feel like they're objectified by almost everyone around them. might feel like they have to prove themselves all the time or step away from expectations, having to give into temptation by other people, being shamed for being in touch with their sexuality or even masculinity if said person is a woman. these people could have people itching to put down their goals, people see the light and potential in them and would want to put a stop to that flicker. but other people could be inspired by these people innovative nature, these people could also attract people who either want to dominate them or submit to them. they embody fire and independence, the people others get excited about because they're very difficult to pin down, they could be a lone wolf as well, unintentionally attractive.

⚸♃ black moon lilith aspecting jupiter ⟶ this is an interesting aspect as it shows that these people do tend to be forbidden and they share a similarity with bml aspecting venus about being someone who is likely foreign compared to who they're around, yet this aspect can show that people tend to sexualise said person's background. could be someone who is strong with their roots and other people could be uncomfortable with that but could also attract people who copy them. there's much moral panic here, could be labelled as someone who is too much or too unhonly, equally people could be electrified by this person and the person's presence alone can expose hypocrisy within groups and people's desire and preferences. these people have an untamed wisdom and like to be free, could be around people who like to keep other people in leashes.

⚸♄ black moon lilith aspecting saturn ⟶ the most restricive one we have here. shows that person with this aspect could be around people who are very old-fashioned. reminds me of mormonism or the amish with how restricted someone could be and when person does something for themselves, likely the type to receive haunted gasps by others. this is the forbidden feminine aspect, others might think everything you do is sinful so you might've grown up ashamed for being who you are, always policed and judged by others but what you might do to other people is make others feel challenged even if your silent, you could have been someone who has been villanised or scapegoated by respectable types while secretly being admired for your fearlessness.

⚸♅ black moon lilith aspecting uranus ⟶ the alienated because you're different aspect. women who have this aspect put fear in people's heart because they remind them of something they dont know, or remind them of a future they realise they wont have control over. people could be attracted to the trait of not being able to predict who you are as a whole and they could find that fascinating. you are someone who could trigger liberation within other people by just showing them another way of being. this aspect could bring troubling friendship groups and sometimes feeling like a fly on the wall if you're around people who are not on the same wavelength as you. this aspect speaks of you being an awakening for other people but some could hate the feeling you bring out of them.

⚸♆ black moon lilith aspecting neptune ⟶ people fantasies even if you did not ask for it. could feel like you're being "fixed" into a persona that has nothing to do with you. could sometimes feel like they're living for other people. this aspect could attract stalkers and people who project fears into you besides from fantas, people could desire to chase you or be chased by you. you could be looked at as a temptation that has to be resisted, triggering obsession because you embody the wild feminine fantasy that they were told to pull away from. people could find your liberating side to be healing, unintentionally making people break from social chains that held them back.

⚸♆ black moon lilith aspecting pluto ⟶ this gives someone the femme fatale archetype, someone who magnestises extreme power and even experiences of obsession and desire from other people. the biggest temptation society attempts to lock away that makes other people want to look even more. you are someone that could make other people feel burned, people feel like you see right through them triggering obsessive attachments and even power struggles. if you are someone who finds liberty through money, sex and beauty you would be someone who attracts individuals who are consumed by you but also want to win you.

⚸☊ black moon lilith aspecting north node ⟶ and this could mean that you feel like you were handed a script you're not allowed to play, even safely. these two aspecting each other shows that you are someone who gets under people's skin and people dont know if they should hate you or praise you for making you realise open-minded and expansive ways of seeing beauty and self-care. your presence alone is karmic to other people and others might feel like you're a catalyst who changes other people's path even if it is messy. other people would feel like they're a moth to a flame and this could even make people angry about you never being a side character in their life but someone who continously appears in their head.

⚸☋ black moon lilith aspecting south node ⟶ people might think you're too wild or that you're someone who could get to the lowest version of themselves if possible. to many people you are considered as something dangerous and even those who like to connect themselves with the taboo would feel the black moon lilith energy coming from you like a gateway. other people might want to punish, obsess or tame over you, idolising your darkness while other people might demonise it, you could have really dark or high contrasting features that make other people feel like they're around a siren. to other people you would feel like you have years of ancient wisdom and lived a thousand times of rebellion which makes them feel like everything you say is the truth.

BLACK MOONTH LILITH ASPECTS AND THE AXIS ⬎

⚸♱ black moon lilith aspecting the ascendant ⟶ when you have black moon lilith aspect your ascendant you're already percevied as someone who is different and wild. you might be around people who are conservative or perceive life should be handled in a traditional way, but you come in interacting with life in ways other people wouldnt have thought of, if people around you are individuals who want to work in a corporate job, you are the people who wouldnt mind reaching for a career in creativity. you are people who challenge the thought process and principles of other people, and people could find your "untamed" nature something that turns them on and something they want to control. you're the type of people to have others in your life try to tell you what to do so power dynamics and power play is prominent in your life. when it comes to your allure, these people are like the forbidden fruit, people either rise against you or want to have you all to themselves.

⚸♱ black moon lilith aspecting the imum coeli ⟶ other people might feel like it is their duty to heal these people based on what they might've gone through. it's the type of aspect where someone might show behaviours of trauma or just abandonment and other people feel like they can be the person who can heal these people, get them together and aid them to see the brighter future. though when natives with this aspect show that they don't need people to save them it could create a negative response of self-entitled behaviour and even nitpicking the type of response where people say "you're not even my type anyways" to the people with this aspect to save themselves from the burn of rejection. besides from that, people with this aspect most likely have been raised in house holds as the black sheep, being considered as the one who might fail or is too different which can make people around them uncomfortable.

⚸♱ black moon lilith aspecting the descendant ⟶ when black moon lilith makes a connection with the descendant it shows that you could be the type of person society tells other people to not come forwards to. either for business, relationship or friendship [even family] but the people being warned against you see you as this forbidden fruit they must bite into to understand, and usually they end up seeing why society exiles the idea of you BUT they also notice it comes from their own fear. this makes the warned people learn that the people around them fear freedom while you embody liberation. people with this aspect might find themselves being the scape goat to other people's reasons to why a relationship or a project doesnt go well, easily villanised people who need to find community that they will thrive in or the projections of other people would be something you might begin to believe in. this aspect makes you a mirror to other people even if you don't want it to, but it could also hint that you could have self-destructive qualities you need to work on.

⚸♱ black moon lilith aspecting the midheaven ⟶ people with this aspect might feel like they can never catch a break with people, they could also go through many situations where people are wishy washy or just flaky with how they treat natives with this aspect. though people with positive aspects like a trine or sextile tend to have interactions where people treat them like a foggy mirror they're unsure to wipe. to have this aspect shows that natives might be around those who want to over-power them or control their image, they might also feel like they're never enough for them but enough to be sexualised by other people, yet when they want to express their sensuality they're scrutinished. a lot of hypocritical energy occurs here, much restrictions and forced to follow rules so other people leave them alone and stop criticising them. howbeit when these individuals become people who are unapologetic with their wild sexuality or femininty they do gain both negative and positive attention, people using them as a face of what happens when you walk down the wrong path or other people using them as an icon of what happens when you're comfortable in your own skin. overall, people with this aspect truly need to not rely on the validation of other people.

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based on my past SR charts.

tw: brief mentions of anxiety, SA, depression and death.

☆ The year I had the Hekate (100) asteroid in my 12th house, I bought my first tarot deck and Ouija board. My readings were always accurate, but I lost interest due to how drained I felt afterward.

☆ When I had Venus in Scorpio, I got a lot of attention from men. I have Scorpio in Venus this year again and I’ve been getting a lot more attention from men than I did last year.

☆ When I had Moon in my 1st house and Pluto in my 12th, I became pretty depressed and started isolating myself.

☆ With Saturn and Pluto in my 7th house, I experienced a major loss of someone close to me. It majorly impacted my trust in other people. That same year I also had Hekate at 0 degrees in my 4th house.

☆ The year I had Sun in my 3rd house I met my best friend, whom I later found out lived in the same neighborhood.

☆ I was sexually harassed a lot the year I had Lilith in my 1st house.

☆ When Saturn was in my 6th house I lost a lot of weight and worked out literally every single day.

↳ and the part of you that keeps trying to come back louder, even when the world tries to shut it down.

♈ Lilith in Aries

You were punished for your fight. For reacting too quickly, too loudly, too honestly. Someone told you that your anger made you unstable, dangerous, unloveable. So now, when you want to scream, you swallow it and smile instead. You don't have anger issues — you have issues with your anger, you fear it, you keep it at a distance and try to detach yourself from it. You try not to become what they label you as — a monster. In chasing what you refuse to be (what they have labeled you), You can lose yourself entirely. But no matter what you do to separate yourself from the flames, the fire doesn’t go away — it just burns your insides instead of theirs.

♉ Lilith in Taurus

You were told to tone it down — your taste, your body , your desire to feel full. Maybe people called you lazy, dramatic, or "too sensitive" when all you wanted was peace. You were tested a lot in your youth, your patience ran thin a lot and it almost felt karmically destined for you to bite your tongue at times. You learned to settle for crumbs because you were made to feel guilty for asking for more. But your desire is sacred. You’re allowed to crave softness without apology.

♊ Lilith in Gemini

You were told your voice was a weapon. Too sharp. Too much. Too fast. Maybe someone rolled their eyes every time you spoke — or told you you talked just to hear yourself. So you stopped sharing your truth out loud and started overthinking every word. You may have become talk of the town, or labeled the town gossip, even when you are the polar opposite. It seems like nobody in your youth or in your neighborhood can see you for who you truly are. You may always feel like you have to be aware of how you conduct yourself when you meet new people because of your past problems with others. You must realise that your voice deserves to be heard without a filter.

♋ Lilith in Cancer

You were constantly made to feel like your emotional wellbeing was a problem, like being emotional is your detriment. You may have never felt safe to show vulnerable emotion, but rather have had to swallow your tears and shut down to create emotional space for others. you were abandoned by your mother, or by feminine energy, and you struggle with emotional regulation because of this. You were labeled as too attached, too clingy, too nostalgic. Maybe you were told to "get over it" or "stop crying" when all you needed was to feel safe. But being sensitive isn't a character flaw. It’s your greatest strength. The way you love is deeper than most people know how to receive.

♌ Lilith in Leo

Your light was too bright early on & you were told to stop showing off. To tone it down. That being proud of yourself was arrogant. The irony is that the same people who told you to tone it down are the same people who push you in the spotlight. You may have grown up with parents who saw you as a paycheck, or parents who projected hyper-independence on to you. Sadly, people may have even clapped louder when you failed than when you succeeded. So now you hide your light or play small in rooms where you should be glowing. But you were never meant to dim just to make others comfortable.

♍ Lilith in Virgo

You were made to feel like your needs were a burden. Like wanting for something was an inconvenience for someone else. You may have felt burdened by your dependency since you were a kid. This led you to become hyper independent, which you also face extreme criticism for. Your caring nature was criticized and your precision was your sense of control. Maybe people used your perfectionism against you — made you feel cold, uptight, unloveable unless you were "easy." The key is to set boundaries & limit being around people who want to use you.

♎ Lilith in Libra

You were punished for being beautiful, sheesh. You were told you were too fake — too charming, too pretty, too desirable. You may have been shamed for your "appeal" and you may have sadly experienced this shame a lot in your youth. You were labeled as a competitor to the feminine so you may have had older women specifically jealous or hateful towards you for no reason. People also resented the way you keep the peace, even when it's killing you inside. You learned to compromise so often you forgot what you wanted. Somewhere in your youth, you were taught it was safer to shrink yourself than it was to rock the boat. But your power is not in people-pleasing — it’s in knowing how to walk away with grace.

♏ Lilith in Scorpio

You were called manipulative way too young, and way too often. People accused you of dark things, of lying about dark things. You were told you were too much, too emotionally volatile. You were told your sexuality made you manipulative, your instincts made you paranoid, your silence made you cruel. So you learned to bury things deep. To control what you could and numb what you couldn’t. You have buried secrets for people who have taken more than they've ever given, and you can be loyal to a dangerous fault. Your sexuality is not something to feel shame about. Your vulnerability is beautiful, not poison.

♐ Lilith in Sagittarius

You were punished for being honest. For asking questions. For wanting more. Maybe someone told you to be realistic — to stop dreaming so big, to follow the rules like everyone else. Maybe you knew what buttons to press for more info, but part of you has always felt left in the dark. Not taken seriously so you may have felt undervalued often. You had to grow into your independency & wanderlust for life. You're here to learn by living, even if it makes other people uncomfortable.

♑ Lilith in Capricorn

You were told you were too ambitious and dreamed too big. Talk about Debbie Downers. You were made for feel like your success (and desire for success) makes you selfish. You may have felt like you had to put everything you wanted to accomplish on the back burner to take care of someone else's dreams. That success made you selfish. So now you second-guess every accomplishment — like you're only allowed to be proud after you’ve suffered enough. But you don’t have to prove your worth through pain. You were already worthy.

♒ Lilith in Aquarius

You were made to feel like a weirdo, but not the good kind. Too odd, too peculiar, too smart, too different. You used to wearing masks to pretend that you didn't care that you didn't belong, but deep down, you did. You care way more than anyone will ever know, and you have bent yourself in different ways to be socially acceptable. But your uniqueness was never meant to blend in. You're not here to be understood. You’re here to change the conversation. When you stop letting people shake you and gaslight you into thinking something is wrong with YOU for wanting change, you become your most powerful self.

♓ Lilith in Pisces

You were made to feel weak and a victim. You were told that your softness was a weakness, and that you're sensitivity was an issue. You were devalued because of your spiritual gifts, your dreams, your empathy. You were made fun of and were told what you believe in is nonsense. You learn to hide what makes you magic so no one can shame you for it, but your real gift is your ability to feel beyond the veil. You have learned how to play the "Bambi-like" woe-is-me archetype to your advantage. You sought out comfort in others misconceptions of you.

⟡ ᴅᴍ ᴍᴇ ꜰᴏʀ:

🌙 ᴘʀɪᴠᴀᴛᴇ ᴛᴀʀᴏᴛ & ᴘꜱʏᴄʜɪᴄ ʀᴇᴀᴅɪɴɢꜱ

🪐 ʙɪʀᴛʜ ᴄʜᴀʀᴛ ᴀɴᴀʟʏꜱɪꜱ & ᴀꜱᴛʀᴏʟᴏɢʏ ꜱᴇꜱꜱɪᴏɴꜱ

𓆩𖤐𓆪 ꜰᴀꜱᴛ, ɪɴᴛᴜɪᴛɪᴠᴇ, ᴀɴᴅ ɢᴜɪᴅᴇᴅ ʙʏ ꜱᴘɪʀɪᴛ.

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🔮 ᴛʜɪꜱ ᴡᴏʀᴋ ɪꜱ ᴍʏ ᴏᴡɴ — ᴘʟᴇᴀꜱᴇ ᴅᴏ ɴᴏᴛ ʀᴇᴘᴏꜱᴛ ᴡɪᴛʜᴏᴜᴛ ᴄʀᴇᴅɪᴛ.

✨ ꜰᴏʀ ᴇɴᴛᴇʀᴛᴀɪɴᴍᴇɴᴛ ᴘᴜʀᴘᴏꜱᴇꜱ ᴏɴʟʏ.

🌙 ɴᴏᴛ ɪɴᴛᴇɴᴅᴇᴅ ᴀꜱ ʀᴇᴀʟ, ᴍᴇᴅɪᴄᴀʟ, ᴏʀ ʟᴇɢᴀʟ ᴀᴅᴠɪᴄᴇ.

First of all, how is the eclipse energy treating you guys 👀?

Black Moon Lilith represents the raw, unfiltered parts of us that refuse to conform. She is the voice that says no when the world expects submission, the untamed fire of sexuality, defiance, and unclaimed power. In the birth chart, Lilith reveals where we challenge societal expectations, where we are feared or misunderstood, and where we reclaim what was once denied. Uh...let’s break it down by house:

Lilith in the Houses: The Shadow & The Power

1st House: The rebel at first sight. You exude mystery, intensity, and an almost intimidating allure. Others project their fears or desires onto you, often misjudging you before they even know you. You challenge norms by simply existing.

2nd House: Power and defiance are tied to self-worth and material security. You refuse to be owned or controlled, and you challenge traditional ideas of wealth, pleasure, and value. Sensual, yet unwilling to conform to others' expectations of your body and desires.

3rd House: Words are your weapon. You challenge authority through knowledge, communication, or even controversy. You may have been silenced as a child, but as you grow, your voice becomes impossible to ignore.

4th House: The black sheep of the family. You may have grown up feeling like the outsider, or there were hidden truths in your home life. Lilith here is about reclaiming emotional safety on your own terms.

5th House: Unapologetic self-expression. Creativity, romance, and pleasure are areas where you refuse to be tamed. You attract intense lovers who either worship you or fear your power. You love boldly, and that can be both magnetic and intimidating.

6th House: Rebellion in routine. You reject authority in workplaces, challenge outdated systems, and refuse to conform to standard ideas of health and productivity. You work best when you set your own rules.

7th House: Power struggles in relationships. You attract partners who fear your independence or try to control you. You are meant to break free from toxic dynamics and find partnerships that respect your strength.

8th House: Lilith thrives here. This is the dark, seductive, transformative energy that makes others obsessed. You hold deep knowledge of the taboo, sex, death, the occult. People may fear your ability to see through them.

9th House: Defiance through philosophy, religion, and beliefs. You question everything, challenge dogma, and refuse to be told what to think. Freedom is your birthright, and you will fight for it.

10th House: The one they can’t control. You’re a powerhouse in your career, but you might face opposition from authority figures who feel threatened by you. Your reputation is often polarized, people either admire or fear your presence.

11th House: You challenge social norms and redefine what community means. You may feel like an outsider but hold the power to create revolutionary movements. Lilith here means your presence shifts the collective mindset.

12th House: The unseen, mystical, and forbidden. Your Lilith is hidden from the world, manifesting in dreams, subconscious fears, or deep spiritual power. You must reclaim what was buried, intuition, sensuality, and the ability to break free from past-life wounds.

Lilith aspecting Moon

This is a very powerful placement for women specifically. The moon, which is your emotions, connected to the unconscious self, habits, comfort and femininity is connected to the point in your chart that is powerful and dark, a part fuelled by pain, and all about transmutation. These woman often have a very intriguing essence about them. Strong and seductive. It's like you are playing with fire. She enjoys being a little off putting and knows exactly how to be enticing yet intimidating all in one.

Neptune/Venus/Pluto in the 3rd House

The third house is often overlooked when people are speaking on seduction and sex appeal in astrology. People are so focused on visual they miss a key point. Seduction includes all the senses. Someone being beautiful doesn't necessarily mean they are seductive. It's the way someone moves, speaks, the things they say and don't say, how they hold themselves along with present themselves. It's subtle.

This brings me to why the third house comes into play. It inductees how we communicate. As mentioned words can be very seductive. Having planets like Neptune and Venus will give someone a sweet and sensual demeanour when talking. Neptune is very receptive and often these people are incredible at being able to asses the needs of the person they are taking to, it's a very intuitive placement. Neptune is also all about fantasy. Playing into a role you project onto them.

Pluto in the third's seductive tactics are centred around power snd control. Manipulation if you will - not always in the worst sense. They are good at digging for information getting to the base of the persons psyche that they are speaking to. Once again it's about understanding the people around them. You can see how Neptune and Pluto have this in common but the way they use this is different.

Scorpio Rising

I feel like you guys know this one has to be mentioned. And I am sure I have written about this before. However I feel it's important to explain why this rising sign specifically holds such seductive energy. I often hear people talk about their eyes, which is very true. But it goes much deeper than just appearance. Scorpio naturally rules over the 8th house, a house that is very deep and dark. It's shrouded by mystery and taboo, along with being a sexually charged house. Now think about all of these themes being brought into the 1st house. Being at the forefront of someones being in not only the way they look, but they way they carry themselves and interact with the world around them. It's very provocative energy.

But there is more. Though people may assume that because of this scorpios may give off an overt sexual energy, its not quite as obvious one one may think. Whilst there is this air of sex appeal around them, this often doesn't come from being so open and bold about these things, but rather from holding a little something back. As we know scorpio is about the things below the surface, secrets, privacy. This creates a dynamic where people can sense this energy, however they must peel back the layers and investigate more to truly see what these people are like. This can create a push and pull, a little bit of an enigma. It piques the intrigue of people and encourages the chase.

Mercury quintile/Bi-quintile Mars, Pluto or Neptune & Lilith in some cases

Very similar to the previously mentioned third house, Mercury rules over communication, along wit the way we think and process things. Having a quintile or Bi-quintile aspecting mercury it shows us that someone has a particular skill around communication. I have already explained why having Pluto and Neptune connected to areas of your chart dealing with communication creates seduction.

I also included Mars, as Mars is a planet of strategy. Often working towards a goal these people like to win, and are very good at 'winning people over' in conversation. Mars is more of a dominant planet so domination is a tactic often used by these people. Sometimes being commanded is sexy. These people speak strongly which is sexy.

The reason why I put Lilith as a case by case aspect is because as we know, Lilith often states as a place of wounding in a natal chart. It's only after someone has healed those wounds and understood the source of power that that area of their chart is with Lilith sitting there that they can truly start to embody and experience this. Though I will say having Lilith in a quintile or Bi-quintile is often easier. When developed Lilith is a very untamed energy, a little wild and unpredictable. Two traits that are extremely enticing.

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Hi guys I hope you're doing well🤍

These months(17 of them?) of running an astro blog have made me see a variety of opinions regarding a lot of things, mainly_ astrology.

I want to say that this is obviously social media and it's barely a solid, reliable place for sharing or getting info, but on the other side of this, the freedom of internet and, at least relative anonimity can produce truly remarkable insights/statements that you won't see anywhere else. You can never know how true or untrue someone can be unless you really read what they've written(or listen to what they've recorded) and take it in.

But it is still so rare for me to find a blog that shares most of my views. I mean, anyone with an access to internet can start an astrology blog. It's so easy to copy and paste articles on the internet and put them here. They can get thousands of notes and people will believe them and share that unverified info that's been distorted through copying and repetition, to others(which is a whole another, very sad story).

And on most days I just mind my business and work on myself, not wanting to even go close to that energy. I might politely comment on posts that seem false to me, just expressing my suspicions or opinions and asking for theirs in return, but to be very honest, I am tired of seeing the same faulty takes and overall approach. So here are some things that, to me, are just ???? so questionable to say the least(with added reasons):

1. Mixing Vedic and Western

In many ways.

Outer planets that are only used in Western? Sure, here are descriptions and "observations" of them in Vedic nakshatras.

Asteroids that Vedic does not look at? Here are explanations of them in nakshatras too. (But there's an exception that I talk about later)

Western composite and synastry aspects? Yeah here is their analysis based on Vedic charts.

And so many more.

It's not a question of whether their "formulas" mix or not, but a question of integrity and of what you follow.

2. Nakshatras in D9(navamsa) and other divisional charts (!)

Whyyyyyy. Just tell me why.

I don't think anyone who uses nakshatras in any divisional chart has really thought about it.

And before they make say to me something like "you should be open minded" or "people resonate with it"(people are complex and can resonate to many things but nakshatras in divisional charts are not the explanation behind that), they should just read my post on my pinned masterlist about that.

Like I'm this 🤏 close to launching an inquisition to just call out every blog who does this, because it's alarming how many people can defend an illogical point with such unwillingness to see the opposite take.

I feel strongly about this one and I kinda judge people who go with it.

There are no nakshatrs in D9 cause divisional signs are hypothetical, nakshatras are actual stars in the sky. Case closed.

3. Asteroid obsession

Look guys, I love asteroids as much as the next person, if not more. And it makes sense for astrology lovers to be really into asteroids, since astrology is mythological already and asteroids open up a whole variety of different mythological associations and, with them, the potential of embodying them.

But here's where most people can reach error: asteroids cannot be holding the same influence/power as other planets.

There are so many posts with lengthy descriptions of asteroid placements in signs, houses or them aspecting planets with sextiles, trines(those aspects don't matter in most cases when it comes to asteroids).

I think asteroids only ever really hold power if they are closely(4 degrees at most) conjunct or opposite big three or other important planets, and important planets/points are unique to each chart. Asteroid interpretation requires realness with yourself and others and, more importantly, common sense. And yeah, you can interpret them in nakshatras ONLY IF they are tightly conjunct an important planet and you have some examples.

I've seen a lot of obsession with asteroids such as Lilith, Aphrodite, Sirene, Groom, Briede.

Yeah online astrology can generate the need to compare yourself to others, which is silly, cause all charts are unique and have a unique beauty, and there's no such things as "more" or "less" unique anything.

4. Making stuff up

Ok here I'm talking about takes that are barely backed by valid examples.

Like when a blog attributes a theme or a pattern to a placement that has not a lot in common with its original association and/or is backed by examples that are not really viable.

Like when someone says: "Ashwini is associated with .......(insert some specific scenario/trope). Examples: *this actor*_ mars in Ashwini, *this actress*_ D9 ketu in Ashwini(are you for real...), *this person*_ their D393747838 Mercury in Ashwini, time unspecified so might be Bharani."

I know this sounds exaggerated(the last example obviously is) but I've really seen blogs where mars or venus or mercury(jupiter and saturn too) are used as exmaples for a nakshatra. And I've seen a whole blog that focuses on D60 ketu nakshatras a lot.

Now, I think that stems from a desire to associate specific feelings/vibes and themes that they are into with placements that they most likely have, in a way that feels original. But you can't just take vague feelings/suspicions and present them as logical observations or facts, it doesn't work like that😭

A lot of "vibes" or feelings that I had about nakshatras did turn out to be true, but I had to wait to find proof myself, and sometimes the observations can change a little after discovering solid examples and it makes it all clear.

5. Shallow Stereotyping

I know, astrology is built on "strerotypes", but to me they're more archetypes.

A lot of narrow stereotyping can come from more influential astrologers.

This is especially common in Vedic astrology and with people who follow Claire Nakti.

For example, with her, I love how she uses art and real life people as examples but she too can make mistakes. And she has, and if she discovers them, she adds them as disclaimers in her descriptions.

I think sometimes she can be narrow with her observations, which isn't necessarily bad, but when people see those as undisputably true and more important than their own or other astrologers' observations, then it is.

For example, she made 3 videos about Bharani but I still think she missed some important themes because she was stuck on providing more and more detail for the same point😭

Trusting influential astrologers blindly and quoting/paraphrasing them to prove their own points is a real epidemic.

Just fyi, crediting them while proving their point with your own examples is not the same.

So, anyone can make mistakes, and everyone should be open to changing their mind, but never without real examples and proof.

6. Style over substance

Possibly the biggest problem that is the root of most of other problems in this "community".

The reason why astrology became pop is because of simplifications and, more importantly, flashy images and words.

I've already made a post about how harmful I think the irresponsibility of sharing faulty astrological info is. I'm disturbed by all that manic energy around a thing that should be low-pressure but valid and educational.

I don't think astrology is meant to help you make desicions in a direct way, or to be used as the ultimate filter to judge others and look at the world. It's not the end-all be-all truth at all, not at all. But it is something that a lot of people take seriously and I just have little to no respect for blogs that use AI or don't care for logic or facts.

People here can argue and defend AI in astrology😭 they can irresponsibly make contradictory statements, have no verified observations of their own whatsoever and still act like the expert while interacting or posting.

That's all I wanna say about this right now.

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nympho

⚸°Lilith Astrology Observations°⚸

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*This post includes more types of Lilith's energy in your natal chart. These are

Lilith (h12) Mean Lilith ⚸ (this is the most common Lilith we find in our charts astro.seek or astro com)

Lilith (h13) True Lilith ⚸

Lilith asteroid (1181) ⚸

Lilith's DARK Moon (h58) ⚸

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(Some observations can be 18+)

⚸-> Lilith (h12) harshly aspecting Jupiter are crazy in bed, these can be the type of people who often go for more rounds. Just because they cannot hold it themselves

⚸-> Lilith (h12) or (h13) in Water/Earth signs indicate dark feminine energy, which is not bad at all because often this energy is send to the native by their ancestors/ or by their higher self

(And yes Lilith can also indicate things you gained from ancestors or being protected by ancestors)

⚸-> Lilith (h12) or (h13) in Fire/Air signs indicate the light feminine, which can be easier felt because of their personality. Natives with these placements can often have a big ego and likeable personality

⚸-> Lilith (h12) - in 6th/11th house love to praised for their work, these people have a big influence in their workplace

⚸-> Lilith (58) - in Scorpio/8th house > My Lord, these people are dark, they can be very revengeful/evil if someone does them dirty, also their sexual energy, Lorddddd >>>>>

⚸-> Lilith (58) aspecting the Sun > They embody the dark nature of their higher self easier, these people are full of intensity and power, these people can often attract powerful people in their lives

⚸-> Lilith (h12) - conjunct/square/opposite Moon > one of the most powerful aspects to have in your chart, they have an specific magnetic 🧲 field around, something that makes people to wonder about them.

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D E V O U R

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⚸-> Any of these Lilith in the sign of Leo ♌🦁 > they have a big pride and they are very confident. Loyal and appreciated by others

⚸-> True Lilith (h13) - aspecting Mars > Literally demon/angel of sex vibes, thet dream about it, they seek it, they desire it...They just want to eat your soul at this point

⚸-> True Lilith (h13) in Taurus Degrees 2°. 14°, 26° > They embody so much feminine vibes. Their true nature is feminine/no matter in the gender, these people are feminine inside 💠

⚸-> Lilith Asteroid (1181) in the 5th house > These natives are looking for intensity in love at every corner, i tell you this placement makes people to wife you up

⚸-> If Lilith asteroid is aspecting the asteroid Aphrodite (1388) the native has a very dark beauty > meaning they're majestic wearing dark colors/dark makeup 💄, and omg they're so sassy

⚸-> Any of these Lilith's in the signs or Gemini ♊ or Virgo ♍. The native has an seductive voice And people often ignore that. But they forget these Lilith's are ruled by Mercury

⚸-> Lilith (h12) aspecting the ascendant is so intense that most people with these aspects attract so much envy and hate from others

⚸-> Lilith (h12) or True Lilith (h13) in the 7th house can attract toxic partners in their relationships, be aware of people who show toxic behaviors at the first meeting cus' it may be a big red flag

⚸-> Lilith Asteroid (1881) trine/sextile Moon > it may be easier for them to be in their feminine energy. Because the energy here is calm and in harmony with their aura/personality.

⚸-> Lilith (h12) conjunct Saturn might be so though, people with these placements are so rebel. They're very dominant and don't want to listen to anyone just them. They may often have scandals with older people than them or with authorities

⚸-> Any of these Lilith's in the sign of Sagittarius ♐ are very carefree and in searching for their own freedom, most people with these placements could've raised in strict families. So their freedom was banned pretty much

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S E X • P O I S O N

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⚸-> Lilith (58) in the 6th house/Virgo can often end up to use sex as a key to something they want, which is not 100% positive, either way they're very practical during the act and they're have an unique duality between their personality

⚸-> It may be hard for people with True Lilith (13) - Venus aspects to find a partner, because they can often met people who want only sex and one night stands

⚸-> Any of these Lilith's in the sign of Aries ♈🐏 can indicate a big rebellious nature. A true leader and someone very powerful in terms of stability. They're also very dominant in most aspects in their lives > Men with these aspects please marry me..🫶🏼

⚸-> Any of these Lilith's in the sign of Aquarius ♒🏺 are very humanitarian people and they cannot stand for people who do others wrong, or for people who hurts others. They hate conflicts and they hate the chaos that is upon earth

⚸-> True Lilith (h13) - Eros (433) aspects > Oh Lord, they're extremely sexual and beautiful, I always imagined this energy as an angel of sex/demon of breaking beds, kind of thing

⚸-> Lilith (h58) aspecting Pluto > Oh my, this aspect embody the Phoenix archetype, rising from the ashes when they're hurt and come back wayy stronger

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F E M M E • F A T A L E

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⚸-> Asteroid Lilith (1881) opposite/square Mercury can be great at lying though, they can lie people as a key to get what they want and to make others to believe their lies

⚸-> True Lilith (h13) in Cancer Degrees > 4°. 16°. 28° give an "innocent" vibes to others. Sometimes they can have that "holy" vibe and that can make attract more people

⚸-> Any of these Lilith's in the sign of Pisces ♓🐟 have to use intuition as a key to make themselves more aware of the people around them, they're so dreamy and hypnotic though. one touch and you dream about them all night

⚸-> Okay here it comes THE MOTHERRRRR, Any of these Lilith's in the sign of Cancer ♋ 🦀 (THEEEE MOTHERRRRRRR PURRR). Their nurture energy makes people to be into them instantly. no wonder why men with these Lilith signs have boobs kinks... People with these placements be like "come here let me hug you, 2 seconds later they're hard/wet"... (😭)

⚸-> Lilith (h12) or Lilith (h13) aspecting MC (Midheaven) or in the 10th house, can manifest an sexual energy the way people see them. They be like "Omg you saw that person? Omg yass they're so hot"

⚸-> Asteroid Sirene (1009) aspecting the True Lilith (h13) or Lilith (h12) > You're the mermaid who wants to f*CK with pirates. And then you drown them in the ocean, so cute 🥰 first you sing to them then you say "Sikeeeee" 😇

⚸-> Any of these Lilith's in the sign of Capricorn ♑🐐. Show a lot of respect and success, they're may have been raised in traditional ways with strict/though parents with hard lessons. And that's what made them who are they today. An powerful human being

⚸-> Lilith (h58) at 3°, 15°, 27° degrees can cuss a lot or talk dirty when they're mad, one thing is clear they can get so sassy and they have the words at them always

⚸-> Any of these Lilith's aspecting the Chiron indicate. A wounded feminine. Their energy is to heal their wounds and to be back again in their feminine aura, push away the people who throw you out of your feminine energy though

⚸-> Lilith asteroid (1181) opposite/square Venus. May be the type of person who's always hurt by lovers/relationship or hurt by fact that some of them may be single, on the other hand they have so much love to give

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V E N O M

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⚸-> Lilith (h12) and True Lilith (h13) in the 4th or 8th house can have an karmic family life, for example an generational curse that they may need to break

⚸-> Speaking of karmic life Lilith (58) in the 8th house has to break all the things that keeps them to suffer/to feel bad/hurt, it's not an easy placement but is powerful

⚸-> Any of these Lilith's signs in the 9th house may have suffered from religious traumas/for example people forcing them to believe in a certain religion,god etc.. they can often be attracted into cult

⚸-> Lilith (h12) or True Lilith (h13) in the 11th house may have been betrayed a lot. Or backstabbed by their friends/lovers/people they care about, yet they don't always show that because they don't like to show weakness

⚸-> Lilith (h12) in the 2nd house can be the type of person who's always hungry for something, they're hungry more times a day and need to fulfill that

⚸-> Lilith in Leo Degrees 5°. 17°. 29° > May have a kink for worshipping their partners of vice versa. They also loved to be praised in bed and in their everyday life together with their partners

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PROMISCUOUS

MOTIVE

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⚸-> Good day for everyone. Is a new week in the last days of October 🎃⚰️ the most spooky month flies away with us leaving just the memories behind ⚰️🎃

Anywayssss today the theme was kind of spooky/crazy I can say, I liked it to be honest, my fingers kinda hurt from so much editing and writing 🎃⚰️, it was wait the worth for the post tho💅🏼

I want for everyone who watches this post to have a very good start of the week. Full of blessings and good news around the corner, bless everyone ❤️❤️❤️, and prayers for those who are struggling with certain things in life ❤️❤️❤️

Aries Lilith

Rebellious and individualistic, having disdain for rules and authority. You may not conform to gender roles or other societal norms, having a very outward expression, even if just in energy, attitude, and beliefs. You always want to do things your way and hate being told what you "should" or "could" do.

Men being super competitive and trying to assert power over you. You could have weird power dynamics with men where they feel intimidated by you. For example, you could lift weights and have guys go, "You're strong but I'm still taller than you."

Women can also be competitive with you or just not like you for some reason. BUT you can also be very competitive as well, whether you know it or not. It could be something you keep hidden depending on the rest of your chart.

People thinking you're too intense or aggressive. You aren't afraid to speak out and stand your ground, burning whatever blocks your way. This is often something you've worked on where you've been in situations that have forced you to be assertive. You might get into conflicts or irritate people just by existing lol.

You can also be extremely inspiring to those that are too afraid to speak up for themselves or express themselves. They can see you as a leader of sorts, quietly admiring from the sidelines.

Lilith in 7th House

(TW) Relationships can be tricky because you may attract partners that are unavailable, struggling with addictions/mental illness, abusive, extremely controlling.

Rejecting traditional marriage/dating roles. You may be opposed to marriage because you find it to be unnecessary. The finality of it can also feel quite daunting, you may really honor your independence and freedom.

Aries Lilith in 7th House

Partners and love interests wanting to suppress your power and dampen your confidence through aggression. I would call this "smothering your flame."

Relationships are quite intense because it unearths a lot of issues that you haven't confronted yet, and they're being reflected back at you. Vice Versa, your partner could feel the same way, it's like a mirror being help up and projected on the other. These issues can be related to impatience, being short-tempered, selfishness, possessiveness, defensiveness, being stubborn - the shadow aspects of Aries.

You may avoid relationships altogether due to past experiences, becoming emotionally unavailable or cold. You may feel like you don't need anyone and push away anyone that gets too close, you want to be your own person.

However, this can teach you how to have high standards and not let anyone walk all over you - know what you deserve and don't settle for any less.

Wild and untamed in sexuality, you crave intensity and being in control. Like I said before, you do not want to be told what to do, you want to be the one taking the lead. You might even be a bit too focused on your own pleasure while being consumed with passion; fast-paced and primal.