#becool

Hi Anon, I appreciate your kind words. 😘

I'm confused as to your question though. Are you asking me how to be a supportive Sam fan? I think the answer is pretty obvious: don't be an asshole. Sam knows who the cool fans are. They're EASY to spot--they don't talk shit about Sam or the women he dates. Simple as that.

So, I don't know if it is the quarentine or just my already over active mind working overtime, but I wonder if my "fetish" or desire to share my life with someone who has sex with other guys while I remain faithful, makes me wierd.

I imagine my life with them being normal otherwise. I want to be their best friend and share all the joys of travel and living life to its fullest. I'm a single white guy with a bunch of tattoos who mostly wears suits (you've seen the look🤣). I bought in a house for southern California that's modest but walking distance to the beach. I work in a field that has afforded me the opportunity to travel freely which is somewhat wierd to do by yourself in romantic spots. Regardless, I live a fun life. My days consist of meetings throughout the day and then by 4, I'm out having drinks downtown or getting ready for a function that night. I also founded a nonprofit which is something I feel very passionate about.

I got so sidetracked. So, I meet women who are successful and beautiful but VERY vanilla. Maybe them getting wild is doggy style. It's not what I want. I don't want to have that part of my life missing. I want to go to "adult only" crazy resorts with my girlfriend or wife! I want to go to topless beaches in France or nudist beaches in Greece. And I want her to do other guys while I watch or not watch.

So, that seems to be the point where I am losing my audience. It becomes one of those things where I almost want to ask if they're okay with it upfront, like maybe on the first date. This way I'm not wasting their time. Also, I'm not into her being with a specific race...it would be whomever she chose.

Dear BeCool Vanguard,