ใปใปใป some will read this. some will not. of those who read this, how many will read the entire post? i have no way of knowing & will not speculate. there are some who take exception at the term sapiosexual. it is said to be elitist. i have even seen some refer to it as a sexual orientation. i find the latter odd & the former inaccurate. i identify as sapiosexual because of certain experiences in primarily romantic relationships & also some platonic engagements. the romantic experience is the most influential & like the hashtag indicates, it's minimally sexually physical. i honestly didn't realize how much of an issue it was/is until i recognized the significance of being intellectually disengaged in relationship situations. it absolutely has a detrimental effect on physical sexual engagement. elsewhere it was asked how are sufficient levels of intelligence determined to gauge sexual attraction/stimulation. intelligence is not easily quantifiable. IQ tests are not legitimate, for reasons not discussed here. so how does 1 identify authentic intellectual proclivity? answering this in a @facebook group, i suggested conversation & mutual interests are a viable means to estimate potential compatibility/engagement. it's not rigorously scientific, but i stand by this as a method. in a purely sexual interaction, intellectual compatibility may not be much of an issue. however, i find that boredom & detachment occur very quickly. sex under such circumstances is far less enjoyable. in some instances, masturbation is much more enjoyable than being physically sexual w/a partner who is intellectually under/unstimulating. this idea applies in platonic situations as well. a lack of engaging energies is an indicator for social distance in most if not all spaces. this is 1 reason why i have 0 personal social media presence whatsoever. likes are not conversation. emoticons are not conversation. i come from the days of people writing letters & messages in greeting cards, pen pals, & meaningful written notes in spaces. superficiality is blah. ๐คฎ๐คท๐พโโ๏ธ๐ ใปใปใป #99perSENSE #sapiophile #sapiosexual #THINK #doUPLAY #canUswim #itaintthatdeep #theskyisnotthelimit #thereisnobox (at Philadelphia, Pennsylvania) https://www.instagram.com/dayvtvaune/p/BzHhcBWDhao/?igshid=aw7w61ursoc4
