#achool

I suppose I can relate to your situation. I wasn’t really one for getting out, myself. At least this gives me an excuse to be reading a lot more.

In some posts before, i post that Alchool and drugs, cause agression.

This is not because i have seen drunk people or drugged people, agreding people. Was because in one of my chat with GPT when i was asking about the causes of agresion to women. Chatgpt responded with the text you will see below, where it says that Alcohol and substance abuse are the second major cause of agresion to women. i believe the information to be correct. But was because of that chat that i wrote at one posting that Alchool and drugs cause agression. I don´t bring up things out of nowere. Ussualy if i write someting is because have some information of facts.

About Drugs, i will tell another event that i knew, There was a famous youtuber called or with nickanme Vitaly. I don´t know wich drugs specificaly he was taking at that event, but i though at the time it was drugs to increase and maintain is phisique like steroids or testosterone. The event was Vitallly was running in a beach doing is exercise and it is said by absolutly no provaction, discusion or reason. Vitally brough down a women that was also running and started punching her. He did not attack her to take sexualy advantage of her. It was because of the drugs. I guess he was high on muchrooms at least it is what is saying in the video.

here is the video if you have interest:

this news article was pratically all the information we knew at the time, i believe

https://people.com/crime/youtube-star-vitaly-zdorovetskiy-allegedly-attacked-female-jogger/

I guess it was not steroids or testoterone but muchrooms.

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This is the chat i was talking.

Your concern about not spreading misinformation is very good. The reality is more nuanced than many headlines suggest. The short answer is:

Globally, crimes against women have not dramatically increased overall—but they also have not decreased much in decades. In some places or types of crimes they are rising, while in others they are stable or slightly falling.

Let’s break it down carefully.

1. Are crimes against women increasing?

Global trend: mostly stagnation, not a clear increase

According to the World Health Organization and UN Women:

About 1 in 3 women worldwide (≈30%) have experienced physical or sexual violence in their lifetime. (Organização Mundial da Saúde)

That equals roughly 840 million women globally. (Organização Mundial da Saúde)

Progress reducing intimate partner violence has been extremely slow (only about 0.2% decline per year since 2000). (Organização Mundial da Saúde)

So the key point:

The level is very high, but it has stayed relatively stable for about 20 years.

2. Some types of violence are increasing

Even if the overall long-term rate is mostly flat, some specific categories have increased recently.

1. Conflict-related sexual violence

Wars and conflicts have increased violence against women.

The UN reported a 25% increase in sexual violence in conflict zones in 2024. (AP News)

This often happens in wars like those in Sudan, Congo, or Ukraine.

2. Domestic violence spikes during crises

Crises often cause increases:

economic collapse

disasters

pandemics

war

For example, research shows climate stress and disasters increase domestic violence rates. (The United Nations Office at Geneva)

3. Online abuse and image-based sexual abuse

A newer category:

About 22% of adults report some form of image-based sexual abuse (non-consensual sharing of intimate images). (arXiv)

This type of crime barely existed 20–30 years ago.

3. Important context: men vs women in violent crime

To understand the issue correctly:

Men are the majority of homicide victims overall (about 80%). (unstats.un.org)

Women are far more likely to be killed by partners or family members. (unstats.un.org)

Example:

About 51,000 women per year are killed by partners or family members. (un.org)

So the pattern of violence differs, not necessarily the total amount.

4. Why these crimes happen (major causes)

Research across many countries finds several major drivers:

1. Domestic power dynamics "(related to ego)" this was i that added.

Most violence against women happens in intimate relationships.

2. Alcohol and substance abuse

Strong statistical link to domestic violence.

3. Economic stress

Unemployment and poverty correlate with higher abuse rates.

4. Cultural norms

Some societies tolerate violence against women more.

5. Weak legal enforcement

In many countries:

police ignore domestic abuse

victims fear reporting

Only a small fraction of victims report crimes. (The United Nations Office at Geneva)

5. Solutions that actually work (according to research)

1. Early intervention in relationships

Programs that teach:

conflict resolution

healthy relationships

emotional regulation

These have shown measurable reductions.

2. Strong enforcement of domestic violence laws

Important elements:

restraining orders

police response protocols

specialized domestic violence courts

3. Economic independence for women

Women who have their own income:

are more able to leave abusive relationships

report violence more often.

4. Alcohol and substance abuse treatment

Reducing alcohol abuse strongly lowers domestic violence rates.

5. Cultural change

Long-term prevention includes:

teaching respect in schools

reducing normalization of violence in relationships

community accountability

6. A balanced conclusion

To avoid misinformation:

True

Violence against women is a major global problem.

Around 1 in 3 women experience it.

Also true

The rate has not dramatically increased globally in recent decades.

But progress reducing it has been very slow.

So the most accurate statement is:

Violence against women is widespread and persistent, but global rates have mostly stagnated rather than sharply rising.

If you want, I can also show you something interesting that many discussions ignore:

Which countries actually have the lowest violence against women — and why.

The answers are not always what people expect.

Looking at which countries have the lowest violence against women is actually very useful, because it shows what conditions reduce the problem. The patterns are clearer than many people expect.

Below are countries that consistently rank among the lowest for gender-based violence according to data from organizations like the World Health Organization, UN Women, and the Organisation for Economic Co-operation and Development.

Countries with the lowest violence against women

🇸🇬 Singapore

Often one of the safest countries overall.

Reasons:

Very strong law enforcement

Extremely low violent crime overall

Fast legal response to domestic violence

Strong social stigma against violence

Result: Very low homicide and assault rates for both men and women.

🇯🇵 Japan

Another country with very low violent crime.

Reasons:

Strong social norms against violence

Low alcohol-related violence compared with many countries

High social stability

Strict gun control

However:

Reporting of domestic violence historically has been lower, so some cases may be hidden.

🇮🇸 Iceland

Frequently ranked among the best countries for gender equality.

Reasons:

High gender equality

Strong social services

High reporting rates

Good victim support systems

Important nuance: Because reporting is high, statistics sometimes look worse than they actually are.

🇳🇴 Norway and 🇫🇮 Finland

These Nordic countries have strong protections.

Strengths:

well-funded shelters

strong legal systems

social support networks

economic independence for women

But interestingly, surveys sometimes show moderate domestic violence levels despite equality.

Researchers think alcohol and relationship dynamics may play a role.

🇨🇦 Canada

Lower rates than many countries but still a problem.

Strengths:

strong policing

victim support programs

legal protections

Challenges:

rural areas

indigenous communities facing higher risk.

The biggest factors that reduce violence

Across many studies, the same five conditions appear again and again.

1️⃣ Low overall violent crime

Countries with less violence in general tend to have less violence against women.

Example:

Japan

Singapore

2️⃣ Strong rule of law

If police respond quickly and courts enforce punishment, violence decreases.

Weak legal systems = higher abuse rates.

3️⃣ Economic stability

Economic stress increases domestic violence.

Stable societies reduce relationship conflict.

4️⃣ Alcohol culture

Heavy alcohol consumption correlates strongly with domestic violence.

This explains some differences between otherwise similar countries.

5️⃣ Support systems

Places with:

shelters

hotlines

social workers

counseling

allow victims to escape abuse earlier.

Something surprising researchers found

One of the biggest predictors of violence against women is general societal violence, not just gender inequality.

In other words:

Countries with high murder and assault rates tend to have high violence against women too.

So improving overall social stability and reducing crime helps women as well.

A realistic conclusion

Violence against women is usually not caused by one single factor.

It tends to appear where several problems combine:

economic stress

substance abuse

weak institutions

cultural tolerance of violence

lack of support systems

The countries that solve these problems the best tend to have the lowest rates.

If you want, I can also show you something very interesting that is almost never discussed in media:

Which countries have the highest violence against women — and what patterns they share.

The results reveal some important global trends.

This is an important question because many headlines say violence against women is rising, while long-term studies sometimes show stable or slowly declining trends. The difference usually comes from how the data is measured.

Research from organizations like the World Health Organization, UN Women, and the United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime highlights several reasons for this confusion.

1. More victims are reporting crimes

One of the biggest reasons statistics can rise is increased reporting, not necessarily increased violence.

In the past many victims did not report:

domestic violence

sexual assault

harassment

because of:

shame

fear of retaliation

police not taking it seriously.

As societies improve support systems (hotlines, shelters, legal protections), more victims come forward, which makes the numbers appear to increase.

Example: after the #MeToo movement, reports of sexual assault increased in several countries.

But researchers believe much of this was hidden cases finally being reported.

2. Legal definitions expanded

Another major factor is that what counts as a crime has expanded.

For example, many countries now criminalize:

marital rape

stalking

coercive control

revenge porn

digital harassment.

These were often not recorded as crimes 20–30 years ago.

So modern statistics count more behaviors than older ones.

3. Surveys are better than police data

Police statistics capture only reported crimes, which are often a small fraction.

Modern research uses anonymous victim surveys, which reveal much more.

For example:

many studies show only 20–40% of domestic violence incidents are reported to police.

When surveys improve, they may reveal higher rates than previously measured.

That doesn’t mean violence suddenly increased — it means measurement improved.

4. Social awareness changed

In earlier generations some behaviors were socially normalized.

Examples:

marital rape was legal in many countries until the late 20th century

some societies considered certain domestic violence “family matters”.

Today those actions are recognized as crimes.

As awareness rises, more people identify their experiences as abuse.

5. Media amplification

Media coverage can create the impression of a sudden surge.

If several cases occur close together, news coverage may create the feeling of a growing crisis, even if long-term trends are stable.

This effect appears in many crime topics, not only gender violence.

What the most careful research generally concludes

Across most long-term studies:

violence against women remains a serious global problem

progress in reducing it has been slow

but there is no clear global explosion in rates

The biggest pattern researchers observe is:

Violence against women tends to track overall societal violence.

When societies become safer in general, women usually become safer too.

✅ So the most accurate conclusion is:

The problem is still very large.

In many places it is not rapidly increasing, but not decreasing fast enough either.

Apparent increases are often due to better reporting and broader definitions of abuse.

About my opinion about Alchool Drinks.

I Don´t like the taste of most alchool drinks. Also have no intention of geting drunk, i know how to make myself happy, by cheaper, healthier methods involving a laptop and internet. Also i don´t use it to relax, i am 99.9 of times on home, if i want to relax i just cum. And btw contrary what nofap people think, Cumming is healthy and beneficial just check any doctor or specialist that will tell the same. Massages are also a great way to relax for me, but are not as pratical. You need someone to do the masage to you. I would also not smoke to relax for the same reasons as drinking alchool.

If you are outside home and want to relax this are some the ChaGPT, sugestions and the explanation why drinking to relax is not the optimal idea.

But again it´s your life as long as your are not hurting or damaging any one, you can do what ever you want. Not that i care, what any of you do with ur life.

Here’s the short version first: using alcohol to relax “works,” but it’s one of the worst long‑term relaxation strategies you can pick, because the brain pays a price every time. There are practical alternatives that relax you without harming your health or creating dependency, and yes — things like talking, laughing, or doing something enjoyable are often more effective than people think.

Now let’s go deeper, because your question touches several important points.

🧠 1. Does alcohol help people relax?

Yes — but only temporarily and only because it suppresses your nervous system.

Alcohol boosts GABA, the neurotransmitter that slows brain activity. That’s why people feel:

calmer

less anxious

more sociable

more “loose”

But this effect is short-lived and comes with a rebound: After the alcohol wears off, the brain becomes more anxious, more stressed, and more tense than before. This is why even small amounts can worsen anxiety the next day.

So alcohol is like borrowing relaxation from tomorrow — and tomorrow charges interest.

🍺 2. Is it a good practice to relax with alcohol?

Not really. It’s effective, but not healthy, and it trains your brain to depend on a chemical instead of building real relaxation skills.

People often underestimate how quickly this becomes a habit:

“I drink to relax after work.”

“I drink to feel comfortable socially.”

“I drink to sleep better.”

These are the exact patterns that lead to long-term problems.

😂 3. Are alternatives like talking, laughing, or telling stories better?

Absolutely — and they work for real biological reasons.

Natural relaxation methods that actually change your brain chemistry:

Laughing → releases endorphins

Talking with someone → increases oxytocin

Listening to music → reduces cortisol

Warm shower → relaxes muscles + lowers stress hormones

Light physical activity → boosts serotonin

Watching something funny → reduces tension

Breathing exercises → directly calm the nervous system

These don’t create rebound anxiety, don’t damage your sleep, and don’t build dependency.

And they’re just as “practical” as drinking — you can do them anytime.

🍷 4. How much alcohol does an average person need to feel relaxed?

This varies a lot, but here’s the general pattern:

Relaxation effect:

Usually around 0.25–0.5 standard drinks worth of alcohol in the bloodstream.

For most people:

1 drink → mild relaxation

2 drinks → stronger relaxation, mild impairment

3+ drinks → entering “drunk” territory

So yes, there is a window where people feel relaxed before getting drunk, but it’s small, and the line is easy to cross.

Also: tolerance builds fast. What relaxes you today won’t relax you in a month.

🧩 5. Why do people rely on alcohol instead of healthier methods?

Because alcohol is:

fast

predictable

socially accepted

easy

requires no emotional effort

Talking, laughing, or doing something enjoyable requires a bit more engagement. Alcohol is the “shortcut,” but shortcuts usually have hidden costs.

🔍 6. What do I think about all this?

I think your instinct is right: Using alcohol as the main tool for relaxation is a trap.

It works in the moment, but:

it worsens long-term stress

it damages sleep

it increases anxiety the next day

it can become a habit without you noticing

it doesn’t solve the real source of stress

Relaxation that comes from connection, humor, or enjoyable activities is:

healthier

more stable

more sustainable

and actually more satisfying

I saw this on Reddit first. It's so cool and impressive. The kids looked like they had fun building it and seeing it go down.

बड़ी खबर- जानें UP में किस दिन से खुलेंगे स्‍कूल और कॉलेज

लखनऊ : प्रदेश में बढ़ते कोरोना के संक्रमण के बीच यूपी में लॉकडाउन को पूरी तरह से खत्म करने के बाद अनलॉक-4.0 के तहत अब स्कूल-कॉलेज खोलने की तैयारी है | 21 सितंबर से 9वीं से 12वीं कक्षा के छात्र कुछ शर्तों के साथ स्कूल जा सकेंगे | केंद्र सरकार की तरफ से जारी गाइडलाइंस को ध्यान में रखकर स्कूल-कॉलेज खोले जाएंगे | बता दें कि गृह मंत्रालय ने 21 सितंबर से शर्तों के साथ कुछ उच्च शिक्षण संस्थानों को खोलने की अनुमति दी है | इसके तहत सिर्फ 9-12 के छात्रों को शिक्षक से सलाह लेने के लिए स्वेच्छा से जाने की अनुमति है | हालांकि, इसके लिए अभिभावकों की लिखित अनुमति होनी चाहिए |

ये होंगे नियम…

केंद्र सरकार की गाइडलाइंस के मुताबिक ही योगी सरकार अब 21 सितंबर से स्कूल-कॉलेज खोलने की तैयारी में कर रही है | स्कूलों में 21 सितंबर के बाद सिर्फ 9-12 कक्षा के छात्रों को शिक्षक से सलाह लेने के लिए स्वेच्छा से जाने की अनुमति है | इसके लिए अभिभावकों की लिखित अनुमति होनी चाहिए, जबकि 50 फीसदी शिक्षकों एवं अन्य स्टाफ को स्कूलों में जाने की अनुमति दी गई है | बीमार कार्मिकों एवं गर्भवती महिला शिक्षकों-कर्मचारियों के स्‍कूल-कॉलज जाने पर पूर्व की तरह ही प्रतिबंध लागू रहेगा |

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