To the people who are unknowingly hurting themselves from toxic advices
i am sick I AM SICK. SICK of those people giving others toxic advices
PLEASE LET ME. Let me clear this unbelievably common, toxic mindset some people are keep spreading as an advice
The post I captured below is what advice & mindset I’m currently talking about. The whole accountability and victimhood stuff….it honestly really saddened me thinking of people who might’ve genuinely thought whatever awful things that happened to them had happened because they made it happen
Before I start this, I want to state that I’m not trying to personally attack whoever wrote this post or someone who wrote a similar post. I see where this person got this idea from, I see why he wrote it. But unfortunately, I have to say it very much stains the whole concept of shifting and I wish to correct it, coming from a person who wasted years with a toxic mindset myself.
If you shifted with that specific mindset then I’m genuinely happy for you, Congratulations! You don’t have to read this post in that case!
This is gonna be a long post cause I’m gonna add some general explanations along.
1. Do you make EVERYTHING happen in your life?
First of all “…Complain about whatever fucked up shit you created for yourself”?
Oh I get it. “Your current physical world is an embodiment of your current/past assumptions”. (this IS true btw) But does that mean you created those bad events to happen to you? You’ll have to assume those bad events are going to happen in order to do so.
Did you assume that whatever bad thing is going to happen? Did you assume that some president is going to start a war before it happened? Did you assume women in Afghanistan are going to suffer before it spread on media for people including you to be aware? Did you assume my uncle is going to pass away two years ago? Or whatever shit you went through, did you assume it? Were you so SURE for it to happen?
By the way ASSUMPTION, is a thing that you accept as true, certain to happen without proof. Not your intrusive thoughts, not your fear, not your sadness, not your any feelings. Assumptions. Strong beliefs that can be accompanied with feelings.
Now that you know what assumption is, did you really assume those bad things are going to happen to you? Did u have so much trust in it to happen?
Think carefully again if you’re not confusing your intrusive thoughts with assumptions.
Yes. We had and have lots of assumptions in our lives. Those are all seeds that can grow into a whole reality. It can. NOT always, inevitably without a doubt. Before you throw tomatoes at me, what I mean by this is that— not all your uncertain, small assumptions grow into reality. Imagine how messed up our lives are gonna be if every single unsure assumptions of ours become reality. I don’t think shifters call those uncertain assumptions actual ASSUMPTIONS in the first place. Assumptions shifters generally refer to, is strong beliefs that you actually ‘plant on the ground’.
Simply think about it, imagine you’re in your DR right now. There are certainly gonna be rainy days in your DR too not always sunshine and rainbows, you can experience unexpected inconveniences sometimes (unless you script otherwise). Why would that happen even though you shifted to your DR? Did you make that happen too?
2. Then what does “It all happens from your assumption” kind of logic truly means?
“It all comes from your assumptions” What assumption are we talking about here in the first place?
It’s the ‘logic’ itself that we’ve been carrying, assuming since birth (before we discovered shifting). Something like “I’m stuck in this reality” or something like “I have to go through this.” , “I have to…” , “I should…”.
By assuming that logic all your life before now, you’ve been leaving reality on “auto pilot”. Not really making anything happen because you didn’t realize how much power you truly held in this reality. You probably did manifest somethings without knowing but you weren’t “intentional” with it nor you were conscious of it.
You had been assuming the 3D tells you what is happening, believing so strongly that the 3D defines you which led the 3D reflect exactly how u view it. A truck without a driver, just driving through roads wherever it takes you.
Therefore you didn’t create some shitty things for it to happen to you. Whatever happened to you? NOT your fault. It just happened as the truck drove on itself. You just didn’t know you could drive the truck. You thought the truck was supposed to be on auto pilot. Please Get this into your head. You don’t have accountability for whatever bad happened to you..
If you’re gonna tell me despite all that it’s still your fault for ‘letting them happen’ by leaving it on auto pilot…. In that kind of view we can keep moving the blame to the bigger reasons until we reach its the universe’s fault for existing in the first place.
You can even leave your DR to go on autopilot except for special occasions unless you’re gonna choose what is going to happen every millisecond. It’s not wrong. It is natural. In your DR you ARE definitely going to go through unexpected inconveniences sometimes, perhaps something annoying can happen sometimes. Do you make that happen? Is it your fault? No. It’s just reality being reality when you’re off handle.
What’s important is that you know you can drive the truck whenever you want now. That you realized you were naturally able to drive it from the start. That you could drive it wherever you want.
Trust yourself with that steering wheel. Grab the steering wheel when you want to, know where you want to head to. Trust when you tell yourself you can drive no matter the path shows you no difference. Don’t let go of the handle just because the path doesn’t seem like changing. YOURE GETTING THERE. DRIVE GURL. DONT LET GO. YOU ARE GOING TO ARRIVE. SOON. MAYBE RIGHT THIS SECOND.
Just stay in the state that you know you have everything you desire so the 3D could reflect your inner self. The 3D does NOT dominate you.
3. “Don’t like it, Don’t accept it, Then it never happened” ?
This is actually true! Sure, if you don’t like what had happened in the past, you can indeed not accept it, make it a thing that never happened. But there are things I want to clear to prevent misunderstandings.
Many shifters say, be persistent by not reacting(accepting) to your 3D. This is not a wrong. You definitely should do this, but I’m doubting some people are getting this “not reacting to your 3D” concept wrong.
What they meant by “Don’t react to your 3D” is —to not slam yourself when you see your CR in the morning, to not immediately think of what you did wrong or worry if it’s not working when you see your CR, to not give 3D the power to tell you that you’re not in your DR, to not give 3D the steering wheel. Know that you are already in your DR and be consumed by it.
YES. You can manifest whatever happened in the past didn’t happen. You can revision them. The past and future doesn’t exist after all. BUT you still did experience it. You are allowed to have feelings and thoughts about what you experienced.
You are traveling, experiencing multiple realities with one and only awareness. You are above it all. Though why are you beating yourselves for having thoughts and feelings when it comes from a CR experience? Your CR isn’t special. Your CR is a reality just like your DR is.
Yes, you have to focus on your DR thoughts and DR feelings in order to shift to you DR, but it doesn’t mean your CR thoughts and feelings has to be immediately ignored, pretended it doesn’t exist at all. Don’t try to escape them, you are making them chase you. They are not enemies. GO THROUGH THEM. Think, feel, worry about it, and then tell yourself those things you’re worrying about are taken care of, and naturally send them away. TALK TO YOURSELF. Have proper conversations with yourself about what you’re currently feeling. Aloud? In your head? I don’t care. Tell yourself where you’re gonna be tomorrow, so those worries are gonna be taken care of soon, how you know you already have everything you want so the 3D is going to reflect that instantly, that it is going to be okay. You’re worried you’re gonna wake up in your CR tomorrow? Okay, take care of this cute worry. Tell it that your 4D is currently in your DR so the 3D HAS TO FOLLOW while you’re asleep so there’s no need to worry.
Spend time as much as possible until your mind feels comfortable and readied without feeling chased.
This is why some shifters recommend meditating. They simply go through those thoughts instead of impatiently pushing them away until their brain goes silent while meditating.
Don’t make yourself panic and blame yourself every time you have negative thoughts and worries. It’s okay to have them because they can’t affect you anyways
You are a goddamn human. You are so powerful, but you are a human. You are going to have those feelings, thoughts, worries in your DR too, they are not wrong for god’s sake!! It is NOT A DAMN VICTIMHOOD.
Take care of what you feel, what you think, then send them away when you’re ready and then start to fill them with your DR feelings and thoughts. Oh god I can’t explain how easy it’s going to feel for you after that.
Two years ago, I strongly believed those feelings and thoughts from my ‘CR’ would stop me from shifting. I was so convinced somehow that once I think about it too long, something is going to take me away and I would have to start over. I spent a year, escaping from my worries. This is not an exaggeration btw, I really spent a full year lying to myself, trying to trick my brain. Trust me, it messed up by brain, it felt like I was draining myself by restraining my rightful emotions and thoughts that deserves to be taken care of, every second.
Understand that your awareness did experience your CR, and when you’re shifting to your DR it’s simply switching its focus to our DR selves. Do not be afraid of your own thoughts and feelings coming up to the surface. You are the one observing all of them, you don’t have to panic or fear it’s gonna trap you here.(it can’t)
Shifting is not brainwashing yourself you were never in your CR and pretending the CR never even existed.
Shifting is simply switching your focus to your DR.