#annxiety

1. So... if it’s bad writing for them to think about people who are not in the scene first thing in the scene, how am I supposed to show that they are so obsessed with each other that the first thing they think of when something happens is the others even though they’re not there?

2. If it breaks POV to have a character analyze another character’s actions for emotional content/intention, how do I write socially anxious or socially adept characters who are reading others for emotion/intention constantly?  ((BONUS: I’m not to use distancing constructions, so I can’t say things like “She thought that meant X’, or ‘She wondered why Y?’ 

3. I don’t get it, how do you (you the actual person not a character) understand what’s happening in a conversation if your internal monologue doesn’t have this information in it?  Do you just not care what other people are thinking or feeling or am I missing something about the fictionalization of a character that means THEY’RE inherently not allowed to care what others are thinking/feeling?

4. If your characters don’t care what others are thinking or feeling, how do you write peer pressure?????????????????

Is what I have left with babe before he has to go to work.Thankfully,tonight is the last night for two days,because after the spat we had..we need a week of just snuggles and "Iloveyou"'s.

My anxiety is currently through the roof though considering there's a lot going on & Sadly babe can't be here all the time to ensure my panic doesn't get the best of me...so each day that he has to leave me here,I panic.