#atsuya

🍬Satoru Gojo:

This man😭✌

This is minor one but he will ABSOLUTELY raigbait the literal fuck out of you. It doesn't sound that bad till it happens when you're tired or stressed or trying to be serious.

Kiiiinda get a feeling that he has a bit of a superiority thing going on. It's so subtle yet deep rooted that he absolutely doesn't realise that he's doing it. Often you'll find yourself slightly irritated because he just refuses to acknowledge some of your ideas because he's so set on his own.

He can be extremely mean and rude at times, especially when arguments with him get bad. He gets so set on proving his point that he often overlooks the fact that the person he's arguing with is an actual person. Sometimes he deliberately says stuff, just to hurt you during the argument and make things go in his favour, though it's not often.

Absolutely refuses to share his feelings and problems at times, leaving you thinking he either doesn't trust you, or thinks you're not capable enough to handle his big boy problems. He thinks it's protection, you think it's condescending, and both of you drive yourselves crazy. Good job 😊

🔮Suguru Getou:

On one hand, I don't think he has many red flags. On the other hand, I think the first statement is fucking bullshit 😊

You've heard of guilt free brownies? Right. This man is a guilt free manipulator. He does it so effortlessly that it's hard to notice. And it's not even about huge things. It's about very subtle things that make you think "its not a big deal". It's just convenient for him, so why not?

Sliiiiightly controlling. Again, it shows up in very, very subtle manners. You really really wanna go out to the club? Aww but it's so cosy inside already, and you said your feet were hurting anyways. You didn't? Come on, dont be silly. You just said it baby, you're so forgetful. Besides...I'm not in the mood to be out. Let's stay in baby, trust me, you'll thank me

Mild crash outs if things don't go according to his highly specific, often unachievable plans. He's very, very specific, and with his mild control issues, he's not exactly the best person to handle even slight mishaps or pushbacks.

🍵Nanami Kento:

Personally, I don't think he has as many red flags. Just very, very subtle ones that you can kind of overlook.

Mildly impatient, but in very specific scenarios. Don't get me wrong, Kenny is a patient man. It's just the slight things that has him clicking his tongue and narrowing his eyes, wondering when the fuck is shit gonna move. He really, really doesn't like when people take excessive amount of time to get ready, especially on simpler occasions. Also doesn't like when people take too much time making simple decisions. Indecisiveness in general is a massive piss off factor for him.

Mild tendencies to just shut off at times when he is stressed and under a lot of pressure. In general, I think he's not as good with communicating his feelings. He's often stuck in a moral dilemma between seeking comfort and help, or just continuing how it it's going and keep it inside, preferring to rather work his feelings away.

Feelings are just a government propaganda, aren't they?

🌻Hiromi Higuruma:

Kinda stuck in placing him either between Suguru and Kento, or below Kento.

I just think he has depression and needs therapy, and a hug. Or two. Or a hundred. That's not a red flag, obviously.

If there was a "bottling up your feelings and emotions and throwing the bottle as far as you can" contest, he would be the winner with a mile wide margin. He craves vulnerability and fears it just as much at the same time. He's simply unable to open up, and often cries out of the frustration that comes from this inability. It's a double edged sword, because it hurts you and him all the same.

Slightly like Suguru, he also has control issues and extreme anxiety that stems from them, but with Hiromi, it actually hurts him more than the people around him.

He can be self destructive, to the point that is genuinely becomes a little scary, especially for his partner. He also tends to just...stop physically talking if stuff is particularly bad.

The loss of hope is slowly dragging him into the ground 😊

🍭Atsuya Kusakabe:

Gonna dive right into this and say it, he can often come off as extremely lazy and as someone who does NOT like taking any sort of initiative. He's not that way actually, but his actions do come off as off putting at times, and the damage repair comes a little late. Worse if you're an over thinker, because he's the kind of person who let's shit happen if it's not directly causing any problem. So if you automatically take initiative every time, he let's you, not realising soon enough how it comes off as and how it might be extremely exhausting. He doesn't mean to, but...yeah.

A very subtle one, but can often feel like he sees and treats you like a kid rather than someone who shares equal footing with him in the relationship. He wouldn't get defensive if you call him out, but it takes a long time for it to tone down, and it still remains there anyways.

The slight "what doesn't harm me doesn't concern me" attitude can also be icky and annoying from time to time, but that again, is something that is highly subjective to the kind of person you, his partner, are.

💌Kamo Choso:

My bbg can never have red flags😭

I refuse to write shit for him lol, I genuinely can't find anything wrong with this cutie little baby.

Please marry me Choso😕

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