Creo que el aromanticismo todavĂa no estĂĄ bien establecido ni visibilizado dentro de la comunidad LGBTQ+.
Constantemente nos confunden con asexuales, y aunque ambas identidades pueden cruzarse, no son lo mismo. Casi nunca veo banderas aromĂĄnticas en los desfiles del Orgullo, ni fotos o representaciones en internet.
Es frustrante tener que explicar una y otra vez quiĂŠn soy cada vez que me interesa alguien. Y despuĂŠs de explicarlo siempre vienen los mismos comentarios: âEs que no has encontrado a la indicadaâ, âSeguro eres muy cerrado emocionalmenteâ, o directamente invalidan lo que sientes.
Estoy cansado de que parezca que mi orientaciĂłn es un âproblemaâ que se soluciona conociendo a la persona correcta.
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Oh Iâll say this. When I say âcrushâ Iâm still Aromatic spectrum. Itâs just my version of crush is a bit different than what others seem to describe it as. Itâs really complicated and Iâm still technically in the questioning phase. Just like yeah I could probably date. Itâs why I use aromatic spectrum and not other labels. I donât know if Iâm demi, cupio, or other things you know. I find it fairly easy to figure out sexual attraction, but romance is just confusing. Canât tell if itâs platonic or romantic crushing, or only sexual. Stuff like that.
ZoSan where Zoro doesnât really understand what his relationship with Sanji is.
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They argue and bicker a lot but he doesnât really feel any hatred towards the other man. Sanji flirts a lot and Zoro finds it amusing, especially with how everyone rejects him. They bicker even more at that, Zoro usually laughs and Sanji gets embarrassed so heâll argue back that Zoro doesnât pull anyone either. And Zoro just lets it go because he genuinely doesnât care. He has never been interested in being in a relationship.
But then, one time, Sanji actually pulls someone. For what seems to be the first time, he isnât being rejected.
And Zoro doesnât understand why but he doesnât like it. He doesn't understand why or how this should be any of his business, but he canât keep himself from thinking about it.
He thinks about Sanji kissing them, holding their hand or their waist. And he hates it â a weird, heated, feeling building up inside him.
Jealousy.
He recognizes it because heâs felt it before, but never in that situation. He felt jealousy with Kuina when she was better than him with swords, for example. But it quickly went away as it changed into respect towards her, and determination for him to get better.
This time it doesnât go away though. He still thinks about Sanji and his partner, and he still deeply hates it.
It's only then that he realizes what it means, what their relationship and the way they act mean. And more importantly, itâs only then that he realizes that he might not be as straight as he thought he was.
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đ aromantic-spectrum zoro is a very dear and important hc to me <3
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Send me a message about when youâd be able to and where you live (for timezone purposes) and Iâll add you!
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When you hear it every day, from everybodyâ
But you donât understand what they mean,
What they feelâ
You end up seeing yourself as
B
R
O
K
E
N
And not worth fixing.
Because there is a loneliness to
Not feeling the same as everybody else
(To feeling queer, like youâre so very, very different).
Like you just might be a
F
R
E
A
K
That everyone should avoid so they donât get hurt.
Because when every damn person insists
That an emotion is fucking universal and you donât feel it?
Then you must be a goddamn
M
O
N
S
T
E
R
And you donât deserve to feel it anyways.
Love love love love love.
Itâs something every damn person understands
(And yet itâs only ever romantic love they talk about
What about platonic
Or familial love? Do they
Not count?)
But some donât and they feel
Broken.
They feel like a
Freak.
They feel like theyâre a
Monster.
They donât realize that,
Nope,
Theyâre just a word not many know.
A
R
O
M
A
N
T
I
C
And worth everything anyone else is.
I don't understand the need to find romantic love
Or the seemingly constant crushes teenage girls haveâ
No, all girls.
Am I broken because I've never wanted more?
Never wanted to go on a date with youâ
Yes, specifically you (no one else will do)â
And proclaim my adoration for the world to hear!
Can't I do that with a friend?
"So any special guys/girls?"
âNot reallyâ
"Not going to the dance? Why, no date?"
âI don't want oneâ
"Of course you do!"
I think you mean, of course I don't.
I thought I was broken, so I lied and said they were right.
But now I know I'm not and they weren't.
I've moved past my ingrained fixation on loveâ
Romantic love, specifically.
I love my friends, I love my family.
And that's enough.
