I was told that I would eventually
-Like make up
-Would want to shave my legs (who wants to shave their legs it’s tedious AF - my parents legit tried to shame me into doing this too when I’d skip it for a while)
-Would eventually want a boyfriend/husband (HA)
-Would eventually want kids (I’ll carve out my uterus with a rusty spoon first)
-That because I’m “female” I gotta sit/act/behave a certain way (I’ll end you. I’m NB aF)
-Would eventually be forced to carry a purse out of necessity (Got fucking yelled at for this too - not just by family. It gives me hella dysphoria.)
-Would change my mind and could not say for sure that I would NEVER want to date
A mix of all this (and a few others) was told to me from the time I was 8 to the time I moved out of my parents house and bought my own. I’m 32 years old now and there ain’t a damn thing on this list that I like or want to do. If this is just a phase then it’s a life long phase and I’m here to ride this bitch till I fucking DIE. Don’t let anyone try to dictate to you how you live your personal life. If you like doing any and all these things coolio homie you do you. Slay it like damn royal. But if someone tries to tell you to live your life according to what they find acceptable tell them to fuck off. (short of being a racist bigot guys come on work with me)
This has been a PSA from your local Agendered Aromantic Asexual. Thanks for tuning in.
