Aromantic Support

Romantic and platonic feelings are so confusing sometimes. I want to be happy with someone, like a lifelong friend I get to cuddle with and kiss, but society makes so many things romantically coded that I have a lot of doubts on whether or not I'm even aro spec or not because of that desire

hi, ive been thinking about if i may be aro or not for a few years as i havent felt any romantic attraction in a long time. I recently decided that i am, but can i still be considered aro if in the time i was trying to figure myself out i forced myself to date other people? also is it possible that aromanticism can come from a traumatic experience? (sorry if i spelled some stuff wrong, english isnt my first language) Thank you so much!

When in your opinion is old enough to know you're aro/ace/come out as aro-ace

How can I tell aromanticism and depression apart? I don't really bond with people platonically either. I would like human connections, but they just don't happen to me. Am I turning my mental illness into an orientation? What if it doesn't go away?

Is it possible to be wtfromantic until I decide if I do feel attraction towards other people or is a completely different thing and I just may ever know. I have thought about aro for a while now and and came across wtfromantic. If I am wtfromantic then will I ever be able to know if I feel attraction or not?

Hi there! Am I still aro if I experience platonic attraction and occasional squishes? Also, do you know if it's common that aro ace folks have a hard time telling the difference between romantic and platonic attraction? Thanks!

I don't find anyone attractive is this normal? My friends will be saying ''this person is so fit'' and I have no idea what they mean. I have never found anyone attractive I think people could be cute but just in a friendly way. Could this be linked to me thinking that I am aro and ace?

I am not sure about if I am aro or not. I can't tell the difference between a squish and a crush. I have thought that I am aro for a few months now but I am still not sure. Is it possible that I am just to young to have a crush and know that I do or am I actually aromantic

[1/2] this isn't really a question or anything, but I recently came out to one of my friends as aromantic, and she was really awesome about it! since then, she asked if I wanted to join the dating site she's on and is making jokes about how "romantic" I am and I'm not sure if she's joking around or being a jerk. :( she knows that I'm not asexual so I thought that might be why she suggested dating sites - there is an option on the one she sent to me to just look for fwb but like I'm not sure what

Perks of orientations where you experience romantic and platonic attraction the same way: getting happy butterflies/ that supper predate excitement whenever you plan to go out with friends (having pre friend date excitement I guess? Idk) it's a great feeling and my understanding is that some people only feel it with their crush... Idk I love the feeling and I feel lucky to get it with friends as well as crushes

Is there a thing for people who initially feel romantic towards someone and then when you get to know them better it just becomes platonic?

You know that satisfying feeling when you finally put a name on what you're feeling? Thank god for the term "squish". Seriously! AHH it feels so good! I just wanted to share the fact that I'm really happy to finally figure this out.

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Hello. I have a problem, and need advice. I am arospike and acespike. This means that I don't feel romantic/sexual attraction easily, but when I do, it skyrockets to 10 and then plummets back down to a 0 later on (about a few months later). During my times of intense attraction, I've found myself looking at porn. I've blocked the porn side of tumblr all ready - that's taken care of. I'm struggling, though. I don't want to look at porn. Any tips on how to keep this addiction at bay?