#afab problems

This is what I mean when I say TIFs are deeply ignorant to reality when it comes to the men that date them. They really can't see the danger.

In the above post, we have a TIF ranting about her "jackpot" of a boyfriend who openly encourages her to self-harm encourages her top surgery goals. She thinks this man is "joking" about literally wanting to see her get her breasts chopped off. I do sense the tiniest bit of discomfort here - hence why she's asking the FTMMen (which is for so-called "binary" trans men) community where they stand on it. Thankfully most are pointing out how wildly unethical this would be, but of course there are a handful that thinks it would be just wonderful for him to be there.

A medical issue that is debilitating or uncomfortable in your life is something to see a doctor about. You’re not dramatic for not wanting to be in pain all the time, for not wanting to feel terrible and tired and sick. Being in pain all the time is not just something that you’re supposed to live with.

the binary AGAB/ASAB terms were created with the intent of describing how doctors would mutilate newborns into being "proper females" (afab) or "proper males" (amab)... you dont wanna be using these! they're inherently tied to the medical malpractice involving newborn infants, toddlers, kids and teens. be mindful of that!

Like yeah, most transmasc folks don’t want to get pregnant and if they do it isn’t usually intentional but not all of us!!! And not only those who are more “fem presenting” either!

Masc presenting trans folks can also want to carry a pregnancy!

Anyone who’s trans can want to carry a pregnancy!

Anyway missing class again, hyperventilating on the floor, but good news : being on said floor made me think of worms wich made me think of birds wich made me think of the crows and just like that life is beautiful again :) oh power of special interest you are so real