#astronons

In many cases, there are usually external forces at play that keep the pair from actually forming a long-term, stable connection whether it be pressure/rejection from society, disapproval from loved ones, distance, age/race/status difference, third party situations, etc. Between me and my Lilith guy, one of us is always single while the other isn’t so it just hasn't worked out. I also dated their best friend who I had Venus-Lilith synastry with...messy I know, but that's Lilith synastry for you! Those experiencing Venus-Lilith synastry know the connection might not last forever, but there's an almost instinctual urge to pursue it anyways.

Some Lilith-Venus duos in media:

-Harold and Maude

-Jules and Michael in My Best Friend's Wedding

-Olivia and Fitz in Scandal

Uttara Bhadrapadas aren’t literally close to death meaning they’re dying, but the concept of mortality is very comforting to them. They feel comfortable with the idea that there will always be a way out of suffering and that nothing is permanent. It is said that UBP represents what comes after an ending such as death, hence why these people frequently reflect on their impermanence in the world. This is depicted with the symbol associated with this nakshatra, the back legs of a funeral cot; coming to an end of life where the body is burned and begin the process of “purification”.

These people also frequently go through major transformations throughout their lives which in a way is a form of death. Transformation can be like shedding of the skin such as a serpent does which is the deity that governs UBP; Ahir Budhnya Samhita who lives in the deepest part of the ocean. This serpent of the depths is associated with the hidden depths of wisdom, endurance of hardships, and spiritual evolution which is why UBPs are incredibly deeply contemplative. UBPs are also in a constant state of deep sleep sitting with their unconscious— mind you all while being awake which is why they’re kind of hard to reach in other people’s eyes. Their relationship with death and sitting in these depths of contemplation are more valuable to them than anything in the material; it comforts and protects them from the overwhelming noise of the outside world.

I read on one of the blogs here something about UBP and sexuality. I have UBP asc and moon and rahu in ashlesha and venus in magha. And I always wonder if I should be on OF or have a secondary instagram or x account where I can post and earn money through it. As all Saturn nak born, I also come from a poor family. So I need money to feel free and independent. I do not support SW but I still crave doing this because of some weird reason. Could be rahu in ashlesha. I haven't even had sex with anyone before. And I don't plan to. Maybe that is UBP moon, the simple cow yoni eneRgy. I just wanna put my body out there. I also crave fame. Could be venus in leo.

Help me maybe. Thanks

Hi! I would consider challenging your relationship with sex work first before you decide to jump into something like that where most people in those communities identify as sex workers. Sex work just literally is a person who engages in sexual activities for profit. Sex work isn’t all bad, but it definitely isn’t all good either and you should probably weigh out the pros and cons first. The sacred prosititue archetype and the story of Vesta came to mind when you mentioned you don’t plan on having sex. Let me know what you think.

Claire Nakti recorded that many UBPs can have interest in sex work and have an inclination towards sexual expression in some form whether it be through music, literature, film, etc. so if you feel really called to do so, I’d entertain that idea. My aunt has UBP Asc and loves pole dancing which isn’t inherently sexual, but still can be used as a form of sexual expression. I have UBP Moon with Ashlesha Jupiter and I am a very sexual person and have considered sex work quite a few times.

Your Moon and Rahu are in the 5H of expression and creativity IN Ashlesha, a nakshatra with themes of seduction and sexuality which is probably why you feel such a strong urge to explore the idea of creating an OF. The thing with Ashlesha is that sensuality comes easy to them. They can easily seduce someone without directly being suggestive of having sex—this makes them less attached to sex in comparison to UBPs. I’ve known many UBPs to have some rather freaky fantasies so that could further explain the curiousity. You can totally have an OF in a detached way.

Because it's challenging. It takes a lot of working on oneself (self undoing) and facing the things about yourself you weren’t aware of. When someone enters your 12th house they can see and sense it all and can easily trigger you by pointing all your problems out or putting you in situations where sides of yourself come out that you yourself haven’t even met yet. Overall it’s uncomfortable. It’s kind of like having someone frequently hold up a mirror to your face.

It's someone entering your life who essentially can see all your vulnerabilities, pains, darker sides, sensitive spots, and hidden sides of yourself that you’re totally succumbed to. They see you past all of the things outside of you that you identify with such as your style, profession, your family, friends, colleagues, your possessions, your hobbies, your lovers, wishes, etc. which are what all the other houses represent. The 12th house is purely your subconscious; something you don’t really have access to unless you work towards unveiling it.

Top pick would be Mars in 8H because it genuinely makes me tweak every time...

Mars-Venus squares

Honestly any Lilith contacts I've had have been insane (mainly Mars-Lilith and Venus-Lilith contacts tho)

Rahu contacts in the worst way possible

Dated someone with the same Moon as me and it felt like I was dating a cousin LMFAOOO. They were a little too similar to me for me to comfortably date them and man dating another Pisces Moon made me realize how intense MY emotions were, like I’m Pisces enough for the both of us now there’s 2 of us?! Just 2 delusional sad people in a constant dissociative state deeply probing and asking each other how we feel about [insert complex concept here]. We both had the same ASC and Saturn in the 1H too which probably contributed to that super depressing energy, but yea it was a little too uncanny for me.

Good for friendships, but personally I don’t like it in a romantic context. We had very similar thoughts, beliefs and ways of approaching our environment, but overall it was like looking in the mirror and at the time it was super uncomfortable for me because I saw things in them I didn’t like which meant I possessed those same traits that I hadn’t accepted within myself. That relationship overall taught me a lot about myself and it was nice to be in our own little world for a period of time, but yea no I personally wouldn’t date another Pisces Moon again.