#biorposting

"kids are so whiny and annoying" you want them to be dependent on adults and obedient and silent and convenient but also independent and not needing anything but also without any sense of autonomy and agency but also going outside and getting off their damn phones but also staying inside so they don't get into trouble but also recognizing they have it good but also that the new generation is mindless and stupid but also just say what they want in clear and emotionally mature words but also stop asking for things AND you want them to not be pissy about it? get real

fun fact "a-spec people can still feel love even if it's different from what amatonormative society considers love" and "some people don't experience love at all and that's fine and doesn't make them any less human or worthy of respect" are two statements that can and do coexist

losing yourself in fiction and getting out of touch with reality? boy do i have a solution for you. take your blorbo on adventures with you. go on a walk and think "man what would blorbo say about this." listen to music and ask your blorbo if they like it. tell your blorbo about your day. try to sleep while your blorbo makes commentary like they're making tumblr shitposts

so funny to me when people get offended at implying porn is an important part of queer expression. okay so the expressing sexuality media is unrelated to the expressing sexuality community. but suburus, cuffed jeans, and specific hairstyles, and certain hobbies are core parts of that same community to the point where seeing someone with those traits in the wild is enough to warrant asking if they are part of that expressing sexuality community. yeah sure makes sense

if i could i would endlessly preach about harm reduction. i would be like one of those guys who's at your door and asks if you want to talk about jesus but instead it's harm reduction