#akadiredefines

The book written by Simon Sinek about Starting with a why inspired me today as I was launching Akadi group. What the book teaches is that there must be a why for every decision, choice and intention. I am yet to complete the chapters but already I am nurtured positively with the wisdom of the book. Why is what inspires, what creates personal conviction & what brings a community…

Lately I don’t judge people, I am just keen to understand them. Dealing with disappointments as we celebrate mental health 2021 I’ve come to understand that people are stories shaped by experiences. However they are people we allow into our lives who cause us painful experiences. I am learning that the actions, words of any person is pegged to how they view the world, their upbringing,…

Adulting is for us to Fly 🕊️🕊️🕊️ I wasn’t feeling well, so I decided to check in with Aga Khan hospital. The feeling of being responsible for my life even when am weak and vulnerable crippled me. I remember how much over giving my parents have been with their time and resources for my welfare. My dad has especially has remained supportive. However there comes a time when you have to throw the…

When No one ‘fills’ your Gaps, There is a Greater sufficient God Above!

Families are supposed to be there for us. However sometimes you cannot bank on your family members let alone the people around us who we call,’ friends.’ Life has become very busy, tasks and challenges are beyond our control. People around us are becoming self centered unconstitutionally, ‘ Minding and managing my own business.” Many times we want people to be there for us. To hold our hands…

There’s so much about life but knowing the right people for you is wisdom. The trap that comes with wrong friendships and ties have deep consequences than we can ever know. First, the people who aren’t right for you, sway you away from your purpose and path in life. They take away your vision, goals and clarity slowly until you have no mission in life. You begin living in confusion and making wrong decisions while in their misery. The wrong tribe affects your peace, you become irritable all of a sudden. You seem anxious and you begin distrusting your intuition. The belief in yourself become thinly sliced to nothing. Lastly, the wrong people are silent enemies, they are often closer than we think. They see us, hear us and find ways silently to jeopardize our growth in life. They use manipulation, gaslighting and abuse to break us from the hopes we held hoping to realize our dreams someday. I pray you break free with the wrong people. May you stay strong on your divine path and trust God for He is the ultimate direction. Stay redefined! For special coaching, Mentorship and consultancy here’s my email [email protected]

Life on chance I am not proud of how life started for me. I once read a hospital brochure that mission’s in the mantra, ‘ Baby by choice, not chance’. This got me thinking whether my folks actually planned for me, or my conception happened, like they say, it was what it was? As an adult today I see the effects. The problem of chance is that it gets you unprepared, you don’t plan and worse like Myles Munroe said, you lack the wisdom of handling the situations conceived by chance. Myles extends to say, abuse in inevitable for the people and things we take for granted, ‘ by chance and not choice.’ Whether be work, friendships, careers, Education, it is wise to move intentionally in life with everything it brings forth. I understand we can’t plan it all, sometimes things happen, life happens. But even so, may that be the minority in your life. I strongly believe, if we started living by choice and taking less chances we shall become invincible, shaped to clarity for self actualisation. I believe you can start today, to reconcile like me with the times when the choices in your life happened by chance, and start living intentionally.

There days I wake up hurting, wondering if life will change for those in despair, broken with the people who ought to protect you. They said life was what you made it but what about the things beyond our control? Arrayed with covid-19 this season has been tough for us all. I write mostly to express myself and hopefully offload as I resonate with my readers. I write to heal. To experience new…