#afab things

oh how i Hate being percieved as a woman by men. i feel like there's a tangible line between being interested in me as a person (my values, sharing a talk or an opinion, y'know, getting to know eachother) and being Charmed by Womanness and i just. no. leave me alone lmao. like wdym you wanna know about my life, we've just met, you know nothing about me, it's creeping me out. stop agreeing with me about everything, i don't know you. i'm probably not being specific enough about this specific situation for it to make sense though

“I don’t like the term ‘people pleaser’. Who doesn’t want to please people?” …..said the people pleaser

Any of y'all feel a sharp pain in the side of your abdomen and be like "Ah, yes. The ovaries. Another one has been released."

I hate TikTok because I made a video saying that the fact that the only way to detect cervical cancer was to pry open the vagina and swab is ridiculous, and said there should be more options. And if we really cant get any other options, at least find a way to do biopsies through the skin like you would a liver or Lung biopsy for people who experience traumatic events and/or SA and cannot do vaginal exams and i got ATTACKED in the comments saying i was "so fucking dumb" and "dramatic". One person said that we had a system that works and "they have more important things to worry about" and it just goes to show that people really do not care about people the way they should. You should WANT other people to have good medical experiences. You should WANT people to have a positive relationship with medicine and doctors. You should want people to have OPTIONS when it comes to their health! One person said I was "embarrassing myself" after I said "options are so incredibly important, especially when dealing with procedures like this" and I genuinely cannot fathom how caring about other people is considered "embarrassing." It is not unreasonable to say that in this day and age, with how technology and medically advanced we've gotten, we should have more than one method to screen for cervical cancer in AFAB individuals.

i’ve always identified a lot with drag queens, and being AFAB i never really understood why. but after discovering myself to be enby, i see that my relationship to femininity is very similar — when i’m feminine, i’m performing (and i have fun with it too sometimes, like adding characters to outfits and such), and i wanted to see if any other AFABs felt the same :)

when you casually lay down and your pussy starts doing this heartbeat thing???? like what do you want bitch??? what is that? a "fuck me" alarm??