Few life lessons!!!
Few years ago I started writing down my feelings…. I opened my tumblr account and as you all can see… how dark my mental space was. I was going through very disturbing phase of my life.
Growing up years during college was very dramatic and emotionally disturbing and draining for me.
I had career issues, financial issues, emotional issues, I was feeling as if I am failing myself as well as my parents. I was unsure about my growth. I doubted myself.
Still through this mental grinding I was pushing myself hard. The positivity in me was shining inside me and I kept working. That positivity was in me due to the way I was brought up or the fighting spirit which was in my genes.
I cried, I screamed, I hustled hard to fight all those negativity and slowly started emerging.
Five years ago I dreamt of few things, which at that point of time were near to impossible for me. I never knew where I was going, what the result will be but I kept on working on myself.
The biggest support was my spiritual mind and a very supporting friend (now my husband) who were there to calm my nerves whenever I broke down.
Five years later, today I can proudly say I came out of many things. At this point of time I can say I have achieved whatever I dreamt of. I have ticked off most of my then bucket list.
No matter how hard your life is, there’s definitely end of sufferings. After darkest hours,comes the dawn.
On present scenario of mental health, depression and increase in no. of suicides I wanted to show case my struggle for a better life and how it is achievable. There’s a dialogue in some famous bollywood movie “insaan usi din mar jaata hai, jis din uske sapne mar jaate hain” and this is so true. I have felt it. So never stop dreaming. Always make priority to list out things that makes you happy. Happiness and peace is very important in life…. That doesn’t mean that life will be a smooth road. With out ups and downs is even called a life.
Even after achieving what I planned or dreamt of, on today I have millions and zillions of issues running through my life and mind , problems will come and go but we have to move on with them.
Spirituality is a very important aspect of life, which has made me much calmer now a days in spite of several issues, we learn to grow through that and find our way. For example, when a stream starts from mountain it faces a lot of hurdles in its way, still it never stops, cutting through them passing through them finally it meets its destination. Likewise our life is like that.
The biggest problem now days is holding on to something or some memory for too long. Letting go is summation of life.
Never stop believing in yourself, which is the thing I did myself, I always pushed my inner self to believe that anyhow I am going to make it through this hardship.
Even now also I keep myself engaged in different hobbies and creative things… so that I can be occupied and not allow negativity affect me.
There’s a lot of things going in the social media, we have to choose our contents wisely and maintain good algorithms and stay away from the negative content. I have made myself a set of rules in social media” IF I DON’T VIVE WITH FEW INFLUENCERS OR SEE SOME NEGATIVITY SPREADING THROUGH THEM I UNFOLLOW THEM IMMEDIATELY” I do not have a facebook account and I think that’s the best thing I did while growing up. Facebook is just another rat race of show off, which takes a heavy toll on your mind.
People tend to show off their high points of their life not the problems, as a result of which others think the formers life is a candy land with unicorns and tinker bells. This ultimately takes on the laters mental health.
Social media, influencers and all others are playing the mind games with you.
Anyways there’s always light at the end of the tunnel, so keep going you will come out defeating all the negativity.
.KEEP DREAMING, KEEP HUSTLING.
