Mentee backformation rage: a workplace hazard
Colleague: ARGH
Me: You ok there?
Colleague: This document I'm reading uses the word "mentee". I HATE the word "mentee"
Me: Oh c'mon, you can't hate words. Words are great. But it is a weird word, yeah.
Colleague: It's made up! "Mentor" comes from a name in mythology! You can't just make "mentee" from it!
Me: Ah, backformation, that old chestnut. Roll with it, homie.
Colleague: *fumes*
Me: I think it's funny, it looks like "manatee" *looks up pictures of manatees on the internet*
Indeed, "mentee" is an excellent example of backformation, the process whereby a new word is derived by removing/adding actual or supposed affixes, in this case swapping the "or" suffix for "ee".
In the case of Mentor, the "or" wasn't originally a suffix like we see in "director" or "leaser", meaning 'the one who does something'.
As my esteemed colleague correctly pointed out to me, Mentor was a figure in Greek mythology, who was then the namesake of a character in a modern book (1699) called Les Aventures de Telemaque, by the French writer François FÊnelon (source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mentor). This book is thought to have influenced the current general usage of "mentor", meaning a trusted friend, counsellor or teacher, usually a more experienced person.
Because "mentor" has moved into general usage as a noun from its original proper noun status, we have started to deconstruct it and derive new words from it. This is the beauty of language - we can get very creative and productive, and make new words to express what we require.
In this case, we need a succinct label for the "person-who-receives-mentoring", and "mentee" fits the bill pretty well. Most people would be able to easily derive its meaning, due to the other examples of this "ee" suffix in general use like "employer/employee".
I think in future though I'll make sure I use "protĂŠgĂŠ" around my colleague if I ever need to describe this relationship. I think that'll prevent his mythological rage from arising again in the face of "mentee".