it's kinda funny to me the way people talk about ex-partners or unrequited feelings as an aro-spec cause it's like. - i'm not ever dating anyone that won't just keep being besties with me after we split up - i'm not ever crushing on anyone that i won't just stay besties with if it ends up one-sided (or ending friendships with people who confess to me that i don't share feelings for) but everyone's talking about their horrible exes and friendships ruined by a confession....
















