I think it's not just aromantic people, but it really really is so that romance is overused in media.
One of the very things why it is this way is because it sells well, it is usually added for plot. but sometimes it's the MAIN thing, like Hollywood can you just stop. And everyone knows already that the relationships are soooo unrealistic, like ofc not my crush whould literally save me from a dragon while million's of civilians are hurt (in that universe(wait no, because everything is somehow made by children, people that don't get paid enough, or the job is too risky, or just all of em'!(Also there's still genocide in other countries and I'm talking about a fictional population dying, but on another note. It feels like they only use war or genocide when the mainprot is white, isn't a group alot of people hate, Christian or like non religious or smt, a made up race that doesn't exist & most of the time a man))), well anyway, nobody is probably going to make the perfect food for you, make the weather move for you, make you perfectly happy and fully content 24/7. Like they'll try their best but nobody can do those things for you.
And it's kinda unrealistic that almost all of your problems except one are fixed when you get together with someone. And even if your partner fixes all of your problems, it shouldn't be that way, you should fix your problems ALONE, I'm just saying if they leave your old problems will just come back and you will also be heart broken.
And like there aren't that many people that are like super duper attractive, there just such a little chance to get somebody that looks like the rock or Zelena Gomes.
I'm just saying it's overused, cheesy and only used for money.
I might be a bit one sided because I'm arojump but who cares it's flipping crazy how much they use it.
