yes, i’m a dismissive avoidant go cry about it
but actually nothing pmo more than when i tell someone this upfront or if i’m chatting w someone even js semi romantic casually and im showing my personality and everything and then boom they’re like “i’ve kinda fallen for you” how?! i didn’t do anything for that to happen THEN i’ll give them the story of how i’m not looking to date or emotionally available and they continue and i won’t text them for days they’ll text how they miss me, and i ignore them saying they miss me or like me, or love u (in regards of my friends) bc what is wrong with u and i didn’t do anything then i’ll get blamed when i didn’t tell them to like me i jokingly flirt sometimes but they’re horrible clever lines i’m never complimenting somebody WHY ARE U STILL LIKING MEEEEEEE
PLEASE STOP
i try not to shut down them expressing emotions bc boys alr rarely do it but dude i’m not gonna even say anything IF i eventually like you unless u leave then i’ll chase
