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do you ever just look back at something an ex said to you and regret that it did not turn into a full blown fight

#whosebaby talks #this goes here because having an ex constantly say that if you like fluff; recovery; or improvement narratives of any kind #or just stories about trauma survivors that don't have Horrible Tragic Doomed Endings in general #that means you're a boring normie who doesn't really understand or respect abuse survivors; with a thin veneer of ~they're valid but--~#while the entire time talking about how I'm So Glad I Found Someone Who Agrees with This and Enjoys Exactly the Same Narratives I Do :)#and that characters i related to healing or becoming better people immediately made them boring and worthless to him #all while Secretly Indulging in Fluff as a Guilty Pleasure That Would Ruin His Image with me in private #fucked me up! it fucked me up quite a lot and pretty badly!#and there's still shit i really fucking struggle to write to this day as a result 🥲#anyway a) You are Not Immune to Being an Anti Just Because You Swapped Around Darkfic for Wholesome(tm) Content #b) i really wish i had started biting over that one instead of just uneasily accepting it because holy shit was it warranted lol #abuse cw #antis cw #the salt files #personal stuff

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Antis: Depicting a bad thing happening to an imaginary person is bad!

Antis: therefore, I will write a comment depicting bad things happening to a real person ^_^ this is not hypocritical at all :)

#in response to a comment i just got #fiction discourse #anti anti #pro ship #profiction #proshipping #antis cw #my posts #-responsible

Will there literally ever be anything funnier than an anti talking about how there needs to be “serious discussion” about darkfic “””solutions””” and then immediately blocking anyone who’s interested in having that discussion Anyway I’m willing to have discussions with antis as long as they: 1) Don’t lie about their aims. You never “just want” a single goal, y’all have a laundry list of “gross stuff” that none of you can agree on and that’s. the entire problem. If you can’t spell out what it is that you want, you don’t have a movement, you have a disgust response.

2) Don’t victim blame. For the past year I have been a victim of constant harassment, suicide baiting, sexual harassment, etc because of like literally 4 proshipping posts I have floating around. If you are unwilling to acknowledge the abuse antis have lobbed at me, we aren’t having a discussion, you’re victim blaming. 3) Don’t add to that harassment

4) Don’t block me? This is a practical one not a boundary, we can’t have a discussion if you fucking block everyone who’s willing to talk. You have to pick folks, either we have a discussion OR you block me, we cannot have both.

Or you could stop wasting everyone’s time and admit that you want a reason to abuse people and antishipping provides a convenient excuse and a group of enablers who will let you get away with it. I don’t know why I waste my time. In a combined 70,000 notes, not a SINGLE anti has ever wanted to have a rational discussion with me. I need you all to know that I have LITERALLY had better luck, as a trans person, making friends with Jordan Peterson stans than I have had making even a truce with antis.

#yes this is about the most recent reply :)#blocked me for calling them out for lying #classic #antis cw #anyway for the record I support all darkfic so long as it's tagged #I support marginalized fans talking abt problematic fandom trends as well #and I don't think anyone should get harassed over it #also not for nothing but that idiot really looked at my abolish prisons and the police blog title #and called me a LIBERTARIAN #buddy no #anyway fantasies aren't desires and that's that on that #and nabokov wasn't a predator so why should i assume random internet lady is #this is gonna blow up isn't it XD #i don't care anymore go ahead

Porn/smut of any kind is bad for your mind, health, and soul. For your own sake please consider stopping. I know you have a good heart and can be better than this.

okay so I know this was sent to several different people and the fact that I received it at all is probably pretty much random, but like

I just need you all to appreciate how wildly, hilariously off target this is, in every possible way. I mean. sending this to someone who is not just asexual (plenty of ace people like smut! but it’s also, uh, not the demographic you’d immediately associate with it!) but who has specifically said, more than once, that everything sexual is totally fine for other people but I personally have no interest in reading or writing smut? and who has written a grand total of two fics that could possibly be considered explicit, neither of which is actually intended to be sexy because they’re more about the whump (and for that matter, neither fic explicitly references anybody’s genitals)? and who’s also said at least once that actual sex is fine for other people but I personally am sex-indifferent at best and probably actively sex-repulsed?

straight-up, anon, I would have to start being into porn/smut to be able to stop, which is probably not what you had in mind

#Anonymous #conversations #I feel like this should have a content warning of some kind but I'm not sure what #antis cw #??

People on here will yell “fiction affects reality!” like it’s some kind of gotcha, but like, nobody is saying that it doesn’t. That’s not what this is about, you dumbass, the issue is that some people here seem to think that fiction and reality are the same thing.

Like some people’s understanding of media is so reactionary and obtuse, oh my God. And the culture here is inherently reactionary in a way that is bolstered by systems of social capital, so it just incubates that. But you have people on here in all seriousness being like “if you ship two characters who are related somehow then you are a bad person because that would be bad in real life”, and then when somebody says “but it’s not in real life though” they’re like “bitpch!!!!! FICTION AFFECTS REALITY!”

Like yeah, it does, but that doesn’t mean that exploring something in fiction is a fucking real-world endorsement of it. There are immature folks on here who can’t differentiate between enjoying things in fiction and thinking that they are healthy in real life, and honestly, that failure to understand the relationship between fiction and the real world and the role that exploration of fantasy scenarios can play for people says more about them and their lack of understanding and empathy than it does about people who ship Dersecest or whatever.

#not-terezi-speaks #not homestuck #antis cw #discourse cw

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Survivors matter even if they aren’t pretty and inspiring and don’t cope in ways that you give you the warm fuzzies. We matter even when our trauma is ugly, we matter even when we’re hurting too much to be inspiration porn fodder. Die mad about it.

#you won't BELIEVE how uncharitable local blogger can be!#antis cw #panic! at the discourse

it is legit so fucking depressing to have other disabled ppl come to me to talk to me/thank me for not shutting the fuck up about the beatrix wank because they’re upset. they know abled ppl have 0 fucking interest in listening to them and are quite content with erasing them as long as they can get theirs (as usual)

i was trying to play nice before but i hope that everyone who threw a shitbaby fit over this and flat out refused to take in any new information is happy with themselves. y’all made it come through loud and clear that it’s not about doing right, but about total social control of your fandom. especially since it didn’t even occur to you to critique gbx’s choices in depicting a very obviously disabled character the way they did. thanks.

#battleborn #beatrix lucavi #battlebarn #for everyone else #be very fucking wary of anyone who advocates not for proper tagging and categorization #(things that actually grant survivors the tools they need to keep themselves safe)#but for total elimination of content they find objectionable #(social control that comes primarily with splash damage on survivors who reject respectability politics)#it is a position that cannot be sustained without reliance on harassment campaigns and other social violence #ableism cw #antis cw

man i have not posted enough pericky-specific content lately. i need to fix that. partly because it's a quality ship i love very much, and partly out of spite because tumblr is a garbage website and blocking does not keep me from seeing popular blogs around who talk about murdering pericky shippers and people who just, like, acknowledge that it's canonical SA/CSA/domestic violence survivor rep lol

#whosebaby talks #eat my entire fucking ass!#love knowing these people are constantly one degree of separation away from me at all times #and like. even beyond the obvious. it is desperately fucking triggering to me to see this kind of survivor erasure with ricky in particular #if someone does it i do not want to be reminded of their existence ever again if even slightly possible #and the hellsite! is determined! to make me see it anyway!#times like these i wish with all my heart the nerve damage hadn't made any internet usage other than mobile impossible #i'm certain there'd be extensions to fix or even mitigate that! but my body's a broken piece of shit so i guess i'll go fuck myself then 🫠#anyway the last couple days have been hellish and i was just starting to get my equilibrium back from a different nasty tumblr-based trigger #so there goes what was left of my night and i am just. deeply fucking unhappy about it to say the least. and needed to vent #just. guh.#the salt files #SDMItag #venting cw #SA mention cw #CSA mention cw #abuse mention cw #anti-survivor cw #antis cw #death threat mention cw #i'm so tired

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