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butch4butch and it's just us passionately making out. hands already everywhere before we've even figured out what's coming off first. fingers finding buttons and giving up on them. pulling at hems instead. mouths barely separating long enough to get anything over anyone's head. neither of us willing to be the one who breaks the kiss first so everything takes twice as long and neither of us care.

packer play is so underrated. wearing it around the house to see if they’ll notice, inevitably pushing up against them from behind or guiding their hand to brush your crotch. seeing the realization kick in as their pupils dilate and face flushes.

what I mean: "sexual intercourse" is as much a social construct as "romantic courtship," and you discover this very quickly as a queer person if you try to talk to able bodied straight cis people who literally think the only thing that counts as Actual Sex is penis-in-vagina penetration, like they call oral "foreplay" it's so dire. various people have a lot of vested interest in cleanly defining "sex" vs "not sex" for a whole slew of reasons (ex. censorship dodging and enforcing, conferring the social clout of virginity and prowess, finding and closing loopholes about premarital sex, deciding what relationships "count" as serious partnerships, ligating what is general assault vs sexual assault vs Something That's Definitely Probably Fine And Not Sexual At All, Actually, etc.), and it's really not something you can just fall back on as obvious common sense that people are dumb for questioning.

being dominant about consent

Going directly from what the average person I know in real life thinks constitutes kinky sex to what the average person I follow on Tumblr thinks constitutes kinky sex like

Average Neighbor: Kink is when you pretend to hurt each other :(

Did you ever do something with quiver and a how to for shibari? Love your art ♡

Meeting someone who likes to suck t dick is like meeting heaven. Like, yeah, my dick is tiny most of the time (except for those times when I get so horny that it starts to stick out somehow), but you would still suck it? You would still give it long licks and try to put it in your mouth? You would still hold it between your fingers while you suck it, and with your other hand hold my hips because I never feel this much pleasure, so I'm going nuts? You'll still call that the first time you gave me a blowjob instead of calling it cunnilingus or some other bullshit? Tell me the difference between that and heaven, I'll wait.

Thinking of posting that somno story thing I wrote a hot minute ago...

WHAT I NEVER DID?!